Transgender woman’s boyfriend blows out ‘disgusting’ trolls who insisted he ‘shouldn’t know’

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Transgender woman’s boyfriend blows out ‘disgusting’ trolls who attacked their relationship and insisted he ‘shouldn’t know’ she’s trans: ‘Just because you’re unhappy doesn’t mean we should be too’

  • Jayde McFarlane, 20, and boyfriend Tyler went viral after responding to a commenter who claimed he shouldn’t know she’s trans
  • The stranger suggested that Tyler wouldn’t be in a relationship with her if he did
  • Tyler hit back in a viral TikTok video, saying it’s ‘disgusting’ that people would think that Jayde as a trans would ‘take away or diminish the love they have’
  • The couple’s video has been viewed more than 5.9 million times and received thousands of responses praising him for his response

A transgender woman’s boyfriend has criticized critics who have questioned their relationship, accusing her of not telling him she is transgender, saying he finds it “ utterly disgusting. ”

Jayde McFarlane, 20, and her boyfriend Tyler went viral after responding to a commenter who claimed he shouldn’t know she’s trans or he wouldn’t be in a relationship with her.

The TikTok star, who makes humorous videos about her life as a trans woman, shared imagery of Tyler cuddling in bed with her. “Do you know that I am transgender?” she asked him, running her fingers through his hair.

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Hit Back: Transgender TikToker Jayde McFarlane, 20, and boyfriend Tyler responded to a commenter who claimed she should keep her trans identity for him

Hit Back: Transgender TikToker Jayde McFarlane, 20, and boyfriend Tyler responded to a commenter who claimed she should keep her trans identity for him

Not good: The stranger suggested that Tyler wouldn’t be in a relationship with Jayde if he knew she was transgender. “Trans women are real women,” he shot back

‘Yes. I know you’re a perfect, beautiful woman, and you always have been, ”Tyler replied, Jayde visibly moved by his reaction.

‘Is this [about] another of those responses to TikTok? ‘ he asked.

When Jayde confirmed this to be the case, he stood up and shared a powerful message about why the person’s assumption that his girlfriend was hiding her identity from him was harmful and anti-trans.

“First, I want to say that trans women are real women,” he said. They are completely valid in their femininity.

Response: Tyler said it's 'disgusting' that people would think that Jayde as a trans would 'take away or diminish the love they have'

Response: Tyler said it's 'disgusting' that people would think that Jayde as a trans would 'take away or diminish the love they have'

Response: Tyler said it's 'disgusting' that people would think that Jayde as a trans would 'take away or diminish the love they have'

Response: Tyler said it's 'disgusting' that people would think that Jayde as a trans would 'take away or diminish the love they have'

Response: Tyler said it’s ‘disgusting’ that people would think that Jayde as a trans would ‘take away or diminish the love they have’

'This was so sweet': Thousands of TikTok users have praised Tyler for his thoughtful response

'This was so sweet': Thousands of TikTok users have praised Tyler for his thoughtful response

‘This was so sweet’: Thousands of TikTok users have praised Tyler for his thoughtful response

‘And the fact that people think that just because someone’s trans and that if I find out – or if someone finds out their significant other is trans – that would take away or diminish the love they have for them, I just find it utterly disgusting, ”he continued.

And the fact that people take their own insecurities and things they worry about from their past and try to apply it to this situation is just disgusting. Just because you’re unhappy in life doesn’t mean we should be too. ‘

The couple’s video has been viewed more than 5.9 million times and received thousands of responses praising him for his response.

His heart is so pure. He said it so perfectly, and people should take notes on what true love looks like, ‘one wrote, while another added,’ This was so sweet! ‘

Going Viral: The couple's video has been viewed over 5.9 million times

Going Viral: The couple's video has been viewed over 5.9 million times

Going Viral: The couple’s video has been viewed over 5.9 million times

Hard to handle: Jayde said she gets `` negative comments on a daily basis, '' explaining that people are constantly using her wrong

Difficult to handle: Jayde said she gets `` negative comments on a daily basis, '' explaining that people are constantly misusing her

Hard to handle: Jayde said she gets “ negative comments on a daily basis, ” explaining that people are constantly using her wrong

Inspirational: Jayde and Tyler hope their video shows other members of the trans community that they can find love too

Inspirational: Jayde and Tyler hope their video shows other members of the trans community that they can find love too

Inspirational: Jayde and Tyler hope their video shows other members of the trans community that they can find love too

‘OK SO [WHERE] YOU FOUND HIM[?], ‘asked another. ‘WE ALL HAVE A MAN LIKE HIM !!!!’

Jayde told BuzzFeed that she gets ‘negative comments’ every day, explaining that people are constantly using her wrong and telling her that what she is doing is ‘wrong’.

‘I’m not going to feel bad about myself because of what others think. It makes absolutely no sense that I could be happy because what really matters is [what I] think of myself, ”she said.

Jayde and Tyler hope their video shows other members of the trans community that they can find love too.

“ In my community, relationships are such a difficult topic for all of us, ” she said, “ and I feel like showing my relationship publicly is letting other trans women and men know that we can be loved too and we can be taken care of. ‘

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