Tori Spelling still has ‘major trust issues’ with husband Dean McDermott years after cheating

Tori Spelling still has ‘major trust issues’ with Dean McDermott, nearly eight years after he was revealed to have cheated on her.

Sources told PEOPLE magazine that “they’ve grown apart” over the years and Tori does her best to stay focused on her five children, Liam, 14, Stella, 13, Hattie, 10, Finn, nine, and Beau, 4.

“It was chilly between them,” said an insider. “Tori is trying to figure out what to do next. And she is always focused on her children.”

Challenging: Tori Spelling still has 'major trust issues' with Dean McDermott, nearly eight years after he was revealed to be cheating on her;  seen in 2019

Challenging: Tori Spelling still has ‘major trust issues’ with Dean McDermott, nearly eight years after he was revealed to be cheating on her; seen in 2019

Dean has been noticeably absent from the family’s list of holiday decorations, including their annual Christmas card and stockings hung by the fireplace.

“They have problems that are difficult to solve,” said the source. “And they don’t have the same relationship as they used to.”

The insider added: “Part of their relationship never fully recovered after he was unfaithful. Tori doesn’t want to tear her family apart. But marriages with five children have to have a lot of trust.’

Dean cheated on Tori with Emily Goodhand in December 2013 while shooting Chopped Canada on location.

“It was chilly between them,” says an insider (seen in 2019). “Tori is trying to figure out what to do next. And she is always focused on her children.”

Out of town: Tori Spelling, 48, claimed her husband Dean McDermott missed their 2021 family vacation photo shoot because he was busy on a movie set in Canada

Out of town: Tori Spelling, 48, claimed her husband Dean McDermott missed their 2021 family vacation photo shoot because he was busy on a movie set in Canada

Out of town: Tori Spelling, 48, claimed her husband Dean McDermott missed their 2021 family vacation photo shoot because he was busy on a movie set in Canada

The cheating scandal was documented in their Lifetime series True Tori, where during a couples therapy session she exclaimed, “I can never give him enough sex!”

Following the cheating scandal, Dean entered rehab in early 2014 to “address some health and personal issues.”

Tori recently claimed in the comments of her Dean-free family photo that her husband was out of the country while he was working on a movie role.

Dean’s absence from the family vacation card marks his second time missing the shoot, as he was also absent from the couple’s 2020 card due to another work shoot.

“Dean has to ‘work’ out of town and couldn’t get home in time for the annual Christmas photo,” the user wrote, along with a winking emoji to indicate their sarcasm.

Joy: She swapped the socks for a more playful setting with the names of Liam, Stella, Beau, Finn and Hattie scribbled on socks of cartoon characters

Joy: She swapped the socks for a more playful setting with the names of Liam, Stella, Beau, Finn and Hattie scribbled on socks of cartoon characters

Joy: She swapped the socks for a more playful setting with the names of Liam, Stella, Beau, Finn and Hattie scribbled on socks of cartoon characters

Saint Tori: Spelling had a special sock made for each of her five kids when she showed off new Christmas decor on Instagram on Tuesday night

Saint Tori: Spelling had a special sock made for each of her five kids when she showed off new Christmas decor on Instagram on Tuesday night

Saint Tori: Spelling had a special sock made for each of her five kids when she showed off new Christmas decor on Instagram on Tuesday night

Set the record straight: After a user suggested Dean was missing due to a split from Tori, she wrote back saying he was “filming his new feature film in Canada”

But as for the actress, they were right.

“Fact: @imdeanmcdermott was filming his new feature in Canada,” she replied, finishing her post with an emoji of the Canadian flag.

The couple – who celebrated their 15th wedding anniversary in May – have ‘hit another bump’ and Tori isn’t too sure if it’s worth getting out of here as Dean has been ‘missing’ for two days after their latest spat and Tori feels ‘trapped’ in their marriage, according to US Weekly.

Tori and Dean reportedly have “constant arguments” but this particular argument was “really serious” and Spelling is “miserable” with her husband.

She’s tried counseling and “sucked it up” for the sake of her kids who seemingly “have no idea what’s going on,” but it’s all getting too much for the podcast host.

In addition to their marital problems, money was a huge source of stress for the couple as an insider revealed that “money is an issue and it has always been an issue.”

Family forever: Tori and Dean have five children after 15 years of marriage: Liam, 14, Stella, 13, Hattie, nine, Finn, nine, and Beau, four;  seen in 2019

Family forever: Tori and Dean have five children after 15 years of marriage: Liam, 14, Stella, 13, Hattie, nine, Finn, nine, and Beau, four;  seen in 2019

Family forever: Tori and Dean have five children after 15 years of marriage: Liam, 14, Stella, 13, Hattie, nine, Finn, nine, and Beau, four; seen in 2019

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