Woman Shares Clever Reverse Psychology Trick To Get Guys To Leave You Alone At Bars

An influencer reveals her technique for getting unwanted guys to leave her alone in bars.

kendall kiper21, is known as @kendallkiper on TikTok, where he has more than 156,000 followers and previously went viral after sharing his trick to get free drinks.

The Georgia native, who lives in Los Angeles, advises women to download an app that creates a fake phone number.

Then he said that the key is to ask for the boy’s number and text him first from the fictitious number.

Hoping the guy thinks he actually has your number, so there’s no point sticking around.

In the clip, which racked up 81,000 views, he said: “I have a reverse psychology trick to help you get out of a conversation with a guy in a bar, it’s going to sound a little crazy so bear with me.”

“You’re going to give him your number, wait, a fake number, they have a bunch of free texting apps, Text Now or Text Plus, download one of them, get a second number and have it on your phone and memorize it as if it were literally your own number.”

‘When he asks for your number and you don’t want to give it to him, say, “Oh, just give me yours,” then you’ll send him a text right then and there from the Text Now app.

She continued: ‘The reason this works is because what you’re doing is hinting that the conversation you’re having right there will continue later.

“When he thinks he’ll still be able to talk to you, he’s much more likely to leave you alone then.”

While that person can still message you on that app, the number will not be attached to any social media accounts or your Whatsapp.

She went on to say that she had tried every other trick in the book, including saying she had a boyfriend or that she didn’t like men, but none of these worked.

The Georgia native, who lives in Los Angeles, then advises asking for the guy’s number and texting him first from the dummy number.

She said, “If you tell a guy you have a boyfriend, his favorite line, or at least in my books is, ‘Oh, well, he doesn’t have to know,’ that pisses me off because if I have a boyfriend, he’ll know.

They just don’t use their heads, especially when they’re in a bar. I have had a great success rate getting guys to leave me alone using this method.’

Many rushed to the comments to leave their own thoughts on his methods.

One person wrote: “But I’d feel bad if I didn’t text back.”

To which she replied, “I don’t do this to guys who are really nice/I could be friends with, just weird ones.”

Another said: ‘I’ll give you my ex’s number.’

Many rushed to the comments to leave their own thoughts on his methods.

While someone else wrote: ‘So much work for just one drink. I need to memorize all the steps.

She previously lifted the lid on how she gets men to buy her drinks using reverse psychology, claiming she has a near-perfect success rate.

Kendall said: “This is my best kept secret on how to get a free drink at the bar 99 percent of the time,” she said. Only once has this not worked for me, and I do it more often than I care to admit.

He explained that the first thing to do is get in line at the bar and start looking for a man to target.

“The type of guy you’re looking for is very important,” he said. ‘You need to look for a guy who seems to have a super big ego.

‘The bigger the ego, the better and easier this is probably going to be.’

Once you found your guy, she said the next step is to go up to him and ask him what he’s going to order at the bar.

“So let’s say he says, ‘Oh, I’m about to order a tequila drink,'” he continued. “You can say, ‘Oh, I love tequila drinks,’ or you can say, ‘Oh, I was going to have a vodka cran.’ I’d love to buy your drink. Can I buy you a drink?’

“As I said, ego is a big factor in this,” he added. ‘Ninety-nine percent of the time they’ll look at you and say, ‘What? No what? Like let me buy you a drink.

Kiper admitted that his stunt is “definitely a little screwed up” but refuses to feel guilty about doing it.

“Let’s not forget how men like to treat us,” he said. “Ninety-five percent of the time we get treated like crap so it’s like girl go get your free drink and move on.”

The TikTok star’s video has been viewed more than a million times in one day and has received hundreds of comments.

Kiper explained that you need to find a man in line at the bar who seems to have a ‘super big ego’ and ask him what he’s ordering. So, you offer to buy him his drink.

Kiper’s video has been viewed more than a million times. Many commenters thought he was ‘cool’, but others worried that they would end up having to buy the guy a drink.

“Actually the smartest thing I’ve ever heard,” one fan replied.

‘Meeee, I did this for my friend who also had no money. He’d say ‘okay I’m going to buy my friends a drink’ and they’d offer to buy hers too,” another added.

‘I’ve done this before in my bachelorette era and let me tell you…this works!’ someone else insisted.

However, others were concerned that the man in question would accept their offer and they would be stuck buying two drinks.

Kiper received so many questions that he filmed a follow-up explaining how to get out of the situation so that he “never buys Chad a drink.”

‘OK, listen, if this doesn’t work, here’s what to do. You need to have a friend watching,’ she began.

The influencer advised to have a sign that you both know about in advance. In this case, he gave the example of raising his arm and scratching his head.

Kiper received so many questions that he filmed a follow-up explaining how to get out of the situation if the man accepts his offer.

He demonstrated how he would casually start scratching his head the moment a guy would let him buy him a drink.

“When your friend sees that, she’s going to run up to you and be like, ‘Oh my gosh, I’m literally about to throw up.'” I need you to come to the bathroom with me,” she said.

Kiper added that you can also fake being sick if you’re alone, but she doesn’t recommend going out alone as a woman.

“But if it is, you just need to put on your best acting chops and put on a sick face and say, ‘Yo, I actually think I’m going to throw up,'” he said.

“I feel like that’s the easiest one just because no one wants to be around it if you’re about to scream.”

He warned that if you say you need to find your friends or take your Uber, the guy will still talk to you and try to get your number.

“If you say you’re going to vomit, they’re going to leave you alone,” he concluded.