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The wife of the Florida woman becomes her husband after becoming a transgender

A woman’s wife has now become her husband, but the couple have vowed to stay together as they transition from woman to man.

Blayr Batchelor, 27, married her then-wife Kai-De Batchelor, 31, four years ago, at an idyllic Florida beach wedding where they both come from.

However, their lives changed forever almost two years ago when assistant manager Kai-De came out as a transgender for her wife.

Despite her shock at the revelation, Blayr promised to stay with her soulmate when he started his transition, and the Florida couple now say the experience has brought them closer than ever.

Kai-De started taking testosterone in May this year, shortly after the couple celebrated their fourth wedding anniversary.

Blayr Batchelor (left), 27, married her then-wife Kai-De Batchelor, 31, four years ago at an idyllic Florida beach wedding where they are from. Picture: the couple on their wedding day

Blayr Batchelor (left), 27, married her then-wife Kai-De Batchelor, 31, four years ago, at a Florida beach wedding, where they are from. Kai-De then came out as a transgender in 2018 and has been treated with testosterone since May. Picture: the couple on their wedding day

Despite her shock at the revelation, Blayr promised to stay with her soulmate when he started his transition, and the Florida couple now say the experience has brought them closer than ever. Picture: the pair earlier this month

Despite her shock at the revelation, Blayr promised to stay with her soulmate when he started his transition, and the Florida couple now say the experience has brought them closer than ever. Picture: the pair earlier this month

Blayr and Kai-De remain very much in love. Pictured: The couple on this month's Instagram photo

Blayr and Kai-De remain very much in love. Pictured: The couple on this month's Instagram photo

Despite her shock at the revelation, Blayr promised to stay with her soulmate when he started his transition, and the Florida couple now say the experience has brought them closer than ever. Pictured left and right: The couple earlier this month

Blayr, who is a hairstylist, said, “I don’t care if Kai-De is a boy or girl. I just love Kai-De.

“I know transition will make him happy.

“It took me a while to process because we were together for five years and Kai-De was always a confident lesbian.

“I never thought he was having a hard time. We stayed together by staying open and connected. If I have questions, we sit down and talk together.

“It has brought us closer than before, because we talk more through feelings.”

The soul mates first met in 2013 through mutual friends, while Blayr worked as a waitress at Hooters in Louisiana and Kai-De lived in Alabama.

Despite their idyllic romance, Kai-De struggled deep inside with a secret he had kept hidden for nearly 30 years

Despite their idyllic romance, Kai-De struggled deep inside with a secret he had kept hidden for nearly 30 years

Despite their idyllic romance, Kai-De struggled deep inside with a secret he had kept hidden for nearly 30 years

Blayr, who is a hairstylist, said, “I don’t care if Kai-De is a boy or girl. I just love Kai-De. I know that transition will make him happy. It took me a while to process because we had been together for five years and Kai-De was always a confident lesbian. Pictured left: the pair earlier this month and right, after a recent haircut for Kai-De

Blayr initially ignored Kai-De’s attempts to start a text message conversation, and the pair met in person only after making the four-hour drive to her restaurant in Louisiana to confess his love for her in the summer of 2013.

Blayr moved in with Kai-De in Alabama a month after the meeting, and the lovebirds get married in April 2016 during a last-minute beach ceremony in Pensacola, Florida.

Despite their idyllic romance, Kai-De struggled deep inside with a secret he had kept hidden for nearly 30 years.

He eventually confessed to Blayr by text message on her birthday in September 2018 that he was transgender.

The soul mates first met in 2013 through mutual friends, while Blayr worked as a waitress at Hooters in Louisiana and Kai-De lived in Alabama. Pictured: shortly after their marriage

The soul mates first met in 2013 through mutual friends, while Blayr worked as a waitress at Hooters in Louisiana and Kai-De lived in Alabama. Pictured: shortly after their marriage

The couple in June

The couple in June

The soul mates first met in 2013 through mutual friends, while Blayr worked as a waitress at Hooters in Louisiana and Kai-De lived in Alabama. Photo left: shortly after their wedding and right, in June

Blayr now shares their unique love story on her Instagram @ thebatchelors420, hoping to inspire other couples where a partner is about to stay together.

And despite changing gender, unlike many other people in her situation, Kai-De has no plans to change her birth name.

He said, “It is still new for me to call him or her, but many people accidentally called me before I came out.

I’ve been known as Kai-De for 31 years and have no plans to change that.

“I kept it because it is the most trans name I could have ever got.

“I don’t know how people would take it if I suddenly stopped being Kai-De.”

The soulmates, from Florida, first met in 2013 through mutual friends, while Blayr worked as a waitress at Hooters in Louisiana and Kai-De lived in Alabama. Picture: the day the couple met

The soulmates, from Florida, first met in 2013 through mutual friends, while Blayr worked as a waitress at Hooters in Louisiana and Kai-De lived in Alabama. Picture: the day the couple met

The soulmates, from Florida, first met in 2013 through mutual friends, while Blayr worked as a waitress at Hooters in Louisiana and Kai-De lived in Alabama. Picture: the day the couple met

Blayr initially ignored Kai-De's attempts to start a text message conversation, and the pair met in person only after making the four-hour drive to her restaurant in Louisiana to confess his love for her in summer 2013. Pictured above: one year after getting married

Blayr initially ignored Kai-De's attempts to start a text message conversation, and the pair met in person only after making the four-hour drive to her restaurant in Louisiana to confess his love for her in summer 2013. Pictured above: one year after getting married

The couple earlier this month

The couple earlier this month

Blayr initially ignored Kai-De’s attempts to start a text message conversation, and the pair met in person only after making the four-hour drive to her restaurant in Louisiana to confess his love for her in summer 2013. Pictured left: One year after getting married and being right earlier this month

Kai-De said, “I was terrified to tell someone the truth.

“I was afraid I would be rejected.

“When I finally told Blayr, it was a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.

“It’s one of those things I’ve always known.

“When I was four out of five, I said I would have surgery as a boy, but people told me I was stupid and just a tomboy.

“I was taken care of to fit into a girl’s world and I thought that was the word I had to live in.

“Being a lesbian seemed the only option.”

Kai-De is seen above before and after starting a testosterone treatment

Kai-De is seen above before and after starting a testosterone treatment

Kai-De is seen above before and after starting a testosterone treatment

Blayr now shares the unique love story of her and Kai-De on her Instagram @ thebatchelors420, hoping to inspire other couples where a partner switches to stay together

Blayr now shares the unique love story of her and Kai-De on her Instagram @ thebatchelors420, hoping to inspire other couples where a partner switches to stay together

Blayr now shares the unique love story of her and Kai-De on her Instagram @ thebatchelors420, hoping to inspire other couples where a partner switches to stay together

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