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My wife cheated on me with a younger man and I won’t even consider forgiving her – but my own mother has made me feel guilty for wanting to leave

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Man doesn't know if he should leave his wife of ten years after she cheated on him with a younger man in Butlins (file image)

A man has been left torn over whether or not to leave his wife of ten years after she cheated on him on a trip to Butlins.

The anonymous man, who is from the United Kingdom, shared on reddit that while his wife had called him crying during their girls’ trip to confess that she had had sex with a man 10 years younger than her the night before.

Despite his remorse and immediately coming clean, he revealed that he’s “not even considering forgiving her.”

The couple. who have been together for 10 years, share a seven-year-old daughter, and the husband revealed that her own mother is urging him to abandon her family because of a mistake.

He noted that his wife seems “really remorseful” and that “it’s not like she had an affair,” leaving him confused about what to do.

Man doesn't know if he should leave his wife of ten years after she cheated on him with a younger man in Butlins (file image)

Man doesn’t know if he should leave his wife of ten years after she cheated on him with a younger man in Butlins (file image)

The 39-year-old explained that his wife, 33, had approached the man at the bar and when she saw his wedding ring she jokingly lied that she was getting a divorce.

She revealed to her husband, with whom she shared a seven-year-old daughter, that she wanted to “see if I still had it,” but went too far.

Delving deeper into her antics, she revealed that she met the man who was a decade younger and began flirting and dancing with him.

However, things progressed quickly when she became “delighted in kissing”, which eventually led to them returning to his hotel and engaging in extramarital affairs.

Defending the young man, she confessed to her husband that he was not “aggressive or strange.”

Revealing the vulgar details to her husband in her distressed state, she admitted that they had sex several times and continued on and off for three hours before asking him to leave her room.

The woman has apologized to her husband, stating that she had no idea what had happened to her.

“She also begs me not to, offers me marriage counseling, never goes out again, doesn’t drink again, etc, etc,” he wrote.

After she told him vulgar details about their sordid affair, the husband insisted he wanted to leave her, but is now torn after his mother urged him to “think about [his] family’ before taking action

“I’ve always been a one-shot type of person. I just told her to fuck off and I’ve been ignoring her since 10 in the morning.

Since then, his friends and sister, who were also on the three-night getaway, told the man they had no idea about his antics.

But after a comment from his mother, telling him that it wasn’t “like she had an affair” and urging him to “think about [his] family’, the father feels crazy wondering if he is wrong for not trying to make peace with his wife.

Many Redditors flocked to the comments section to support the anonymous man, with several agreeing that he was right to leave her.

‘Trust is broken. You are not wrong. “Some people get marriage counseling, but I personally can’t forgive him,” one of them wrote.

“Three hours of deception is a long time and she knew it was wrong.”

A second wrote: ‘You’re not wrong. If all it took was a couple of drinks and a charming guy for her to throw away her relationship with his family, it wouldn’t be worth it.

Another chimed in: “She’s 33, not 18, to be having overwhelming feelings she can’t control.”

“There may be forgiveness, but there is no forgetting,” a fourth user joked.

‘She told her AP that she was going through a divorce. It’s time to make her an honest woman and divorce her,’ one commented.

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