A young man who moved into his newly bought terraced house claims his neighbor has been secretly ‘keeping track’ of his dating life.
The 28-year-old became ‘thrilled’ when the neighbor mentioned that she had noticed he has been on ‘a lot of dates lately with different people’.
Sharing a screenshot of the text messages on Reddit, the woman said she has ‘seen a lot of women coming back’ to his house.
“(We’ve) always been super friendly with each other, but this felt really awkward and kind of passive aggressive,” the man admitted in the Reddit thread.
Opinions were divided, with many believing that the woman is ‘jealous’ and wants to go on a date with him.
He shared a screenshot of the text messages on Reddit and said she has ‘seen a lot of women coming back’ to his house
The man believes his neighbor is in his late 20s or early 30s and said the two never had a bad exchange before.
The couple were supposed to attend a meeting, but the new homeowner canceled at the last minute as he had to go on a date instead.
The woman replied: ‘Oh ok no worries. You’ve been on a lot of dates lately with different people.’
Feeling confused, the man asked what she meant and was shocked by what else she claims to have heard.
The woman continued: ‘I’ve seen a lot of women coming back to your house lately and the other day I was walking around with Milo and heard you having sex because your bedroom window was open.’
The man replied: ‘Haha I didn’t know you kept track of my dating life but I’ll make sure my windows are closed if I have sex tonight! Have a good day!’
The woman claimed she ‘wasn’t watching’ him but ‘just happened to notice’ and apologised.
Opinions were divided online, with many believing the woman is ‘jealous’ and wants to date him
Others agreed
Many pointed out how tone is not conveyed over lyrics
Hundreds joined the Reddit thread, with many urging the man not to sleep with his neighbor if she’s interested in preventing future complications or awkwardness.
“She drops not so subtle hints,” one person commented, another said: “She wants you bro.”
‘I read this as an old man walking his dog and giving you shit, but then there’s the context and it’s a female your age. I am very surprised that she brought it up. Maybe she’s interested?’ said another.
The man said, ‘I’m apparently ignorant because everyone but me figured it out.’
“She’s definitely interested, but also a creep?” one thought.
Others warned the man to ‘not act on it’ and take the ‘passive aggressiveness’ as a ‘red flag’.
