“Dating in your 30s is only waiting for the good to divorce”: Frustrated singletons reveal how much harder it is to find love if you leave your 20s
- People from all over the world revealed the problems with dating in their thirties
- Many said it seemed that all good potential partners are already taken
- One person said the chance of finding a good catch was like “never finding”
- Another admitted that they “waited for the good to divorce”
The course of true love never went smoothly, but for some singletons dating seems more difficult than ever.
People from all over the world revealed their candid frustrations about dating in their 30s in an anonymous discussion shared on To whisper.
One of the recordings is that someone said trying to find a good catch in their thirties is like “finding Peter Pan’s Neverland.”
Another person called dating “rough” and said they were just waiting for “all the good things to get divorced.”
People from all over the world have revealed the challenges they have experienced during their thirties into a Whisper thread. A person from Wisconsin said they are waiting for the “good” to get a divorce
Search! An anonymous singleton, whose location is unknown, said they struggled to find someone who met their standards and compared their love life to visiting a supermarket full of partially empty shelves.
Not looking for a connection! A Washington-based woman said it was easy to find someone to make love with when you were thirty and it was “almost impossible” to find true love
Shallow and dirty! A singleton from Australia said they had experienced superficial and judgmental potential partners in the early 1930s
Online dating is the worst! An anonymous person, from California, confessed that they had decided to remove their Facebook profile after the fight to find a partner began to make them depressed
I’m in my prime! Another singleton seemed to have bypassed the trend and gushed about the new confidence she had with age, saying that meeting men in their thirties was easy
Don’t settle for it! Singleton from North Dakota said that men in their thirties are looking for younger women, while women of the same age are forced to settle with the one available
Wish it was easier! One person from Arizona confessed that dating in the thirties was more difficult than they had expected
Where’s Peter Pan? One single mother, presumably from the US, said finding a good man was like finding Neverland, and said the best were married, gay, or dead
Too much pressure! An anonymous man from an unknown location said that every woman in her thirties dates as a job interview
Younger people like me! Another singleton, whose location is unknown, said they could have attracted younger partners after their thirties
Thrift shop shopping! Singleton, based in Texas, compared their search for love in a budget store full of broken appliances
No ‘male children’ allowed! An anonymous woman, presumably from the US, said it was difficult to find a man who met her standards