Social media users call T.I. & # 39; disgusting & # 39 ;, & # 39; controlling & # 39; and & # 39; offensive & # 39; after the rapper admitted that he takes his daughter to the gynecologist every year to check if she is still a virgin – and his daughter shows her approval by enjoying some of these critical tweets.
The 39-year-old bragged about the Ladies like us podcast that he has ensured that the hymen of his 18-year-old daughter Deyjah Harris is still intact by meeting her doctor after his annual pelvic exam – a shocking revelation in which Twitter users outright denounced his behavior.
Although Deyjah herself did not respond publicly to her father's behavior or tumult, she indicated her feelings by liking two tweets that made him & # 39; disgusting & # 39 ;, & # 39; possessive & # 39; possessive and & # 39; controlling & # 39; to mention.
Shocking: Twitter users hit T.I. after he revealed that he accompanies his teenage daughter every year to the gynecologist to make sure she is still a virgin
Protection? The 39-year-old stressed the importance to him that his 18-year-old daughter Deyjah Harris had not had sex and said he checked her hymen
In agreement: since the story broke out on Monday, Deyjah has been happy to see two tweets that show her father's behavior as & # 39; possessive & # 39; and & # 39; disgusting & # 39; criticize
Since the story broke out Monday, Deyjah liked two tweets, both from women who commented on the story.
& # 39; This is disgusting, possessive and controlling & # 39 ;, someone wrote who later tweeted: & # 39; I am sick for my stomach … & # 39; my results & # 39; are her body, not yours. & # 39;
& # 39; That is slightly more than possessive, & # 39; tweeted another who has a & # 39; like & # 39; got from Deyjah.
Stars are also starting to play. Iggy Azaela, who was arguing with T.I., said that he is a & # 39; huge female hater and has never been able to have a conversation with a woman in which he does not speak as a fortune cookie. & # 39;
& # 39; I really wish the women who interviewed him would have said something to him, & # 39; she added. & # 39; He has serious control issues with women in all aspects of his life and needs therapy. & # 39;
During her show on Tuesday, Wendy Williams said she & # 39; violated & # 39; would feel if one of her parents had done the same, and beat T.I. because he does not have the same standards for his teenage son.
& # 39; I think the control he has over her is very sexist, as if it is good for the young boy but not for her, & # 39; she said. & # 39; T.I., Reverse your daughter like this. I don't know what Tiny says about this, but no one on social media agrees with him. & # 39;
Wendy also criticized the podcast hosts for laughing at T.I's claims, as well as Deyjah's doctor for allowing the behavior.
Chiming in: Iggy Azaela, who has argued with T.I., said he is a & # 39; huge female hater & # 39; is
Hot take: Wendy Williams said she & # 39; violated & # 39; would have felt if one of her parents had done the same, and beat T.I. because he does not have the same standards for his teenage son
Negative reactions have also flooded Twitter.
& # 39; T.I. is an abusive female hater, & tweeted writer Jill Filipovic. & # 39; He demands that his daughter's gynecologist provide the results of an annual & # 39; hymen control & # 39; announces to him so that he can ensure that she is still a virgin. When it comes to his wife, "that little sex box that you have is half mine." This is not overly protective. It is offensive. & # 39;
& # 39; With this he loses large cool points & # 39 ;, another Twitter user wrote. & # 39; I am the father of two young women and what he does sounds like they regard them more as property than as father. SMH. & # 39;
& # 39; Toxic parenting 101. Not only does he violate her privacy. He arouses feelings of fear, not a responsibility that will live up terribly as an adult, & someone said more.
And another: & # 39; So instead of celebrating the fact that his child lived for another year, TI spends his time hyperlinking whether his hymen is intact or not? This is so overwhelmingly weird and toxic and he must be stopped. & # 39;
& # 39; T.I. makes me pretty happy that I grew up in a fatherless house lol, & shouted writer Ashely C. Ford.
& # 39; T.I. proudly claiming that he and his daughter go to the gyno to ensure that she is a disgusting virgin. I am upset that he puts it here as if it were a genius of parenting tactics. Your daughter's vagina is not yours. WTF, & # 39; wrote a woman.
Slammed: There has been a huge backlash on Twitter from critics who insult the rapper & # 39; insulting & # 39 ;, & # 39; disgusting & # 39; and & # 39; toxic & # 39; have mentioned
Some have problems not only with his behavior, but also with his misconceptions about female anatomy.
& # 39; FYI Vaginal corona & # 39; s can also remain intact even with penetration. You cannot test for virginity, & # 39; wrote one.
Even Planned Parenthood tweeted: & # 39; A virgin is someone who has never had sex. But "sex" means different things to different people, so "virginity" does that too. Many don't care what it means or think it matters. Whatever you believe, the fact is that you cannot see if someone has had sex by checking the hymen. & # 39;
Some have also beaten the doctor because he has kept to the schedule.
& # 39; Apart from scientific things about hymens, what does the gynecologist check and agree to agree to? Unless he's in her room with binoculars? & # 39; wrote one.
The comments from T.I. have certainly set off a fire storm on Monday.
& # 39; Deyjah is 18, just graduated from high school, and she goes to her first year of study to find out for herself, & # 39; said the star, who also has a three-year-old heir.
