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Parents feel ‘trapped’ living close to grandparents in order to benefit from free childcare, says Zoopla

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Monika Seredynska, 37, who lives in Chislehurst, south-east London, is dependent on her daughter's grandparents for childcare.
  • A typical family receives 468 hours of free child care per year from grandparents
  • 36% who depend on grandparents say they cannot afford more professional child care.
  • Zoopla says many families choose to live near grandparents for support

Families say they feel caught in a “parent trap” when it comes to where they live and many need to be close to grandparents for help with childcare, thanks to rising childcare costs.

Half of parents with children under 13 live within five miles of their nearest grandparent, according to a new study from Zoopla, and seven in 10 are within a 30-minute drive.

Full-time nursery places now cost up to £140 a day, the equivalent of £33,700 a year for a child or £2,800 a month.

Paying for childcare in much of the UK could account for more than 50 per cent of annual wages, a study by AJ Bell recently found.

Monika Seredynska, 37, who lives in Chislehurst, south-east London, is dependent on her daughter’s grandparents for childcare.

With childcare costs now higher for some than the average monthly mortgage, according to Zoopla, it appears many adults are relying on their children’s grandparents to reduce costs.

Zoopla says the average family relies on nine hours of childcare from grandparents a week, which equates to 468 hours a year.

Given that parents estimate they spend £9.90 per hour on childcare, including nursery, childcare and summer camps, this equates to £4,633.20 of free childcare per year.

Families feel trapped

Zoopla revealed that the flip side is that more than half of families receiving childcare support from grandparents say they now feel “trapped” when it comes to where they live.

More than a third of parents who rely on grandparents for support say they could not afford to do without it as professional childcare would be too expensive.

Many even have to put aside their aspirations of home ownership to get free childcare support.

More than two in five parents who feel trapped would like to move to a larger home, but prices are not affordable in the area they need to stay in to receive support from grandparents, and a quarter say they would like to move to a different area, but they can do it. It’s not because they need to stay close to their parents.

Half of UK parents with children under 13 live within five miles of their nearest grandparent, and 68 per cent live within a 30-minute drive.

Half of UK parents with children under 13 live within five miles of their nearest grandparent, and 68 per cent live within a 30-minute drive.

Some are even prevented from accessing housing altogether: almost a third of those receiving grandparent support say they would like to buy something but have to rent to be close to their parents or in-laws. .

While some put their aspirations to move on hold, others make a conscious decision to reach out to their grandparents after having children.

Nearly two in five parents said that since having children, they have grown closer to their grandparents, while 11 percent currently plan to move.

Daniel Copley, consumer expert at Zoopla, said: ‘As a parent, I know first-hand how expensive childcare can be and how valuable family support is.

‘As such, many Brits feel trapped when it comes to where they live, and it is vital that grandparents are around to help.

‘This is leaving many in the difficult situation of not being able to afford to buy a place near their parents, forcing them to rent when they would otherwise be able to afford housing. Or just live in an area they don’t really want to live in.’

We brought our parents from Europe

Monika Seredynska, 37, from Chislehurst, south-east London, relies on her daughter’s grandparents for childcare.

Monika’s 11-month-old daughter attends part-time daycare due to the lack of full-time daycare availability, but she also relies on her parents to help with daily childcare until she can start working. full time at another daycare. at the end of this summer.

The problem for Monika is that she and her partner’s parents live in Poland and France.

While it’s relatively easy for Monika’s partner’s mother to travel on the Eurostar from Paris, for her own mother it’s a completely different ball game.

“She lives in rural Poland, so my brother has to take her to the airport, which takes two hours, and then fly to Stansted, which my partner and I pay for,” Monika says.

‘You could take the train to the airport, but it’s much less reliable. It then takes me two hours to get from Bromley to Stansted to collect it, and this usually costs me around £60 in travel costs.’

The childcare situation has also had an impact on their living situation.

She says: ‘During the pandemic, to find an affordable house to expand on that had space for our parents to stay, we decided to move from Croydon to somewhere further away from London.

“We upsized from a two-bedroom apartment in Croydon to our current two-bedroom two-bedroom reception house, to make room for our growing family, as upsizing in Croydon would have cost at least £100,000 more per bedroom than where we live now.

‘We are now carrying out an extension to the loft to the tune of £100,000, in order to create two additional bedrooms for when our parents come to stay.

“Otherwise, our daughter currently sleeps in our room when the grandparents stay.”

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