A southern Colorado family is dealing with deep grief as they bury 25-year-old Esmeralda Contreras-Mata, the victim of what police suspect was a murder-suicide. The tragic event took place in an unincorporated area of El Paso Countywhere Esmeralda and another individual were found deceased on May 16.
Esmeralda’s sister, Maria Rushay, expressed her deep sorrow, saying: “I feel like there is a hole in my heart and I can’t breathe.” She shared the common advice she has been given during this distressing time: “Just one day at a time,” but she finds little comfort as she passes each day.
Matthew Barbee, Esmeralda’s adoptive father, described the last few weeks as a surreal nightmare. “Any circumstance in which a 25-year-old mother is taken away is simply unimaginable,” he said. He highlighted the crucial support of family and friends, which has been indispensable in coping with the loss, he said. FOX4KC.
Barbee remembered Esmeralda’s journey to her family. He came into her life when she was just 14, dating his wife’s adopted son. “From then on she was already part of the family,” he noted. When she turned 18, he asked her to formally adopt her, an act that moved him deeply and brought them even closer.
Esmeralda was a devoted mother of four children and her caring nature was evident. “I loved seeing her with her baby, it was so sweet to see that side of her,” Rushay recalled. He described Esmeralda as a protective and loving mother, always willing to teach her children new things and defend them no matter the circumstances.
barbee aggregate, “She loved being a mother. She loved hair, nails and makeup. She had plans to go to beauty school.” Her aspirations and everyday joys painted a picture of a life full of potential that was tragically cut short.
As the investigation into her death continues, the family stressed the importance of addressing domestic violence. They encouraged those in abusive situations to seek help and not be ashamed to ask for support multiple times if necessary.
Rushay urged: “They beat you, just stop defending them,” highlighting the critical need for victims to protect themselves and seek outside help. Barbee highlighted the importance of community support and reflected on the tragedy: “You have to talk, not just be strong and try to solve it yourself. You have family, you have a supportive community. “It didn’t have to end like this.”
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