A sex addict has confessed that her constant desire to satisfy her needs makes it “incredibly difficult” for her to find a “good suitor”.
The anonymous woman, who revealed that she is almost 30 years old, took to Reddit in a thread titled sex addiction to open up about his obsession.
The sex-crazed woman admitted her desire to get tangled in the sheets has gotten in the way of her journey to find true love.
He lamented his infatuation with sex and explained why it has “driven away good suitors.”
The addict claimed that her high sexual desire has gotten her into trouble as most men tend to abandon her after sleeping with her.
Although she longs for a fairytale romance, she revealed that her constant desire for sex has made her partners want less of her.
She admitted that she has yet to find a partner who is willing to “overcome these challenges” and candidly stated that her addiction makes her feel “useless.”
Having sought help with therapy, medication and self-discipline, the sex enthusiast took to the discussion forum to beg people on the web to help her with her daring situation.
A sex addict has confessed that her constant desire to satisfy her needs has made it “incredibly difficult” for her to find a “good suitor” (file image)
The post was titled: “Being a struggling woman is the most isolating feeling.”
She confessed: ‘I’ve tried therapy, self-help strategies, medication and self-discipline, but controlling my high sexual desire remains incredibly difficult.
‘Sex has become a coping mechanism that leads to compulsive behaviors that make me feel disconnected from myself.
“It’s hard to meet men who want a real relationship when waiting beyond a few dates seems impossible and often, intimacy is not followed by a serious commitment.”
Although men often swoon over her, after discovering her secret, they don’t tend to stick around.
“I’m constantly told I’m beautiful, intelligent and kind, but my sexual needs have kept good suitors away,” the addict added.
At the end of the post, the woman admitted that she felt alone and heartbroken because of her sex addiction.
She said: ‘What makes it worse is that I really want to get married and have a family but I’m afraid my behavior will stop me from achieving that. I am almost 30 years old and, although I love intimacy, I have not found a serious partner willing to overcome these challenges.
The anonymous woman, who revealed that she is almost 30 years old, took to Reddit in a thread titled Sex Addiction to talk about her obsession.
Although the woman was seeking advice, people online flocked to the comments section to reveal that they too were struggling with sex addiction.
“Sometimes I feel worthless and incompetent and look for guidance or support from other people who understand me.”
Although the woman was seeking advice, people online flocked to the comments section to reveal that they too were struggling with sex addiction.
One person said: ‘Thank you for sharing. I can relate and have a lot to share about what has worked for me. I couldn’t do one thing or the other, I had to find the right combination for me and it finally worked.
‘I attend 12-step meetings, I participate in support groups like this, I attend individual therapy and marriage therapy (I’ve found that CSATs are better equipped to learn the ins and outs of sex addiction, but finding the right fit is the most important thing ).
‘I read everything about sex addiction, trauma, self-help and workbooks, and I also watch videos on those topics. I also needed internet blocks and filters.
‘I have a very high sexual desire and I always thought there was no way to tame or control it; It also affected my relationships, my marriage, and my friendships. What I have learned is that impulses and feelings are temporary, I don’t have to act on them every time.
‘Working on trauma has helped me a lot, getting in touch with my emotions and recognizing that when I have the desire to act on my impulses or use my addiction to cope, there are a lot of emotions swirling in the background that I’m trying to do. to silence or put to sleep. There may also be a lack of calming, self-regulating, and stress-reducing skills, so it’s important to take advantage of these.
‘Journaling has been a huge help in organizing my thoughts during those times. I’m going to recommend some popular names to look for, they have books, websites, webinars, you name it, they have all helped me a lot.
‘Dr. Rob Weiss, Patrick Carnes, Stefanie Carnes, Alexandra Katehakis, Gabor Mate, Esther Perel, PBSE podcast (Mark and Steve). Long read, but I hope it was helpful!’
Another user wrote: ‘I hope and wish you good luck.’
Someone else said: ‘I know the struggle too. I hope you find what you’re looking for.’