Woman reveals how she found out she was dating a married man – and why she chose to stay

& # 39; I was in love, I trusted him & # 39 ;: Mistress reveals why she REALLY dated a married man – and stayed with him until he went back to his wife

  • A woman has revealed why she chose to stay with a married man for six years
  • She said that even though he was legally married, her boyfriend was actually single
  • She soon became suspicious about her friend's behavior

A woman revealed how she found out she was dating a married man – but chose to stay in the relationship for six years.

Talk to Nine honey, the Melbourne woman said that when she first met her boyfriend, he said that although he was legally married, he was single in all other respects.

& # 39; He was adamant: you and he were ready and that was a while ago. When he told me this, I fully believed him, & the woman said in an open letter to the man's wife.

A woman revealed how she found out she was dating a married man - but chose to stay in the relationship for six years (stock image)

A woman revealed how she found out she was dating a married man – but chose to stay in the relationship for six years (stock image)

What are the signs that you are the other woman or man?

* Data is spontaneous and there are no long-term plans

* Most of your calls are made during the day

* Evening correspondence will be via text and there will be delayed answers

* You have probably never been to their house or met family or friends

* You do not go to locations near their house

* They will probably pay a lot in cash with things in cash

* They will respond defensively if you ask them too much

This caused the couple to start a relationship, although she begged that he tell his wife what was going on.

His excuse was that there were financial and legal issues that needed to be resolved before they could be made public.

He told her that his wife was talking about him and the marriage, but it would still be far too painful for her to know that he had gone on with someone who was not there.

The woman said that she believed every word she was told because she was in love, and I trusted him, and although she was not happy with it, she was already in love with each other.

But soon she noticed that although he was an enthusiastic user of social media, he would never post when he traveled.

One day he called her and when she listened she heard him in a car with friends and his wife.

His excuse was for them to go to an event together because his wife didn't want anyone to know about their divorce.

& # 39; He was adamant: you and he were ready and that was a while ago. When he told me this, I fully believed him, & she said (stock image)

& # 39; He was adamant: you and he were ready and that was a while ago. When he told me this, I fully believed him, & she said (stock image)

& # 39; He was adamant: you and he were ready and that was a while ago. When he told me this, I fully believed him, & she said (stock image)

Despite all her worries, her boyfriend would always have a statement that she would believe.

Then, from the air, he told her that he could not continue the relationship.

His excuse was that his business got off the ground and he didn't have the time to spend on her now.

He told her he was sorry and she deserved better.

Eventually someone told her that she had now seen her an ex-boyfriend with his wife, and that they were both happy together.

This person then went on to say that he and his wife had gone through a difficult period, but things had worked out and even thought about having a baby.

& # 39; You were all golden again. Me? Not so much. My heart was broken. Even worse, I was deeply ashamed. Even embarrassed. How had I been so stupid ?, & the woman said.

& # 39; I fell in love with your husband and I lost him too. And now he's back at your side, where he probably belongs. & # 39;

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