I’m in my 50s and love being a cougar, but you wouldn’t believe the messages I get from men – my DMs are like the Wild West!
A woman in her 50s has revealed something very unexpected that comes with being a cougar.
Patsy Mennuti, from Fort Lauderdale, takes great pride in dating younger men and calls herself Hellacougar TikTok.
The transformational coach and yogi, who is 52, has provided an insight into what social media is like for her.
She has revealed that a man sent her a video of his bottom on Snapchat to show her an ingrown hair, with the 52-year-old beauty calling her DMs “the Wild West.”
But Patsy can count on the support of her 263,100 followers, who continue to share how striking the yoga lover looks.
Patsy Mennuti, from Fort Lauderdale, is very proud of dating younger men, calling herself Hellacougar on TikTok, where she shared her insight into what life is like for her online
Patsy admitted that many of her followers are curious about what life is like in your fifties.
“I get asked all the time, ‘Hellacougar, what’s it like being a cougar out there today?'” she said in a recent clip.
She went on to talk about an interaction that she says mirrored her experience online.
“Now my public Snapchat is the wild west of the inter-Google web,” she said.
The cougar revealed that she was stunned by an interaction she had with a man via Snapchat, where he has a public account – where strangers can contact you.
“I just opened this up and there was this guy with his naked back to me and it’s a display of an ingrown hair. He’s exclaiming on his Snapchat how painful it is,” she said.
“I don’t know what I got into, I don’t know why I need to know this now. But now I’m living rent-free in my head,” she said with a shrug.
On her website, Patsy explained that she was raised strictly in a Catholic family and had been told she was “bad,” which left a strong impression on her.

The yoga teacher and transformational coach revealed that a man sent her a picture of his butt on SnapChat out of the blue



Patsy has fans of all ages eager to connect with her and compliment her on her looks
Because of this, she developed an eating disorder and battled depression and suicidal thoughts.
Her road to recovery sparked her interest in personal growth, and she also decided as a young person to stay single and have only a series of relationships in her life instead of one long term relationship.
On her TikTok profile, the 52-year-old has gathered several fans who cheer her on and continue to compliment her on her looks.
“I like cougars,” said one.
“What’s your Snap?” asked another, eager to connect with Patsy.
‘Go girl,’ said another, as the other remarked, ‘You are beautiful! Your hair is so beautiful.’
One simply wrote, “You are beyond reproach.”
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