Woman performs at wedding after band cancels, but bride calls on her to ruin her big day

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A woman, who was performing at a wedding to lend a hand after the band canceled that day, has been called out by an angry bride for ruining her big day.

Go to the anonymous parenting platform mumsnet, one user, who said the wedding wasn’t in the UK, asked if she was wrong about the gig.

The bride accused the woman, whose husband was the best man, of “stealing the spotlight” and accused her of wearing “inappropriate” clothes because she was wearing white shoes.

Users were quick to berate the newlywed, as one said the only words she should have said were “thank you” and another called her “withdrawn.”

A woman, who performed at a wedding to lend a hand after the band canceled that day, has been yelled at by an angry bride for ruining her big day

The unnamed Mumsnet user explained that the bride had become ‘a bit of a bridezilla’ in the run-up to the big day, which took place outside the UK two weeks ago with around 100 in attendance.

She added that there was “a big argument” with her husband-to-be, when the bride vetoed all wedding decisions and wanted to choose the costumes.

The woman went on to explain how a member of the band became ill that day, and they contacted the couple to say they would not be attending.

She added: ‘My husband is a musician with an audio background – he spoke to the groom and offered to sing and play guitar for their first dance and a few other pieces.

On the anonymous parenting platform Mumsnet, a user asked if she was wrong before the gig — and also wore white shoes because the bride wasn't happy with them

On the anonymous parenting platform Mumsnet, a user asked if she was wrong before the gig — and also wore white shoes because the bride wasn’t happy with them

‘I also sometimes sing with my husband (I’m not a professional singer) so I did some backing vocals for the songs.

“I thought it was pretty nice and went pretty well, all things considered – it was also quite a bit of stress trying to go home on the day of the wedding and get things and set things up without anyone really noticing or miss part of the day.’

After performing at the wedding, the woman revealed that the bride had reached out and was less than impressed with their performance.

She continued: ‘I just got a message from the bride today to say she’s really hurt that I made ‘her day’ all over me ‘stealing the spotlight’.

“I also wore white shoes (with a navy blue dress) and she said it was ‘totally inappropriate and very nasty’.

Users were quick to berate the newlywed, as one said the only words she should have said were

Users were quick to berate the newlywed, as one said the only words she should have said were “thank you” and another called her “withdrawn.”

“I feel like this is completely absurd – I was just singing the backing vocals and of course all eyes would have been on her.

“I understand I don’t wear white to a wedding, but I feel like it’s just my shoes – am I wrong?”

She said she didn’t want to cause an argument between her husband and his best friend, and asked if she should apologize.

However, users were quick to get to the guest, and many couldn’t believe how ungrateful the bride had been.

One wrote: ‘She can take it up with her husband if he agrees to something she’s not comfortable with!’

A user wondered why the bride was being unreasonable and the woman didn't come on stage 'uninvited', but the helpful singer believes the newlywed was none the wiser

A user wondered why the bride was being unreasonable and the woman didn’t come on stage ‘uninvited’, but the helpful singer believes the newlywed was none the wiser

Another said: ‘She sounds very insecure. I would ignore her and do her no favors in the future.’

Others labeled the bride “ridiculous” for even complaining.

They wrote: ‘She sounds ridiculous! I take it you weren’t on stage uninvited, she agreed for you to sing and you sang. Who the hell sees the color as someone’s shoes?

The woman replied, “I’m not sure she knew. DH arranged it with the groom because they didn’t want to stress or worry her on her wedding day.

“The groom got the call, so he tried to sort it out himself. The groom then told the bride (after the ceremony because they hadn’t seen each other before) that the band couldn’t come, but don’t worry, he arranged the music.”

Many also feel that this could be a conversation needed between the two spouses to see if they can help

Many also feel that this could be a conversation needed between the two spouses to see if they can help

Many also feel that this may be a conversation needed between the two spouses to see if they can help.

One user wrote: ‘Ignore. Do not respond. Show your husband the message. He can talk to his best friend and the best friend can talk to his wife when she is less disturbed.

Your husband is friends with the groom, he and the groom can work it out. Fair. That’s a ridiculous message. But imagine being married to someone who works so hard!’

Another added: ‘I see you probably don’t want to argue for the sake of your husband and his best partner, but that doesn’t mean you have to be overly friendly with her again. Just be polite and never forget what an ungrateful brat she’s been.’

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