Brunette bombshell Andi Lew, 46, seems to have it all: a successful job as a wellness coach, a loving son named Beaudy and a jet-setting life between America and Australia.
But the only thing she would add to the comparison is a relationship; something that the Australian single mother has been trying to find offline and on dating apps for the past six years.
After signing up with Tinder when it was new, Andi told Femail that she has since been & # 39; everyone in Sydney and Melbourne & # 39; has gone and even & # 39; pin dropping to other places and countries & # 39; has started.
Brunette bombshell Andi Lew, 46, seems to have it all: a successful job as a wellness coach, a loving son named Beaudy and a jet-setting life between America and Australia
& # 39; Tinder was the pioneer of the dating app world. Since then, new ones have been developed literally every few months, & she said.
During her time in the early online dating atmosphere, Andi told her competitions that she was only there to investigate her latest book #instalovers.
& # 39; They would reply; "Oh, that's a great rule! I'm going to use it!" and I would answer "No, I really do research," she said.
& # 39; They often said, "Ah, can I go out with you so I can stand in the book?" and I would answer: "Honey, you are already!" & # 39;
During her time in the early online dating atmosphere, Andi told her competitions that she was only there to investigate her latest book #instalovers (photo)
& # 39; Tinder was the pioneer of the dating app world. Since then, new ones have been developed literally every few months, & she said
& # 39; I finally got a relationship with a man I fell in love with until he had to go back to Sweden. I knew I could never live there full time, so we had to break it down. The other (competitions) that I have just met and we have become great friends. & # 39;
After she had recently returned from a press trip to America, Andi decided to re-visit her apps & # 39; because no one was left in Melbourne that I thought I wanted to meet or date & # 39 ;.
& # 39; I wanted to see what it was like in the United States. I currently use Bumble, Hinge (the relationship app) and Raya (an app for celebrities or people in the showbiz world) and I haven't deleted them yet & she said.
If you use & # 39; the end & # 39; of the app, a message appears with the message & # 39; there is no one new in your region & # 39; – at which point you should broaden your region and age category.
& # 39; I finally got a relationship with a man I fell in love with enormously until he had to return to Sweden, & # 39; she said (both pictured)
& # 39; I knew I could never live there full time, so we had to break it off, & # 39; she said
Andi dated men in their 20s and 30s when she was in her early forties because she found men who had already married her own age group in Melbourne.
But she's not on Tinder right now because it's & # 39; less fun & # 39; was used after a number of years.
She wants to try & # 39; other apps aimed at demonstrating yourself to attract more meaningful connections & # 39 ;.
& # 39; I was delighted to know that other apps were not going to swipe left or right. They also include a heart. This means that you can really think about the person and what they have written about themselves before you say no, & she said.
But she's not on Tinder right now because it's & # 39; less fun & # 39; was used after a number of years
What are Andi's best tips for being successful in online dating?
Spread of love: Andi & # 39; s latest book #Instalovers explains different elements in the complex world of online dating
- Keep the location where you live private
- Be honest about what you are looking for through online dating. If you are looking for something informal, be & # 39; protected and prepared & # 39;
- Keep photos & # 39; s clear in your dating profile and do not place others in your photos unless they approve
- Use no more than one selfie in your profile. Instead, use a photo that shows that you are doing something you enjoy or something fun
- Check if potential competitions are real people by asking them to view their other social media pages
- Flirt with emoji & # 39; s because this helps to improve & # 39; tonality and body language & # 39; to show
& # 39; I love connecting. We are in a social revolution and really want to sweep more than one night to the right.
& # 39; The movement & # 39; self love is in full swing and I am looking for relationships like others. This is why Hinge announces when you become a member "this is the app designed to get you off the app!". & # 39;
Although she is not actively pursuing a partner right now, she likes to know that someone is looking for & # 39; something real and friendly & # 39; and that things can develop from scratch & # 39; without expectation & # 39 ;.
Andi warned those who used apps to realize one match, not that & # 39; you're getting married & # 39;
Andi warned those who used apps to realize one match, not about & # 39; you are getting married & # 39 ;.
& # 39; Take it easy. It is only a new connection. Go on apps where you can read a little about the potential date. A person becomes more attractive once you understand how they think, & she said.
She also wants society to remove the stigma surrounding meeting your soulmate on a dating app.
& # 39; It's the & # 39; standard & # 39 ;. Nowadays people don't ask how they met. They ask: & # 39; Which app did you meet? & # 39; & # 39; she said.
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