A young Australian woman who sleeps with married men has revealed why she doesn’t feel guilty or consider it “cheating”.
Katija Cortezfrom Sydney, finds dating difficult and says she is richer and more successful than most men she knows.
The 28-year-old accountant-turned-escort told FEMAIL that it is “hard to say” how many married men she has been intimate with in the past three years, as it is considered “unprofessional” and “mood-killing” to talk about relationships with customers.
However, in his experience, most married men speak highly of their wives and often do not consider paid sex to be cheating.
‘I would say around 50 per cent of my clients are married or in a relationship. It’s hard to say for sure, though, because I’m sure plenty of people are in relationships that just don’t bring it up. Other girls have told me that almost all their clients are married,” Katija said.
Katija Cortez, from Sydney, finds dating difficult and isn’t sure exactly how many married men she’s slept with
The 28-year-old high-flying escort (pictured with a friend) told FEMAIL that the married men she sleeps with often speak highly of their wives or partners.
‘Denying someone a service based on their marital status would be considered discrimination in any other industry.
‘I don’t think I’ve ever had a married client who has ever spoken ill of his wife. The only ones who ever show frustration with their partners are those who go through messy divorces, but even then most of the time they talk very politely about their partner.’
Katija, who was once an accountant at one of Sydney’s big four firms, said men who are dissatisfied with their sex lives at home look for escorts because it is “easier and more discreet than having an affair”.
She stated that adventures come with baggage and feelings, whereas in her industry it is purely physical.
‘I don’t like to call it cheating when a married man sees me, because there’s no romantic feeling involved. “They come to me because they want to laugh, be hugged and please,” he said.
Katija, who was once an accountant at one of Sydney’s big four firms, said men who are dissatisfied with their sex lives at home look for escorts because it is “easier and more discreet than having an affair”.
Katija stated that affairs come with a baggage and that there are often feelings involved, whereas in her industry it is purely physical. “I don’t like to call it cheating when a married man sees me, because there’s no romantic feeling involved,” she said.
And it seems Katija knows exactly what married men want besides sex.
‘In fact, I am very touched when clients speak fondly of their partners. The reason they see me has nothing to do with them not loving their wives and their family,” she said.
‘All [some men] What I want from myself is intimacy, to be held, hugged, kissed, hugged. In fact, I’ve been surprised how many men want these intimate things that are often considered things only women want.
“I think a lot of women don’t realize that most men are just as sensitive and vulnerable as we are, and that they also crave intimacy.”
Another reason married men might turn to an escort is because their marriage is in trouble or they are going through a divorce.
“Or sometimes they just don’t like each other much anymore and are described to me more as ‘roommates’ than husband and wife, but they will stay together for family reasons,” Katija said.
He also has a message for his married clients’ partners.
‘Wives need to understand that we sex workers are not going to stalk married men and drag them to our hotel rooms. Married men willingly seek us out. We are not the problem,’ she stated.
‘Problems always start at home. I don’t encourage cheating, but I also don’t believe in monogamy, because I’ve seen time and time again that truly faithful relationships are rare.’
She stated that male escorts also have clients who are married women who “cite the same issues” of dissatisfaction about their sex lives with their husbands.