Sister Wives star Meri Brown appears to be seeking advice from a ‘narcissistic abuse recovery coach’ on TikTok following her split from polygamous husband Kody Brown.
According to the 52-year-old reality star’s following listing on the video-sharing app, she’s only subscribed to 79 accounts – one of which belongs to Alex Scotta self-proclaimed trauma healing coach who helps people leave “toxic relationships.”
Alex has over 420,000 subscribers and 3.1 million likes on his videos, which aim to help people heal from the trauma they suffered at the hands of a narcissistic abuser.
She has uploaded videos on topics such as how to identify if you are a narcissistic abuse survivor, how narcissists behave, and how to move on after leaving a narcissist ex.
Sister Wives star Meri Brown receives advice from narcissistic abuse coach on TikTok since split from Kody Brown
Alex has over 420,000 subscribers and 3.1 million likes on his videos which help subscribers heal from the trauma they suffered at the hands of a narcissistic abuser
The abuse coach regularly posts empowering videos and messages to her social media accounts, including a recent tweet in which she reminded her followers that surviving abuse and trauma is a sign of their “strength”.
“Say it with me: ‘The narcissistic trauma I survived is a testament to my strength and my ability to love fiercely. Not a sign of weakness,” the tweet read.
The certified trauma-informed coach also offers romantic rehab where she offers live coaching in weekly sessions.
‘Receive lifetime access to Romance Rehab starting in August 2023 so you can begin healing narcissistic relationships and aligning yourself for healthy relationships,’ she wrote of the program on her site.
While it’s unclear if Meri is on her program, she’s at least getting some guidance on healing narcissistic abuse straight from her stream after her recent split from Kody, 54.
This isn’t the first time Meri has received expert relationship advice.
The reality star recently shared a quote from motivational speaker Mel Robbins on his own TikTok.
The clip began with his reiteration of Mel’s quote, stating, “There’s always going to be someone who can’t see your worth.” Don’t let it be you.
Alex works to empower victims. In her most recent video, she uploaded a quote she tweeted about surviving trauma
She has also uploaded videos on topics such as how to identify if you are a survivor or narcissistic abuser, how narcissists behave, and how to move on after leaving a narcissist ex.
“I think we often let the voices of everyone but ourselves enter our heads and influence what we think and feel,” Meri told her followers.
“I think it’s very easy to let comments on social media or just other people’s opinions affect your mood (and) affect your productivity.”
“There’s way too much judgment from other people,” Meri concluded in the clip. “We don’t need it ourselves. worthy friends. We have this.
Meri and Kody married in 1990 when he was just 21 and she was 19.
They share a 28-year-old child, who is now called Leon and uses the pronouns they/them.
Eventually, Meri became one of Kody’s four wives.
The two had been together for 32 years before announcing their separation in December 2022.
“In light of a recent unapproved press release, we feel compelled to share our own truth, in our own way and at our own pace,” they said in a statement shared just days after news of their separation was made public.
“After more than a decade of working on our relationship in our own way, we have made the decision to end our marital relationship for good.”
Meri and Kody married in 1990 when he was just 21 and she was 19
Eventually Meri became one of Kody’s four wives, pictured with his second wife, Janelle
Kody and Meri’s divorce didn’t come as a huge surprise to Sister Wives viewers considering the writing had been on the wall for quite some time.
Their divorce didn’t come as a huge surprise to Sister Wives viewers considering the writing had been on the wall for quite some time.
During a November 2022 episode of the show, Kody revealed that he doesn’t “consider himself married to Meri”.
Even though the two legally divorced in 2014 so he could marry his fourth wife, Robyn, they still acted as husband and wife — or so Meri thought.
“I want to work on the relationship, but Kody basically said he wasn’t. Does that mean we’re not married anymore? she wondered during the episode. ‘That’s not how I view it.;
Kody, meanwhile, confessed to the cameras, “I don’t really consider myself married to Meri.”
“If she wanted to move on and marry someone else, she wouldn’t argue with me,” he said of his first wife.
In another segment of the episode, he admitted, “Meri’s relationship with the family is strained. There is a whole history of struggle. From the very beginning.’
Even though the two legally divorced in 2014 so he could marry his fourth wife, Robyn, they still acted as husband and wife — or so Meri thought.
However, Kody – pictured with wives Janelle, Christine, Meri and Robyn in 2015 – considered his marriage to Meri to be over before their official split.
Now Meri is working to find her own identity after being one of Kody’s sister wives
In fact, some fans wondered why she didn’t end the relationship sooner.
“I myself have a lot of questions about the whole subject of when, how and why,” she said in an Instagram post in June.
“Right now I’m at my best and I know my timing was perfect,” she continued.
She added: “That’s all that matters. So what I’m saying is if you’re kinda stuck right now and trying to figure out why things are happening, the way they’re happening – just wait because even if you can’t see now when you think about it. Everything will make sense.
Now Meri is working to find her own identity after being one of Kody’s sister wives.
The reality star admits she’s “still learning” to trust herself, but has struggled to put herself first since splitting.
“Something I’m still learning is to trust myself. Very often I can rationalize or justify ‘reality’ even if my gut says otherwise,’ she said in a music video released on June 29.
“So often I can let the opinions or behaviors of others influence what I know for myself, and that takes my power away from me and puts it in someone else’s hands.”
Calling herself the “best judge”, she added: “Because only YOU know what you need, what you want, what you deserve”. TRUST YOURSELF throughout your process!’
