- Jeff Guenther, from Portland, Oregon, has become a viral sensation on TikTok
- The expert therapist has detailed the ‘silly’ questions that can cause a breakup
- He shared his advice in a now-viral video on the social media platform.
A therapist has revealed the three “dummiest” fights he has seen tear apart even the strongest romances – and why the little things make a big difference.
Jeff Guntherfrom Portland, Oregon, has become a social media sensation on TikTok by regularly sharing her relationship experience.
Most recently, the love expert took to the video-sharing platform to reveal things that may seem mundane but could irritate his partner.
In a now-viral video, which has so far racked up 39,000 views, he detailed the three things that have put an end to affairs: from TV shows to dating apps.
Jeff Guenther, from Portland, Oregon, has become a social media sensation on TikTok by regularly sharing his relationship experience.
Most recently, the love expert took to the video-sharing platform to reveal things that may seem mundane but could irritate his partner.
He captioned the clip: ‘Three ‘dumb fights’ that run deep and can end a relationship!’
‘Three stupid fights that can hurt deeply and end a relationship because I’ve seen it people. Number one, agreeing to watch a show together and then one of you says, “Fuck it, I’m bored, my baby’s not here, so I’m going to watch an episode without them.”
‘What the hell is it? Did you agree to take the emotional and psychological journey with your sweetheart but are now moving forward without him? You are an absolute monster.
‘Trust has been broken, betrayal has occurred. I might ask why you agreed to be in a relationship in the first place,” she said at the beginning of the video.
The second problem the therapist sees that separates lovebirds is when one person refuses to leave a dating app, despite it being exclusive.
Jeff noticed that people often agree to meet alone and pause their dating profile, rather than deleting it.
“You can still message people you’ve met in the past and continue interacting on the app,” he added.
He explained that this “goes against the spirit of their agreement.”
People flooded the comments section and praised the therapist for her advice.
Lastly, the social media star revealed that allowing her ‘most recent ex’ to continue using her streaming accounts, like Netflix or Hulu, can cause major problems in her current romance.
Jeff noted that you should “set this last limit and delete your account.” ‘
People flooded the comments section and praised the therapist for her advice when one person said, “The first one, my mom did that to me.”
Another user wrote: ‘Ooo these things make me angry.’
Someone else commented: “You did it.”
“OMG, the TV thing happened to me and the pain is real,” another person added.
