The very pregnant mother, Amby Cakes, was shocked after a midwife made the unpleasant comment

Amby Cakes was eight months pregnant when a midwife embarrassed her on a date

A very pregnant mother has revealed that the midwife embarrassed her.

Amby Cakes, originally from California, but now living in Brisbane, was eight months pregnant when she went to a doctor's appointment.

But the mother, who already has two teenage children aged 15 and 12, said she was mortified by the midwife's extraordinarily rude observation.

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Amby Cakes was eight months pregnant when a midwife embarrassed her on a date

Amby Cakes was eight months pregnant when a midwife embarrassed her on a date

"She was so rude and so mean to me," Amby said on YouTube.

Amby explained that he needed to reprogram his ultrasound because it was the only time his partner could drive her, since it would have taken him too long to get to and from the clinic.

"I had to reprogram an ultrasound, so by the time my checkup arrived, I did not get an ultrasound," he said.

"This lady said," why did not you do your ultrasound? "And I said," I had to reprogram, "she was a little shabby and I thought maybe she was in a bad mood, I'm not going to take this personally.

"And she said," well, you know you need an ultrasound because you're a little fat. "I was [thinking] "Dang, why do you have to ruin me like that?" & # 39;

Amby, who previously threw 31 kg (70 pounds) before becoming pregnant with her third child, said she was surprised when the midwife commented on her frame.

I'm not trying to embarrass anyone. But it literally charged like that and it does not offend me like when doctors say "you're in good health but you have to lose some weight so you do not have any problems" and I say "yes, doctor" "," she said.

"I'm not one of these types of people who are shot or embarrassed by fat." I am very realistic and I take responsibility. I have never had an experience of "embarrassing myself". I hate using that term. Anyway, even though I am bigger than I am now, they have never told me things.

"But if some kind of doctor says" your BMI is higher, we would like to see it lower ", yes, I agree, a quick step forward, she says" you're a little fat ".

& # 39; She was starting to get under my skin, not calling me fat. It was not that she called me fat, but how she said it.

& # 39; The other nurse [in the room] He thought he saw a ghost when he said that.

The mother said that she was mortified after the midwife made the unpleasant observations (stock image)

The mother said that she was mortified after the midwife made the unpleasant observations (stock image)

The mother said that she was mortified after the midwife made the unpleasant observations (stock image)

And then things got worse when the midwife asked Amby again if he was going to make his next appointment with the ultrasound.

"She's doing all these little things and then she goes back to the ultrasound and says," Are you going to make your ultrasound appointment so you have to reprogram it? "And I said" yes, absolutely, it should not be a problem, "he said.

"And she was like" well, Miss America, if you were not busy combing your hair, maybe you could have done the first one "and I was like" what the fuck ".

"First of all, I do not want to make this lady seem discriminated against because I'm American. I do not even think it was Australian, it sounded Irish.

"But I think it's inappropriate to call someone" Miss America ", it would be" Miss f *** ing Irish ", it's very unprofessional.

"So it's not like I get offended, but I do not understand where this came from." Designing my hair? B **** I just comb my hair. I can not make an appointment with the doctor because I'm too busy combing my hair? He's crazy, right?

Amby, who previously threw 31 kg (70 pounds) before becoming pregnant with her third child, said she was surprised when the midwife commented on her frame (stock image)

Amby, who previously threw 31 kg (70 pounds) before becoming pregnant with her third child, said she was surprised when the midwife commented on her frame (stock image)

Amby, who previously threw 31 kg (70 pounds) before becoming pregnant with her third child, said she was surprised when the midwife commented on her frame (stock image)

She also wondered if she was the only person who had been treated this way.

"With how many women does this woman speak like that? Why are you in this profession? I can not be the first woman this woman has ever done this," she said.

"That kind of thing drives me crazy when people intimidate people who are very submissive, passive, kind and intimidated, I want to defend all those people.

"I tried to have empathy, this lady is having a bad morning and it has nothing to do with me and that's all … maybe the other lady was bothering her." I do not take things personally, but this was, literally, the only bad experience that I think I've had. "

Despite the horrible encounter, Amby said he did not want to dissuade any tourists from traveling to Australia.

"This is not normal in Australia for people who have never been here." All, except for this b ****, are very kind and never make me feel uncomfortable, "he said.

& # 39; This lady seemed to hate people. I just do not get it. This lady was rude. Everyone has been super nice, I definitely do not want people to think "oh my God, that's how it is in Australia".

& # 39; I just hope I do not meet her anymore. & # 39;

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