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Three & # 39; s company: Andrew Niman, 35, has revealed how he started dating both his wife Kayla Vigil (left) and her friend Brittany Thiessen (center)
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A man who claims that he reached puberty at the age of nine and became irresistible to women, revealed how he fell in love with his wife's close friend and began dating both ladies at the same time.

DJ and EDM music producer and personal trainer, Andrew Niman, 35, from San Diego, California, claims that he lost his virginity on his 11th birthday with his first girlfriend who was then 10, and he says he is still a very sexually active lifestyle since then.

In July 2011, Andrew placed an advertisement on Craigslist among the personals & # 39; casual encounters & # 39 ;. He received an answer and decided to meet his now wife, Kayla Vigil. The couple grew up and explored together sexually with other couples in sex club houses and couples clubs.

Three & # 39; s company: Andrew Niman, 35, has revealed how he started dating both his wife Kayla Vigil (left) and her friend Brittany Thiessen (center)

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Three & # 39; s company: Andrew Niman, 35, has revealed how he started dating both his wife Kayla Vigil (left) and her friend Brittany Thiessen (center)

Special bond: the San Diego resident tied the knot with Kayla, 30, in 2017, and then introduced him to Brittany, 33, because she wanted to have sex with another man

Special bond: the San Diego resident tied the knot with Kayla, 30, in 2017, and then introduced him to Brittany, 33, because she wanted to have sex with another man

Special bond: the San Diego resident tied the knot with Kayla, 30, in 2017, and then introduced him to Brittany, 33, because she wanted to have sex with another man

Unique: Andrew and Kayla, pictured on their wedding day, have always been very sexually candid and have spent a large part of their relationship on sex visits and swinger clubs

Unique: Andrew and Kayla, pictured on their wedding day, have always been very sexually candid and have spent a large part of their relationship on sex visits and swinger clubs

Unique: Andrew and Kayla, pictured on their wedding day, have always been very sexually candid and have spent a large part of their relationship on sex visits and swinger clubs

Unique: Andrew and Kayla, pictured on their wedding day, have always been very sexually candid and have spent a large part of their relationship on sex visits and swinger clubs

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Unique: Andrew and Kayla, pictured on their wedding day, have always been very sexually candid and have spent a large part of their relationship on sex visits and swinger clubs

Pals: Although Andrew dates both Kayla (left) and Bretagne (right), the trio do not live together and have no sex as a threesome. Instead, Andrew sees them separately

Pals: Although Andrew dates both Kayla (left) and Bretagne (right), the trio do not live together and have no sex as a threesome. Instead, Andrew sees them separately

Pals: Although Andrew dates both Kayla (left) and Bretagne (right), the trio do not live together and have no sex as a threesome. Instead, Andrew sees them separately

Then, in May 2016, Andrew Kayla suggested, and she accepted that the couple finally made the decision in August 2017.

In January 2019, Kayla told Andrew that a man wanted to have sex with her and that she had to find a girl for Andrew. So, she gave Andrew her friend's phone number.

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When Andrew met Brittany Thiessen (33), they got along right from the start and he immediately fell in love and now he goes out with Kayla and Brittany separately.

Andrew realized that he was a man even before he was a teenager when he noticed how his body hair grew and that he had developed a deeper voice and in turn felt that he was out of place with peers of his own age, but still had much self confidence.

& # 39; I started puberty at nine. I knew it because I had pubic hair and my voice deepened. I was also masturbating and ejaculating, & Andrew said.

& # 39; I felt a bit uncomfortable because my body looked weird. It seemed like I didn't fit, but I still had a lot of confidence and didn't let me down.

& # 39; I lost my virginity when I was 11. It was on my birthday and with my then girlfriend who was ten. It was a nice birthday present.

