A woman took to social media for advice after facing a major dilemma.
She recently befriended someone who is getting married and even got an invitation to the wedding.
However, the bridesmaid dropped a bombshell on a night out, leaving her conflicted over whether she should tell the bride.
Miami’s Karo Aprano explained the whole story on TikTok, sparking a wave of comments insisting she was “doing the right thing.”
The video, which was published under his hand. @karoapranoIt has already been seen by more than a million people.
A woman took to social media for advice after facing a major dilemma.
She told her followers: ‘There is some wedding drama in my life right now that I need to share. Then I became friends with this girl who was getting married and she invited me to her wedding.
‘I’m not in her bridal party, we literally just met and became friends, but she has been asking me out with her, her bridesmaids and her entire bridal party.
‘Just to meet people and meet people who are going to be at the wedding and make friends with their friends.’
Surprised, Karo went on to reveal: “Last weekend we went out and the bridesmaid told me that the groom had slept with the bride’s sister and the bride has no idea, and is willing to do it again.”
‘So I’m there like, woah woah, I don’t need to know this information, I don’t want to know this information, you’re putting me in a really awkward situation.
‘Can we go back to five minutes ago when I didn’t know this? Because I didn’t want to know this and I still don’t want to know this.
‘The girl who is telling me this is the bridesmaid, she is the girl closest to the bride. I’m there like you have to tell her that she’s getting married in about two weeks, you can’t let her marry this man.
‘She says no, I can’t do it and I tell her you have to do it, you have to tell her. “She keeps saying no, I’m not going to do it, I’m not going to tell her, I’m not going to ruin her wedding or her relationship with this guy she’s been with for so long.”
Miami’s Karo Aprano explained the whole story on TikTok, sparking a wave of comments insisting she was “doing the right thing.”
The TikToker asks: ‘How are you going to let your best friend marry a guy who has not only been with his sister but is saying he’ll do it again?’
However, despite her best efforts, she was unable to convince the bridesmaid to tell the bride what she knew, leaving the pressure on herself.
Karo comments: “As for the sister, that’s another story and it’s crazy, it’s disgusting, I don’t understand people who do that. But that’s something else.
‘Imagine in the middle of the club, she’s telling me this information and I’m like, aren’t you going to tell her?
‘Of course I feel very uncomfortable now, right? Who am I to tell him that? I barely know this girl.
‘I met her a month ago, I won’t be the one to tell her that her fiancé is with her sister. You can imagine?’
She reasons, “Half of me wants to tell because of girl code, I’m really good at that, but the other half of me is like, I don’t know her like that.”
“I feel like that’s none of my business, I feel like I, of all people, should be the last one involved.” You shouldn’t even know this information.
More than 2,500 people took to the comments to share their own opinions on the situation, many of whom think the TikToker is making the wrong decision.
“Maybe it was me who was told that because I’m the irrelevant group in the group, which means I’m the new one, I’m not really close to anyone there.
‘Sometimes when girls have tea (gossip) and know they can’t tell it but want to vent, they go and tell the irrelevant party.
“Which is exactly what I’m doing now because I couldn’t hold back this information.”
Finally he concludes, “So I’ve been thinking back and forth all day thinking, I shouldn’t tell him, should I?” No, I’m not going to tell him.
‘I’m not going to be the one to do that. First of all, maybe you don’t even believe me. I am not going to do it’.
However, more than 2,500 people took to the comments to share their own opinions on the situation, many of whom think the TikToker is making the wrong decision.
One user wrote: ‘They told you for a reason. You have nothing to lose because you don’t really know these people. Tell him and then tell everyone who knows.’
A second agreed: ‘Maybe they put you in his life for this reason. You don’t want it to happen to you. If the friendship ends, that’s okay. You just met. Save her.’
Meanwhile, a third suggested: “Write her a note and don’t sign it,” and a fourth added: “Girl you have nothing to lose, do it because it’s the right thing to do.”
However, one viewer chimed in: ‘I once told a best friend that her boyfriend was cheating on her. She took her side. We never spoke again. Lesson learned. Never say it.’
Another agreed: ‘My mom caught her close friend’s husband with another woman at the movies. “Her friend took the husband’s side and she didn’t believe it.”
Concerned, someone else asked: “What happens if he sees this video?”, and a second added: “That’s what I was thinking.”
Someone else advised: ‘I would have told her that the maid of honor told me that your sister is sleeping with your fiancé.’ That would make her face all three of them.’