A Reddit user took to the community for advice when his girlfriend wanted to “try something in the bedroom.”
“My girlfriend had a lot of group sex in her past, and I didn’t like the idea, but I never shamed her for it…” he wrote on March 7.
“I told her it made me uncomfortable and I didn’t want to think about her having sex with other guys, especially in groups.”
Despite his feelings, the original poster’s girlfriend told him she wanted to try a threesome. The threesome his girlfriend is hoping for is with another guy.
“I said no and told her that if she ever suggested anything like that again, I would break up with her,” he wrote.
A Reddit user took to the community for advice when his girlfriend wanted to “try something in the bedroom.”
The original poster’s girlfriend told him she wanted to try a threesome. The threesome his girlfriend is hoping for is with another guy.
Nearly two weeks after his girlfriend made the suggestion, the OP gave a shocking update regarding his bedroom idea.
“I asked her why she thought it would be appropriate to ask me to have a threesome when I told her I didn’t even want to hear her talk about it,” he wrote.
“She said she wanted to see if I changed my mind about them.”
From there, he made her understand that this was something he wouldn’t change his mind on and that she had to accept it.
She upsetly told him it was “fine” not to have group sex, but that fell apart the moment he asked her what she preferred.
“I then asked for something I probably shouldn’t have, and asked her if she preferred group sex. She said “yes,” he wrote.
The poster claimed she told him early in their relationship that it was better to have sex with someone someone cared about rather than group sex.
However, it turned out that his thoughts about sexual relationships had changed.
The heartbroken boyfriend ‘made some time’ with his girlfriend after their conversation. He shared his story on Reddit, with lots of advice
Social media users urged the man to break up with his girlfriend and said the two were “not compatible” with each other.
“She said she believed what she said at first, but didn’t realize she would miss group sex so much, and now she wants it,” he revealed in the post.
“I’ll be honest, hearing straight up that group sex is better than sex with me crushed me.”
The heartbroken boyfriend ‘made some time’ with his girlfriend after their conversation. He shared his story on Reddit, with many people offering advice.
In the end, he decided to call it quits, and his girlfriend deprived of group sex is now his ex.
“Maybe it’s an ego thing, but I don’t want to be with someone who would rather have sex in a group than with me,” he wrote.
“I’ll be honest, I don’t think I’ll ever date someone who’s ever had group sex.”
Despite admitting to feeling “sexually inadequate”, social media users are now praising him for kicking his girlfriend to the curb.
The OP received over 5,000 comments on their initial post on Reddit. Feedback on its update continues to increase in number of user reactions
Several Reddit users commented that the fact that she chose group sex over him was “a red flag.”
“She prefers short-term gratification to a romantic relationship. You were 100% right to end it,” one person wrote.
Others repeatedly commented “good for you” and expressed joy for the man who “made the right decision” for himself.
“You had your limits. She had hers,” one Reddit user wrote.
“I’m sorry how hurtful what you were told was – but you saved yourself a lot of mental anguish by handling it in an open and mature way – so you should be proud of yourself.”