A sex therapist has revealed the bedroom techniques that drive women crazy.
Stirling Cooper left the Australian adult film industry in 2020. Now he’s on a mission to “teach men how to be the kind of lover their woman has always wanted.”
“Dirty talk” is the key to “speeding up” a woman’s orgasm, he told DailyMail.com, boasting of having made countless women climax without touching them.
He said: “A woman’s brain is her largest sexual organ. If a man knows how to use dirty talk correctly, he can halve the time it takes a woman to reach orgasm.
Stirling Cooper, a popular sex coach, says men can “speed up” women’s orgasms by talking dirty to them.
Sexual drive and attraction begin in the brain, and for many women, harnessing the power of the mind during sex is key to having a satisfying and pleasurable experience.
‘You can literally bring her to orgasm very quickly.’
Over years of training men, Mr Cooper claims he has “inadvertently” improved the sexual satisfaction of thousands of women.
The former porn star’s macho methods and social media presence have earned him more than 200,000 followers, and he posts self-help videos on YouTube to educate men about erectile dysfunction, increasing sexual desire and how to be more dominant in the bedroom.
He said: “For every man I help, there is at least one woman on the other end. Without realising it, I am directly responsible for their happiness through my clients.”
Sexual health and wellness are crucial and often overlooked aspects of a good life. Yet recent trends show that Americans aren’t having as much sex as they used to.
One of the most comprehensive studies of its kind, the National survey on sexual health and behaviorThey found declines in all types of partnered sexual relationships between 2009 and 2018.
The study found that when it began in 2009, 79 percent of people aged 14 to 17 said they were not having sex. By 2018, that figure had risen to 89 percent.
This can lead to resentment, fights and mistrust between the couple. This is where Mr. Cooper says he steps in.
He said: ‘We’ve had guys who have been married for 20 years tell me they’re in their honeymoon stage again and feel like they’re dating for the first time again.
“They say that sexual chemistry has been awakened in their relationship and they have stopped arguing and arguing because both the man and the woman have returned to their natural polarities.”
Sexual drive and attraction begin in the brain, and for many women, harnessing the power of the mind during sex is key to having a satisfying and pleasurable experience.
Dirty talk in bed can be a minefield. If two partners have never tried it before, additional communication is likely necessary to establish boundaries and possibly safe words. And that extra layer of communication makes sex even better.
TO survey A study by Men’s Health among women found that 92 percent of them enjoyed dirty talk, although they acknowledged that their partners need to agree on acceptable words before they discuss it.
In that same survey, 30 percent of women said they “hated” hearing the word “bitch” during sex, while 24 percent and 22 percent said the same about the words “shit” and “whore,” respectively.
Mr Cooper said his methods for teaching men the dos and don’ts of sex take into consideration a woman’s sense of security while still satisfying her most primal desires.
He said: ‘A lot of what I teach is women’s autonomy, wanting to be provided with a nurturing space, but also wanting the dominant, tough male type.’
Cooper, a former adult film star for three years, is a staunch anti-pornography fan. He argues that it harms a man’s ability to perform sexually and creates unrealistic expectations about sex.
He said: ‘I retired from adult entertainment in 2020 and it’s important for me to make it clear that I do not support the industry.
“It’s not an industry I would encourage anyone to go into and it’s not an industry I would encourage men to consume either.”
