Home World Tell us: How do you maintain friendships with your exes?

Tell us: How do you maintain friendships with your exes?

0 comments
Tell us: How do you maintain friendships with your exes?

Romantic incompatibility doesn’t necessarily mean ending a real connection with someone. And when kids (or pets) are involved, or friendship groups are at stake, staying friendly with an old flame may be in everyone’s best interest.

We want to hear your tips on how to stay friends with an ex. How long did it take to adapt? How does this affect your current relationships? And is it worth it?

<gu-island name="CalloutBlockComponent" priority="feature" deferuntil="visible" props="{"callout":{"description":"

Have you turned a romantic relationship into a friendship? We want to know how you stay friends with your ex.

Please share your story if you are 18 or older, anonymously if you wish. For more information, please see our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

“,”prompt”:”Share your experience”,”displayOnSensitive”:false,”elementId”:”5e80a291-898b-48b7-b4ce-4acfa28c8bcd”,”title”:”Share your experience”,”isNonCollapsible”:true, “formFields”:({“_type”: “model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”, “name”: “name”, “id”: “161572857”, “hideLabel”: false, “label”: “Name”, “hidden”:false,”type”:”text”,”required”:true},{“_type”:”model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”,”name”:”where_do_you_live_city_state_and_country”,”id”:”161572858 “,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”Where do you live (city, state and country)?”,”hidden”:false,”type”:”text”,”required”:true},{” _type”:”model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”,”name”:”tell_us_a_bit_about_yourself_and_your_situation_you_can_share_your_age_your_relationship_status_or_anything_else_you_think_might_might_be_relevant_here”,”id”:”161572859″,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:Talk to us a little about you and your situation. You can share your age, relationship status, or anything else you think is relevant here”,”hidden”:false,”type”:”textarea”,”required”:true},{“_type”:”model. dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”,”name”:”why_did_you_decide_to_stay_friends_with_your_exexes”,”id”:”161572860″,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”Why did you decide to stay friends with your exes?”, ” Hidden”:false,”type”:”textarea”,”required”:true},{“_type”:”model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”,”name”:”how long_after_your_break_up_did_you_feel_like_you_could_save_the_friendship”,”id”: “161572861” ,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”How long after your breakup did you feel like you could save the friendship?”,”hidden”:false,”type”:”textarea”,” required”:true} ,{“_type”:”model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”,”name”:”were_there_any_hiccups”,”id”:”161572862″,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”There are did he have a hiccup?”, “hidden”: false, “type”: “text”, “required”: true}, {“_type”: “model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”, “name”: “how_does_it_affect_current_relationships”, “id”: “161572863 “,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”How does this affect current relationships?”,”hidden”:false,”type”:”text”, “required”:true},{“_type”:”model .dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”,”name”:”what_are_your_tips_for_others”,”id”:”161572864″,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”What are your tips for others?”,”hidden”:false, “type”: “text”, “required”: true}, {“_type”: “model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldRadio”, “name”: ” can_we_publish_your_response”, “options”: ({“label”:”Yes, Fully”,”value”:”Yes, fully”},{“label”:”Yes, but contact me first”,”value” :”Yes, but contact me first”},{“label”:”Yes, but please keep me anonymous. ),”id”:”161572868″,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”Can we post your response?”,”hidden”:false,”type”:”radio”,”required”:true} , {“_type”: “model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”, “name”: “you_can_add_more_information_here”, “id”: “161572869”, “hideLabel”: false, “label”: “You can add more information here”, “hidden”:false,”type”: “textarea”, “required”: false}, {“_type”: model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase, “name”: “phone_number”, “description”: ” Your contact details are useful so that we can contact you for further information. They will only be seen by the Guardian.”,”id”:”161572870″,”hideLabel”:false,”label”:”Telephone number “,”hidden”:false,”type”:”text”,”required “:false},{“_type”:”model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldBase”,”name”:”email_address_”,”description”: “Your contact details are useful so that we can contact you for further information. They will only be seen by the Guardian.”,”id”:”161572871″,”hideLabel”:”false,”label”:”Email address mail “,”hidden”:false,”type”:”text”,”required “:true},{“_type”:”model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutFormFieldRadio”,”name”:”are_you_happy_for_a_guardian_journalist_to_contact_you_about_this_story”,”options” :({“label”:”Yes”,”value”:”Yes”} ,{“label”:”No”,”value”:”No”}),”id”:”161572872″,”hideLabel” :false,”label”:”Are you happy to have a Guardian journalist contact you about this story?”,”hidden”:false,”type”:”radio”,”required”:false}), “_type”:”model.dotcomrendering.pageElements.CalloutBlockElementV2″,”tagName”:”au-series- id-did-you-turn-a-romantic-relationship-into-friendship”,”activeFrom”:1710115200000,”id “:”7505b832-20dd-4c9f-812c-dd0781bff987″,”calloutsUrl”:”https://callouts.guardianapis.com/formstack-campaign/submit”,”formId”:5678180},”pageId”:”lifeandstyle/ 2024/mar/12/staying-friends-with-ex-partner-friendship-relationship-advice -callout”}” config=”{“renderingTarget”:”Web”,”darkModeAvailable”:false}”>

Share your experience

Have you turned a romantic relationship into a friendship? We want to know how you stay friends with your ex.

Please share your story if you are 18 or older, anonymously if you wish. For more information, please see our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

Your responses, which may be anonymous, are secure because the form is encrypted and only the Guardian has access to your contributions. We will only use the data you provide to us for the purposes of functionality and we will delete all personal data when we no longer need it for this purpose. For true anonymity, please use our SecureDrop service instead.

You may also like