A nurse has revealed how she escapes her ‘everyday’ marriage to her childhood sweetheart by having ‘exciting’ sexual affairs with married men.
Chloe, a 32-year-old hospital nurse from Nottingham, says she started cheating on her husband to inject some passion into her life after they got stuck in a ‘boring’ routine where the sex was unusual.
The mother of two, who has been with her husband since she was 16, posed for photos in her hospital with a face mask to protect her identity and show her wedding ring, revealing how the lifting of the lockdown has made her resume her double life.
Chloe, a 32-year-old hospital nurse from Nottingham, escapes her ‘everyday’ marriage to her childhood sweetheart by having ‘exciting’ sexual affairs with married men. at IllicitEncounters.com
She said to FEMAIL, “I was a little bored and thought there should be more to life than this.
“I have been with my husband since we were in school. We had grown apart and were very different people in many ways.
“He just wants to do the same things all the time and has become very calm in his way, while I am still looking for new experiences and more physical attention.
“We have two children together, so I’m not necessarily looking to leave my husband. That would be a step too far. I just want a little bit of excitement. ‘
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Key worker Chloe shared how she had her first affair with Sean, a married mid-30s insurance manager who lives in London with his wife.
She remembered how they met on the UK affiliate site IllicitEncounters.com and even dated for 18 months.
Chloe said, “He was in a similar position to me and was looking for a discreet affair. I had been unfaithful to my husband a few times before – largely one-night stands after meeting guys at night clubs or bars.
“But this was the first time I had a full affair. He traveled from London and we met for a drink and then went to a hotel for sex. ‘
Describing the passion she felt, she said, “It was nice to relive the thrill you get when you first go out with someone.
“I remember in those early dates how we would kiss each other all the time, like we were teenagers. I hadn’t kissed my husband like this in years.
“While I have just gone through the motions when it comes to sex with my husband, I would make a special effort with Sean and make the sex so much more satisfying and exciting than at home.
“I would really prepare for our dates – buy new clothes and have my hair done.
“We would meet every two weeks and it was something to look forward to.”
And by working night shifts in a hospital, she had the perfect coverage for her husband.
She said, “My work was very helpful in covering our meetings. I would explain to my husband that I worked a night shift and then spent the night in a hotel with Sean.
“I often work nights anyway, so he wasn’t so suspicious.”
Their relationship deepened and Sean started talking about it, both left their partners and started a new life together.
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But Chloe admits she wasn’t ready to make that commitment just yet.
She said, “I think he was a bit sharper than I was, although I did fantasize about what life would be like if we were together full-time.”
Chloe then began a second affair with another married man she met on the website earlier this year.
She said, “I came with him for the same reason as with Sean – dating someone else was exciting.
“We had sex a few times and it was fun. He lives closer to me and I would juggle with him and Sean at different times. The second affair expired after a few months and I stayed with Sean.
“My problem was that I settled too young. I had never played on the field when I was younger and I realized I had missed so much.
“Finally I was in my thirties and had a great time.”
But Chloe was forced to end Sean in March this year when she discovered his wife was pregnant.
The Covid crisis also engulfed the UK, and Chloe was reluctant to break social distance rules by continuing to see Sean and endanger her patients in the hospital.
She said, “I knew I couldn’t go on when he said his wife was expecting. The whole point of dating people on these websites is that you don’t want to ruin anyone’s life by having an affair. You are both on the same page and just want to get out of the way without upsetting the apple wagon at home.
The pregnancy changed all that and I told Sean it was over.
“I stopped dating for a few months because everything was so hectic at work and we had to follow the rules.
“But I kept browsing and keeping in touch with married men. It was fun flirting with new men and seeing if I had new matches. ‘
And she says things are back to normal now and continue: “With the Covid crisis gone, I’m ready to date again. In the hospital there are hardly any cases and work returns to normal.
“I’m looking forward to seeing someone new and I’ve met a nice new man named James.
“We flirt a lot and meet in the coming weeks.”
But Chloe admits she doesn’t know what will happen in her marriage.
She said, “My husband knows nothing about my business. He asked a few questions, but things never came to a head.
“I’ve tried to make him change, but he’s very stuck in his ways and just seems to be happily dabbling. I am different from him and want more from life. ‘
IllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said, “Chloe is very typical of our female members.
They settle down with their first serious friend and regret not enjoying their childhood anymore and playing on the field. They sleep around thirty and forty instead of in their twenties.
Women in particular come to the site because they want sex and arousal, but they don’t want a divorce. They must be sure that the men they meet have the same intentions as they do. It is the safe way to get out of the rut. ‘
More than a million people have registered with the controversial website since its launch 17 years ago.
A spokesperson revealed that dating activity has increased by 25 percent in the past six months and the number of subscriptions has increased during the Covid crisis.