A self-proclaimed trophy wife who prioritizes having a glowing tan and manicured nails has claimed that spending $500 a month on her appearance makes her a better mother.
When Hope James Fifield, 28, married her husband Carter, 27, she knew she wanted her husband to be the breadwinner while she sat next to him, so she decided to quit her job as a preschool teacher. to concentrate on looking. the best of her.
To do this, the Kentucky-based mom spends $150 a month on Pilates lessons, $40 on her gym membership, and $300 on clothing.
Hope even had nail extensions applied while giving birth to her nine-month-old daughter, Mariposa.
A self-proclaimed trophy wife who prioritizes having a glowing tan and manicured nails has claimed that spending $500 a month on her appearance makes her a better mother.
When Hope James Fifield, 28, married her husband Carter, 27, she knew she wanted her husband to be the breadwinner while she sat next to him.
To do this, the Kentucky-based mom spends $150 a month on Pilates lessons, $40 on her gym membership, and $300 on clothing.
She admitted that becoming a mother wouldn’t stop her from being “glamorous.”
Esperanza said: ‘I’ve always been vain and that wasn’t going to change when I became a mother.
“I considered wearing full makeup when I was in labor, but I didn’t like the idea of mascara running down my face, so I decided on fake nails that I applied while I was in the hospital.”
She explained that even after giving birth and becoming a new mother, she didn’t want to take a “back seat.”
Hope added: ‘Even now, I always get my nails done and get a tan because I always like to feel good. I will never put myself in the background.
If the mother of one has no plans to leave the house and is just lazing around in sweats, she will still make sure to accessorize and look glamorous.
She explained: ‘Even if I wear tights and a sweatshirt, I’ll have makeup and some jewelry.
‘I like to look good for myself and my husband and set a good example for my daughter.
She explained that even after giving birth and becoming a new mother, she didn’t want to take a “back seat.”
If the mother of one has no plans to leave the house and is just lazing around in sweats, she will still make sure to accessorize and look glamorous.
“I hoped and dreamed of having a daughter, but she is an addition to my life, not my entire life.”
The glamorous mother met Carter at school and the couple married in October 2020. After marriage, Hope left her job as a preschool teacher to become a stay-at-home mom.
Before becoming a mother, Hope prided herself on being a “trophy wife” and spent her time exercising so she could “always look good.”
She admitted: ‘Ever since I was little, I wanted to be a trophy wife and I want to look like a bombshell. I love looking sexy and being on Cater’s arm while he shows me off to his co-workers.
‘I’m very traditional in the sense that I appreciate that the man is the breadwinner and that wives should look good to their husbands. I was convinced this wouldn’t change when we started a family.’
In October 2022, Hope became pregnant and the couple decided to celebrate by traveling on their honeymoon to Nashville, where they had a pregnancy photo session so Hope could look “glamorous and tanned.”
After the couple welcomed their first daughter, Mariposa, named after a Barbie butterfly fairy, Carter brought Hope a $2,490 Chanel diaper bag as a push gift and a bottle of 818 tequila from $52.
Before becoming a mother, Hope prided herself on being a “trophy wife” and spent her time exercising so she could “always look good.”
And the best part about having a child for Hope is that she can still get her tan and get her nails done, plus go to her Pilates class.
And although Hope had dreamed of being a trophy wife, she revealed that she would never force her daughter to do the same.
She said: “I told Carter exactly what I wanted as a stimulus gift and of course he delivered.” My dream was to have a girl and I knew she wanted to give her a magical name.
‘It has been a dream and he behaves very well. “Every mom is different but I chose to bring my baby into my life.”
And the best part about having a child for Hope is that she can still get her tan and get her nails done, plus attend her Pilates class.
She added: “I can still do my weekly fake tan, get my nails done and always have great hair.” I exercise at home while Mariposa takes a nap.
‘Being Mariposa’s mother is incredible, but I already am and I won’t have any more children. ‘I’m looking forward to it when she’s older and I can teach her about clothes and makeup.’
And although Hope had dreamed of being a trophy wife, she revealed that she would never force her daughter to do the same.
She said: “I would never pressure her to be a trophy wife when she grows up, I want her to be whatever she wants to be.” She may be a trophy wife, but I have the perfect husband.
‘We share the housework and Carter will do anything I don’t have the time or energy to do. We’re best friends and he doesn’t care how I look, just that he’s happy, and that’s when I’m tanned and glamorous.