- The Kivin Method consists of performing oral sex on women from a side position
- Women who like this movement say that it helps them reach orgasm in a matter of minutes.
- READ MORE: The Great Orgasm Gap: Why Women Climax Less Than Men
A new and unconventional technique of performing oral sex on a woman has been hailed by TikTok users as a “foolproof” way to achieve a female orgasm.
The measure, which young people have coined as “The Kivin Method” on social networks, involves the donor positioning himself next to his partner’s genitals on his side.
This is said to stimulate a greater surface area, intensifying the female orgasm.
On TikTok, women and sex therapists have praised the method as “the best, most foolproof way to give oral sex” and “the most important piece of sex education you’ll ever need.”
A woman takes paper and pencil to draw a diagram.explaining to men around the world exactly how to position themselves to make a woman’s “final act” more powerful.
Oral sex is usually performed from a frontal angle, but sexual health experts say approaching the vulva from a perpendicular angle increases the intensity of the sensation.
The sexual trend has also received attention from popular wellness outlets, including Kourtney Kardashian’s health and beauty website, Poosh.
In a recent column on the site, certified sex therapist Dr. Aliyah Moore wrote that the Kivin Method is: ‘It aims to offer a novel sensation with extra intensity through its unorthodox angle of clitoral stimulation.
“With this approach, people can increase the number of sensations and possibly make each sexual act more diverse and exciting.”
She explains that the Kivin Method has the donor lie perpendicular to the recipient with one of their legs on their partner’s back.
The donor is then approached to the female genitals at an angle of approximately 45 degrees through the vulva.
Many women who have added this movement to their bedroom activities have said that it helped them climax within minutes, while also improving the strength of their orgasms.
TikTok users praise the Kivin method of oral sex, which involves approaching a woman’s genitals from the side.
On Reddit, users take to forums to share their experiences with the method.
One wrote: “Doing it from one side makes a lot of sense for both sides.”
Another fan said: “Having someone between my legs is very uncomfortable for me, so I love this position and I make sure all the guys I’m with get good practice in it.” Others simply say the results are “mind-blowing.”
But the key to success with any sexual technique is comfort, and the position of the legs is uncomfortable for some people.
Partners have complained online that they find the weight of a woman’s leg on their back uncomfortable.
In this case, sex therapists say that women They can place pillows under the hips to lift the pelvis, giving their partners fuller access to the area without having to bear the weight of the recipient’s leg.
While the measure has many dedicated supporters, sex therapists say orgasm is never guaranteed. Not all women who try the Kivin Method will experience orgasm to the end of all orgasms.
Dr Moore wrote: ‘Some people may find the diagonal method unusual as it introduces a new angle of stimulation.
‘It should be noted that feeling is very subjective. This can be very exciting and satisfying for some people, while others may not feel any noticeable variation from usual oral sex techniques.
A 2018 survey of 1,400 women, published in the journal Sexual behavior filesfound that only 30-40 percent reach orgasm during sexual intercourse.
Dr Moore added: ‘Patience is also a crucial element when it comes to improving your intimate experiences. Instead of rushing, it is essential to invest time and effort in cultivating anticipation and desire.