Woman, 25, is accused of ‘babying’ her husband with the lavish lunches she makes for him every day: ‘Is this for a child?’
- Liza Stian, 25, makes elaborate lunch boxes of bentos for her husband every day
- Thousands have accused her of “spoiling” her husband with childish food
A young wife has been criticized for cooking extravagant meals for her husband to take to work every morning, with some claiming she treats her husband like a child.
Liza Stian has become popular for the elaborate, intricate lunchboxes she makes for her husband every day – most of which take over an hour to prepare and pack.
The 25-year-old woman often goes a step further by baking her own bread, using duck-shaped bao and cutting meat products into hearts.
Many of Liza’s meals also follow a specific theme, such as a Disney bento box with Mickey Mouse rice balls and a Pokémon lunch with Pikachu macarons.
While some think Liza’s efforts should be applauded, others have shunned her “traditional” approach, accusing her of “babying” a grown man with the cartoon lunches.
Lisa Stien [pictured] has become popular for the elaborate, intricate lunchboxes she makes for her husband every day – and most meals take over an hour to prepare and pack

A young wife has been criticized for cooking extravagant meals every morning for her husband to take to work, with millions claiming she treats her husband like a child

The 25-year-old woman often takes it a step further by baking bread from scratch, using duck-shaped bao and cutting cold cuts into hearts
Several thousand people have left comments on her videos wanting to know more about her relationship.
“What, is he five years old?” one woman commented on a video of Hello Kitty rice balls, teddy bear meat, and mini Oreos.
Another asked, “Why can’t your husband cook for himself?” He’s a grown man and needs to learn how to take care of his own meals.’
“I thought this was for a child,” one woman added.
“A lot of your food is too girly – is your husband bullied for bringing pink pasta to work?” said another on a video of homemade beetroot pasta sauce.
While others wondered what her husband does to deserve such special treatment.
“Why haven’t you divorced him yet and started making these lunches for yourself?” said one.
“I envy your husband, what has he done to deserve this,” one woman wrote.
“I wish you were my mom because these lunches are perfect for kids, but not for a grown man,” said another.


While some think Liza’s efforts should be applauded, others have shunned her “traditional” approach, accusing her of “babying” a grown man with the cartoon lunches.
Some have criticized her small portion sizes, accusing her of sacrificing her husband’s nutrition for an aesthetically pleasing box lunch.
“Why are you starving your husband?” a woman asked about a lunch of six pieces of ravioli and two macarons. “I prepare three times as much of this for my husband.”
“Most of these ‘lunches’ really look like snacks — my friend would need at least four times as much food,” said another.
“These lunches look great, but there’s no way a grown man can live on them,” said one woman.
But many were just happy that Liza had the time and energy to put so much effort into her husband’s food.
“It’s so nice to see you cooking such delicious meals for your husband,” said one woman.
“Thanks for your videos – they give me great ideas for my own lunches!” another wrote.