& # 39; He would send me a message from her phone & # 39 ;: contemptuous girlfriend reveals the signs that she knew her fiance was cheating on a & # 39; much nicer & # 39; fellow student
- A woman talked about how she discovered that her fiance was cheating
- She says that her ex originally had become good friends with another woman
- Although she didn't think much about it at the time, things started to change quickly
- She says that her intuition made her aware that the couple's relationship was intense
A woman who got lost during the wedding planning talked about the moment she discovered that her fiance was cheating on her with a & # 39; so-called friend & # 39 ;.
The Australian woman revealed candid details and said she and her ex-partner started seeing each other not long after she came out of a messy break.
Two years later the couple were engaged and shortly after her fiancé moved to another city to fulfill his dream of becoming a surgeon.
After settling in, the man revealed that he had become friends with a & # 39; much nicer & # 39; fellow student, something the woman said she initially had no problems with.
She said this relationship was apparently so informal, her partner had no trouble texting her from the woman's phone.
A woman revealed that her partner became friends with another woman after he moved to study – a relationship so casual that he sent her a text from his & # 39; friend & # 39; (stock image)
The first indication that something was wrong was the amount of time that her ex-fiance and his boyfriend spent together.
& # 39; She started driving him to the station on Friday afternoon so he could go home to see me, & # 39; said the woman Mamamia.
Then other things began to happen, such as when her fiance wrote her during lectures, his & # 39; friend & # 39; would also feel the need to participate.
Why do men and women cheat?
* The most common reason for infidelity cited by women is emotional satisfaction, while men cite sexual satisfaction
* Rich women are 8 percent more unfaithful to their husbands than middle-class women, while the prevalence of unfaithfulness for poor and rich men is equal
* People who are unfaithful in a relationship are three times more likely to be unfaithful in their next relationship, compared to those who have not been unfaithful in the first relationship
Source: Relationships Australia
But the biggest red flag came when he told her that his friend had trusted him that her relationship was broken.
For some reason, this shift warned the woman that the couple's dynamics were starting to change.
She said that her intuition began to show up as a sick feeling, something that she would experience if he were to leave to warn her that something was clearly & # 39; clearly wrong & # 39; used to be.
The realization that the relationship was nearing the end came after her partner said he felt unwell and couldn't talk to her at night.
That morning she said & # 39; something forced me to call & # 39 ;, an urge that led to the discovery that her partner was not in his room.
The woman said that her gut feeling about the relationship was one of the biggest red flags that had happened between her fiance and his friend (stock image)
She immediately said she knew where he would be and because he had sent her messages from his friend's cell phone, she could call the other woman to find out.
After this she said the worst was confirmed.
While her ex-fiancé said that everything he had done had gone to the woman's house to comfort her broken heart, the woman felt that there was more to it.
This was confirmed after it met a few days later to attend a wedding and she asked if they would still get married.
& # 39; I knew I had to ask him if he still wanted to marry me. Only he was muted. All he did was shake his head … So naughty, & she said.
What are the signs of cheating?
1 An unusual willingness to go shopping – valuable time to call the mistress.
2 A makeover, a sudden interest in the gym or new clothing that makes them look slimmer and sharper.
3 Slightly too frequent & # 39; business trips & # 39 ;, coupled with the appearance of unexpected feelings of guilt.
4 A change in smartphone habits – for example turning off WhatsApp notifications in case an indiscreet message slips on the screen during the Ocado store or the sound of covert text messages from the bathroom.
5 Advertisements for hotel chains or lingerie shops suddenly appear on websites, a significant sign of what he was looking for online and the 21st-century version of lipstick on the collar.
Source: Lisa Hilton via DailyMail.co.uk
Although her ex and his new partner have been together for 19 years, the woman said there were no hard feelings at all.
And in fact, she said the tragedy even came with a silver lining in the sense that after her split, she met a man who was loyal to her for 14 years.
& # 39; The truth is that if I had not been cheated, I would never have met my husband, the father of my children, & # 39; she said.
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