It seemed like it was going to be a cute rom-com reunion in the making, but it resulted in a lesson in romance learned.
When the TikTok user Pam went up to the platform Searching for a man she had met at a Chris Stapleton concert, she didn’t expect it to turn into a multi-part saga.
Pam, who is single for the first time in almost 40 years, recalled the moment she met the mystery man at the concert in Burlington, Alabama.
“I was in the pit, which is right in front of the stage, and I met some cool women around me; it was so much fun,” she shared.
However, just before Chris Stapleton went on stage, a man approached her and immediately approached her.
When TikTok user Pam came to the platform looking for a man she had met at a Chris Stapleton concert, she didn’t expect it to turn into a multi-part saga.
“(He was a) big, tall, beautiful, magnificent man,” she said cheekily. ‘(He) said, ‘I’ve been here since 5 o’clock and I’d like to get back to the front where my place was.’
In response, Pam told him to simply ask the people around him to move. However, instead of following her advice, the man put his arm around her waist.
‘He kept looking at me and I said “hey”, and he kept standing there.
“Before I knew it, he put his arm around my waist and said, ‘I think I’ll stay here,'” she recalled in surprise.
Pam, who has been single for less than a year, admitted she was surprised by his audacity.
“And instead of saying, ‘I’d love to,’ I was just flabbergasted.”
After their exchange, Pat said the man walked away. “And I want to find this man,” he added.
Her video went viral and started a series, in which Pam desperately tries to find the man, only to hear from a woman who thinks she knows him a few days later.
“She said, ‘I wasn’t far from you. “They were standing right next to us, we actually talked to them,” Pam said. People.
Pam, who is single for the first time in almost 40 years, recalled the moment she met the mystery man at the concert in Burlington, Alabama.
And I asked him, “Are you single?” She said, “No, he’s married. His wife was there with him.”
After chatting with the woman, Pam confirmed it was him and was surprised by his audacity.
“I found it very strange that a married man would approach a woman like that with maybe six people standing between them and their spouse,” he told the publication.
Some TikTok users wanted Pam to track down her wife and let her know what her husband was doing, but Pam said she “doesn’t like to destroy relationships or marriages.”
‘I didn’t make that event happen. I was standing in one place for five hours and he approached me, so I didn’t feel like it was my job to contact his wife. And nothing happened,’ he said.
Her series sparked a conversation about dating in the modern world, and Pam was shocked by how much has changed since she dated her ex more than 40 years ago, describing it as a “bleak scene.”
‘You eliminate the scammers and the people who are too far away, with whom you have things in common, and you are left with singles who feel desperately alone. “I’m trying to find a way to move it from behind a phone to a face-to-face one,” he explained.
He added that the days of meeting in person seem to have “completely disappeared.”
“I think it’s gotten worse in recent years because people are very afraid of being vulnerable and going out, trusting again,” he hypothesized.
Although disappointed, Pam says the experience helped her understand what she’s looking for in the future and what to watch out for.
‘You have to do different things. I was very afraid of traveling alone and I’m doing it now, because it takes me out of my comfort zone. That concert was the first time I went to a concert alone. I loved it and I will do it again,’ he said.
‘You have to swallow that confidence pill and go out and do what you want and be happy. Just live your life.’
