A man has been slammed for using a relationship ‘loophole’ to cheat on his girlfriend – but not everyone thinks he’s wrong.
Adam*, 22, had been living happily with his girlfriend Jenny*, 19, for two years when he received the shock of his life during a conversation with his best friend.
At a social gathering, the couple and their group of friends were discussing their sexual relationships when Adam’s friend Anna revealed that she had only slept with women.
‘Adam was flabbergasted, stuttered and said she was basically “still a virgin,” Jenny said. “Anna then joked that maybe Adam should take her virginity – but he got upset and calmed down.”
Jenny added: “I immediately told him how uncomfortable it made me – which is why I was shocked when Adam told me he had slept with Anna two days later.”
A man was slammed for using a relationship ‘loophole’ to cheat on his girlfriend – but not everyone thinks he’s wrong
Jenny shared her story on a popular online forum and asked for advice on this unusual situation.
She was left devastated after the ‘awkward’ conversation at the party – but her boyfriend assured her it was ‘just a joke’ and ‘not that serious’.
‘Adam and Anna I went out for drinks on Monday, and he came back and told me they had sex – but it’s not cheating because she’s a lesbian and he was doing her a favor by taking her “man’s virginity,” Jenny wrote.
“I was appalled and left, but I was bombarded with texts from him, Anna and the group. They all say it’s nothing, it doesn’t mean anything, and I’m ignorant.
Jenny felt like she was “going crazy” being the only one who thought it was cheating.
Many sided with him and called Adam out for his “disgusting” behavior.
‘No. I’m gay, she’s a dirty cheater and she just wanted to sabotage your relationship. She’s scum and he’s toxic,” one man said.
“Any group that would take sides with this cheating bullshit are trash humans that you don’t need in your life. Sex is sex. It’s still sex if you have the same sex with a queer person “wrote another.
A third added: “He’s not only a cheater but also an idiot. Now all your friends are telling you to believe it. Stay away from them!
But others weren’t convinced he had technically “cheated” on her.
“I mean, at least he told you.” If he considered it cheating, he probably would have lied to you about it,” one of them defended.
“It doesn’t really count as cheating because she’s a lesbian. If she was bisexual it might be a different story,” another added.
*Names have been changed for privacy reasons.