Do no harm? Others have objected to the lack of understanding of T.I. of the female anatomy, and some have criticized the doctor of Deyjah
& # 39; And yes, we not only had the conversation [about sex], we also have annual trips to the gynecologist to check her hymen. & # 39;
Unless the podcast hosts Nazanin Mandi and Nadia Moham think he was joking or exaggerating, T.I. then went into their doctor's visits in more detail.
& # 39; So this time we are going, I think this may have been after her 16th birthday. This is what we do. Immediately after the birthday we celebrate, & he said.
& # 39; Just like the day after the party, she enjoys her gifts. I put a sticky note on the door: "Gyno. Tomorrow. 9.30 am."
Doctors, of course, cannot share patient information without the patient's consent, so T.I. cajoles giving his daughter.
& # 39; So we sit down and the doctor will come and talk and the doctor maintains a high level of professionalism, & # 39; T.I. explained.
& # 39; He is like: "Well, you know, sir, I have to share information" – I like: "Deyjah, they want you to sign this … so we can share information. Is there something that you would like? " don't want me to know? "" See doc? No problem."
Priorities: Deyjah, pictured with her family, has just started studying, but T.I. says he still makes her annual appointment with the gynecologist and meets the doctor
Possessing: the doctor has explained that a hymen can break with non-sexual activities, but T.I. is pleased to hear that hers is still intact
The doctor has even explained that in addition to sex there are many other ways in which a hymen can break, and in fact many virgins no longer have intact hymens – but T.I. does not matter.
& # 39; So then they come and say, "Well, I just want you to know that besides sex there are other ways that the hymen can be broken, such as cycling, athletics, horse riding, and other forms of athletic physical activity."
& # 39; So I say, "Look, doc, she doesn't ride horses, she doesn't ride a bike, she doesn't play sports. Please check the hymen and give me back my results quickly."
& # 39; I will say from her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact, & # 39; said the rapper, whose own hits are full of lyrics about sex.
T.I. defended his actions and explained that he thinks many people would want their parents to protect them more, and suggested that his daughter look back on her father's behavior and be thankful that he was so involved.
& # 39; In retrospect, I think most children, looking back, always thank their parents for not having caused themselves as much damage as they could have, & # 39; he said.
But he went ahead and admitted that he did not want boys to take the time to pursue his daughter, even though she is now an adult.
& # 39; They are not fun. Who wants a virgin? & # 39; he asked. & # 39; I mean, seriously? All that work. & # 39;
The podcast hosts laughed hysterically throughout T.I.'s entire story, but also called Deyjah a & # 39; prisoner & # 39; and told the rapper that he encouraged men to vulture & # 39; to be.
T.I. is not nearly concerned about the sexual activities of his 15-year-old son, King – who is already sexually active.
But this is OK: T.I. & # 39; s son King, who is only 15, has been sexually active since he was 14
& # 39; I don't want any of my kids to have sex before it's time for them, but who should say when it's time? & # 39; he said and added that he [feels] differently about a boy than about a girl & # 39;
The teenager admitted in June 2019 episode of the VH1 reality show of the family that he is already doing the deed – and T.I. it laughed, although clearly not completely excited.
& # 39; I don't want any of my kids to have sex before it's time for them, but who should say when it's time? & # 39; he said.
& # 39; However, I will certainly feel different about a boy than about a girl. And that's just the honest truth of God. I don't think there is a father who will tell you anything else. & # 39;
However, his possession of the sexual activity of the women in his life extends to his wife Tiny, 44.
According to MadameNoir, in a recent episode of the T.I. expedition podcast, he told Tiny that he had sex in their marriage contract.
& # 39; What is yours is mine and what is mine is yours. That means that little thing that you have, that little sex box that you have, is half mine, & he said.
& # 39; So you choose which side you want, and it's yours. The rest is mine. We can split it in the middle of the … What do they call it? The, the, the, is it the "Uvula"? & # 39;
He seems to refer to the vulva.
& # 39; What I'm saying is, it's half of me. And my half is on the inside. & # 39;
Ownership: T.I. seems to be possessive for a moment by his wife Tiny, 44, who tells her that her & # 39; small sexbox & # 39; half of him is
On TV: he and his family have been appearing in VH1 reality shows for years
Meanwhile, Deyjah – who has 1.4 million Instagram followers and appears in the family reality show, T.I. & Tiny: Friends & Family Hustle – is no stranger to male attention, even if her father has confirmed that she is limiting her involvement in the opposite sex.
Just before she celebrated her 18th birthday in June, she warned older boys to withdraw.
& # 39; I just want to say that just because I'm 18 in June … that doesn't mean 1. that you even get the chance to get lmaooooooo 2. More importantly, that still makes it unsuitable for you to become a ** man to try and catch me … & she wrote on social media.
& # 39; I will still be a TEEN !!! If you're not okay with someone your age, try your daughter, sister, niece, etc., don't think I'm fine. & # 39;
Ironically, although T.I. has implemented strict rules regarding the sex life of his daughter, he has no problem promoting a much looser lifestyle in his music.
Many of the rapper's hits, including his number one hit in 2008, Whatever You Like, and number one song Blurred Lines from 2013, which also featured Robin Thicke and Pharrell, contain lyrics that enchant sex.
In Whatever You Like, T.I. raps about & # 39; late night sex, so wet and so tight & # 39; while Blurred Lines caused global outrage when it was first released because the text describes a man trying to force an uninterested woman to have sex with him to have.
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