- Sabrina Zohar, 33, is a dating coach who took to TikTok to share three warning signs
- The California-based love expert revealed you should watch out for tactics
- She said people often love bombarding their potential partners from the start.
A dating coach has revealed the three red flags you should look out for when starting a relationship.
Sabrina Zohar33, frequently shares advice with those looking for love — as well as those already in relationships — with her 422,000 TikTok followers.
More recently, the Californian love specialist detailed the warning signs of the start of a relationship.
In a viral clip, which has so far garnered over 542,000 views, the expert noted that one needs to be careful of various manipulation tactics such as love bombing and selective eavesdropping.
Sabrina Zohar, 33, is a dating coach who shared the three red flags you should watch out for when starting a relationship
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More recently, the Californian love specialist detailed the warning signs of the start of a relationship.
Sabrina captioned the video: “Three red flags to watch out for on first dates.”
“Here are three red flags to look out for in the early stages of a relationship — a first date or two,” she said at the start of the video.
The first sign that things may go wrong is when one or both parties begin to over-idealize the situation.
She noted that if someone is too interested in you early in the relationship, they may “love bomb” you.
Sabrina added that someone can’t get to know you on that level in one or two dates, so you shouldn’t let yourself get caught in the trap.
She suggested you set boundaries and ask your crush to slow things down if he starts doing this to you.
“Number two, monopolize your social time. Again, I get it, it’s so exciting when you meet someone you really like, you’re like, “Oh my God, I want to spend all my time with them.”‘
The dating coach noted that this is a bad tactic because you have to “live your own life.”
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In a viral clip, which has so far garnered over 542,000 views, the expert noted that one should be careful of various manipulative tactics such as love bombing and selective eavesdropping.
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Viewers flooded the comments section and praised the expert for her advice.
She added that if someone tries to “take you away from your friends or spend all their time with you, that can be a sign of possessiveness.”
The third flag Sabrina detailed was selective listening.
“They remember specific things you said about things that matter to them, but when it comes to your boundaries and non-negotiables, they just seem to have forgotten,” she explained.
She noted that this shows that this person is self-centered.
Viewers flooded the comments section and praised the expert for her advice.
One person replied: “Yes. This. I wish more people understood this.
Someone else said: “Gosh, I wish I knew this before I was 50, but I’m so glad you’re telling young women this, it’s vital!
Another user added: “I love your content. »
“I unfortunately learned this the hard way,” someone else commented.