Common interests: Andrew and Kayla (photo) originally met on Craigslist after joining the & # 39; casual encounters & # 39; group. had added to the site, but they soon joined
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Common interests: Andrew and Kayla (photo) originally met on Craigslist after joining the & # 39; casual encounters & # 39; group. had added to the site, but they soon joined

Common interests: Andrew and Kayla (photo) originally met on Craigslist after joining the & # 39; casual encounters & # 39; group. had added to the site, but they soon joined

Getting strong: although Andrew admits that he fell in love with Brittany very quickly, he and Kayla (photo) are still married

Getting strong: although Andrew admits that he fell in love with Brittany very quickly, he and Kayla (photo) are still married

Getting strong: although Andrew admits that he fell in love with Brittany very quickly, he and Kayla (photo) are still married

Getting strong: although Andrew admits that he fell in love with Brittany very quickly, he and Kayla (photo) are still married

Go strong: although Andrew admits that he fell in love with Brittany very quickly, he and Kayla (photo) are still married and they date together

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& # 39; Even before I turned 18, I was incredibly sexually open. I was always blessed with girls who liked me and wanted to have sex with me.

& # 39; They just came to me naturally. I never had to be intrusive with any of them.

& # 39; In July 2011 I placed an advertisement on Craigslist and that's how I met Kayla. It used to be a section about & # 39; accidental encounters & # 39; on their website, so I knew she was open-minded. I was really sad when they removed this section.

& # 39; We were together and explored with other couples, went to sex clubs and couples clubs for several years and it went very well. We are therefore engaged in May 2016 and then finally married in August 2017.

& # 39; I absolutely love her with all my heart. & # 39;

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Andrew does not live with his wife or girlfriend after he initially hoped they could be a throuple, but he thinks it best turned out that this is not the case.

& # 39; In January 2019, my wife gave me the Brittany telephone number and we started immediately. It was like literally love with the first text. It's crazy that I can't explain it. Love is sometimes difficult for everyone. It seemed like we were always together and always existed together before we met, & Andrew said.

& # 39; My wife asked me if I was in love with both at the same time. I was really scared, but I told her it was me. She asked if I wanted to be with both of them.

& # 39; I told her that this would be a polyamorous relationship and how serious it was, but she said she knew it and it was good. She had to reassure me.

Early starter: Andrew, pictured with Kayla, says he was puberty at the age of nine and lost his virginity when he was just 11 years old

Early starter: Andrew, pictured with Kayla, says he was puberty at the age of nine and lost his virginity when he was just 11 years old

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Early starter: Andrew, pictured with Kayla, says he was puberty at the age of nine and lost his virginity when he was just 11 years old

Open: & # 39; My wife asked me if I was in love with both at the same time. I was really scared, but I told her it was me, & Andrew says about how he broached the subject with Kayla (photo)

Open: & # 39; My wife asked me if I was in love with both at the same time. I was really scared, but I told her it was me, & Andrew says about how he broached the subject with Kayla (photo)

Open: & # 39; My wife asked me if I was in love with both at the same time. I was really scared, but I told her it was me, & Andrew says about how he broached the subject with Kayla (photo)

Decisions: Andrew, pictured with Kayla, says he originally hoped that he, Kayla, and Brittany & # 39; would have sex together & # 39; but now they believe they are right not to get involved as a trio

Decisions: Andrew, pictured with Kayla, says he originally hoped that he, Kayla, and Brittany & # 39; would have sex together & # 39; but now they believe they are right not to get involved as a trio

Decisions: Andrew, pictured with Kayla, says he originally hoped that he, Kayla, and Brittany & # 39; would have sex together & # 39; but now they believe they are right not to get involved as a trio

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& # 39; I had hoped that the three of us would have sex together, but I really believe it would have been best to keep each relationship separate, but I would do it completely if it were for all of us can work. I don't want anyone feeling left out. & # 39;

Andrew spreads love to his 120,000 followers on Instagram, his advice to others interested in a similar relationship is to be patient, because taking care of more than one person costs more work and can make it harder to find a balance.

Usually Andrew receives positive messages of support about his relationships, but says some reject it.

& # 39; I would patiently recommend to anyone thinking about an alternative type of relationship or multiple relationships. Remember the more involved the harder it is. "It's not easy, in fact, it's harder because you're dealing with more feelings and it's hard to find a balance," he said.

& # 39; Most people have respected my relationship with my wife and girlfriend. I am often asked how we are all doing. However, some people have sent me hateful messages online.

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& # 39; I know this is not for everyone, but nobody is hurt here. Some people like lobster and some like caviar. I am in love with both my wife and my girlfriend and it has turned out to be a great experience. & # 39;

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