- Podcaster apologizes for ‘unforgivable’ sexual act
- Gary Jubelin’s ex-lover said he would answer the phone
- But fellow homicide cop Pam Young says he was a “very passionate lover.”
Former police officer Gary Jubelin has apologized to his ex-lover for an “unforgivable” act during sex: answering his phone during the throes of passion.
Jubelin conducted a remarkably candid interview with his ex-girlfriend, former homicide detective Pam Young, during a discussion on the ‘I Catch Killers’ podcast this week.
The detective, who was removed from the investigation into William Tyrrell’s disappearance in 2019, asked Young to name the best and worst parts of living with him.
Ms Young, who has worked on murder cases such as the alleged gay-hate death of American maths student Scott Johnson, responded that he was “a very passionate and generous lover”.
Jubelin responded: “I wasn’t expecting that, but thank you.”
Former homicide cop Pam Young opens up about the details of her sex life with former William Tyrrell cop Gary Jubelin.
Although Young described Jubelin as a passionate lover, she complained that he was always answering calls from informants or others during their sexual encounters.
She continued, “The bonus was that you were also good at cleaning the house, so that combination was perfect.”
Jubelin interjected: ‘What were the problems of living with me?’
Young responded, “definitely the fact that every time we had sex, your phone rang.”
—Which you can understand: busy cases, guards and all that. But it was the fact that you responded, Jubelin.
“That is inexcusable, disrespectful and very disappointing.”
Grinning from ear to ear, Jubelin replied, “They were important phone calls.” Half the time they were informants,” to which Young chimed in, “when the other activity wasn’t, thank you!”
Jubelin responded: ‘Ah shit, I’m digging myself in a hole.’ Anyway, I’m sorry that Pam publicly said that she apologized for answering the phone while we were having sex.
Gary Jubelin was head of the task force in the William Tyrrell disappearance case, but left the police force and was later accused of illegally recording a witness.
Jubelin has become a podcaster and journalist since leaving the New South Wales Police.
After leaving the job as head of Task Force Rosann, which has yet to charge anyone for the kidnapping or probable death of William Tyrrell, Jubelin himself was charged.
In 2020, Jubelin was found guilty of illegally recording four conversations with a potential William Tyrrell witness and fined $10,000. He failed to win an appeal against the convictions.
William Tyrrell went missing from Kendall on the Mid North Coast of New South Wales on September 12, 2014 and has never been seen since, nor have his remains been located.
Gary Jubelin (above) as lead detective in Kendall searching with officers in 2018 for missing boy William Tyrrell
Ms Young, a former detective chief inspector, controversially claimed that Scott Johnson’s death in December 1988 could have been a suicide.
The 27-year-old’s body was found at the foot of a cliff in North Head, a well-known gay area on Sydney’s northern beaches.
In 2020, Scott Phillip White was arrested and later pleaded guilty to involuntary manslaughter and accepted legal responsibility for Johnson’s murder.
He later withdrew his guilty plea, pleaded guilty to involuntary manslaughter and will be eligible for parole in 2026.