The ex manny Mel B revealed how he felt obliged to tell a judge about the drink and the demons of drugs after witnessing how he cruelly intimidated his 11-year-old daughter and flaunt a chain of unknown men in front of his two small children.
In an exclusive interview with DailyMailTV, Rusty Updegraff also claims that Judge America's Got Talent would leave the city for ten days at a time and that not once would she call her children while she was not there.
Rusty, who cared for Brown's children for nine months, says it was obvious that the obvious emotional impact his behavior was having on Angel, 11, Madison, seven and even Phoenix, 19, was difficult and ultimately prompted him to act .
Her explosive deposition filed in court on August 31 led to a judge who ruled that the former Spice Girl had an addiction to beverages and drugs, and ordered her to undergo four months of regular medical examinations.
DailyMailTV may reveal that the judge has ordered that Mel must have an adult & # 39; responsible & # 39; with her during the overnight stays with Madison, the daughter she shares with her ex-husband Stephen Belafonte, and that if she takes the child out of the US. UU I could lose custody. .
The ex manny of Mel B revealed how he felt compelled to tell a judge about the drink and drugs of the demons after witnessing how he cruelly intimidated his 11-year-old daughter Angel and flaunting a row of strange men in front of him. Angel and her youngest daughter Madison, seven (left)
DailyMailTV may reveal that the judge has ordered Mel to have a responsible adult & # 39; with her during the nights with Madison (bottom left), the daughter she shares with her ex-husband Stephen Belafonte, and that if she takes the child out of the US. UU could lose custody
Mel posed naked with the hairdresser and BFF Gary Madatyan, who was also naked, in a pool and posted the provocative photos on Instagram. Rusty said that Angel saw the message and said: "My God, Mom is naked, what are you doing?"
In an exclusive interview with DailyMailTV, Rusty Updegraff claims that judge America's Got Talent would leave the city for ten days at a time and would not call his children. He says he saw the emotional impact his behavior was having on Angel and even Phoenix, 19, encouraged him to act
Judge Mark Juhas imposed the strict regulations while he considers what to do with long-term custody with his former Belafonte.
The order says that Mel can, "hire an acceptable nanny from a registered agency and bonded conditions". to satisfy the requirement, but there must be someone & # 39; present & # 39; so that the star does not remain alone with her son without supervision.
Restorer Rusty says he is satisfied with the result and that it was never his intention to pressure Mel to lose custody of her children.
"I did the work, you know, because it's about the children, not her," he said.
"Those girls love their mother and Melanie loves girls, but Melanie desperately needs help.
"I want her to be clean and healthy, because when she's healthy she can be a mother again." At this moment she is the worst mother in the world. "
Recalling the worst incidents at Mel's house in Hollywood, he said the singer would download tequila and open ranks with his daughter Angel, with Madison within earshot.
And during the shouting matches, judge America's Got Talent used to hit sports that crazy Angel called "stinking b ** ch" for refusing to use deodorant.
Remember: "Angel is a tomboy, she does not like to shower, she's that age, so Mel puts a nickname on her smelly b *** h, she's like, you want to be a smelly b *** h? Everyone will call you wrong and you will follow.
"I begged you, please do not tell that to your daughter." She replied: "Why?" She's a smelly b *** h … she stinks & # 39; & # 39 ;.
"Angel is 11 years old, he will stay with her, I know because my father was like that … he only creates these insecurities in children as they get older".
Rusty claims that the singer cruelly intimidated her 11-year-old daughter, Angel (pictured), calling her a "b chornie" for refusing to use deodorant
Updegraff filed the explosive deposition on Judge America's Got Talent after witnessing his behavior while caring for his young children for nine months
Recalling the worst incidents at Mel's house in Hollywood, he said the singer would download tequila and open ranks with his daughter Angel, with Madison within earshot. In the photo: Mel B with Angel (left), Madison (center) and Phoenix, 19, (right) on Mother's Day
Updegraff shared text messages she received from Charlotte, Mel B's best friend, who tried to organize an intervention with the singer, which lists her numerous classmates
The screenshots that Updegraff provided also reveal a huge tower of tequila boxes stored in the house of Mel B
On another occasion, one of the star's Instagram publications caught Angel's attention.
Mel posed naked with the hairdresser and BFF Gary Madatyan, who was also naked, in a pool and posted the provocative photos on his social network.
Rusty, 60, remembers the shocking moment when Mel's daughter saw the message.
"We were in Palm Springs and Mel had been drinking." It was in my last courage and Mel had been on a roll in Los Angeles even before going to Palm Springs.
"Then Angel saw an Instagram message from Melanie naked with Gary, her hairdresser, and she said:" My God, mom is naked, what are you doing? & # 39; & # 39;
"And I'm like, oh God, how do I explain this, then she says that mom has the worst grammar, which was cute, but it's sad.
& # 39; Angel was ashamed that mommy had done this. Mel's kids are watching her on Instagram, Angel is 11 years old, but her mind is not developed, it's really sad. "
And in a more disturbing behavior, Rusty says that Mel used to walk away from home on work trips for seven or ten days at a time, but that she never called her children once to check if they were okay.
"I mean, who does that," said Rusty.
Rusty says he was spending so much time with the two girls that he was quickly hooked & # 39; and discovered that caring for them was "very rewarding."
"They are very funny and very interesting, they ask a million questions, they are great," he said. "Madison is, I swear to God, she is a television personality and does not understand why she is funny.
He continued: & # 39; And I think, Oh God, how do I explain this, then she says that mom has the worst grammar, it was cute, but it's sad & # 39;
Updegraff said she believed that Madison (pictured with Mel on a film from America's Got Talent) was going to be bothered by one of her friends, since the man allegedly tried to take the girl to the shower to help her. # 39; clean it & # 39;
& # 39; And Angel, bright. She is kind to herself, but a brilliant writer, artist and creative person. She loves sports and loves to sing.
"One night her grandmother was there, Melanie was at work and she came down, she was doing her homework and we started talking to her about it and she had written a story that was great.
"And I was so excited that we read her story that she ran up and brought a box full of stories that she wrote.
& # 39; And that's why I think it's sad. Melanie had no idea about this until I told her. Like, how do you not know?
Rusty says he acted as a "buffer" between Mel and his girls, so they did not witness her having the worst behavior.
"They want to know why there is a naked man in Mom's room or who was that guy in the kitchen with his shirt on," he said.
"I tried to answer your questions as best I could."
Rusty says that Mel's sex life got out of control and worried that the children were exposed to different strange men.
"There were like three guys in a day and I'm talking about five-hour sessions with each one because the guy is going, you know, I talked to the guys and they said, I can not go anymore.
"And then another man would come and another boy." There was the waiter from Soho House, the boy he met in the sink, there was the piano teacher, a boy nicknamed Frenchie, another French boy, then there was the artist guy, and you must remember that they were also in rotation.
"There were men who came to his house at all hours, who are practically unknown, and are close to the children, I worry that he does not know these guys."
Rusty says he acted as a "buffer" between Mel and his girls so they did not witness some of the worst behaviors
Mel and Stephen divorced in December of last year, but have continued to fight for the custody of their two youngest children, Angel Murphy Brown (photo on the left) 11, (Mel's daughter by Eddie Murphy) and Madison Belafonte
The affectionate father, aged 43, and his youngest daughter were linked, only a few days after Belafonte obtained temporary custody
Having been abused as a child, Rusty says he knows very well how something shocking can happen quickly.
It makes me so angry; Sincerely, I thought that Madison could be bothered by one of his friends, "he said.
"I wanted to clean it in the shower after they went swimming when Mel left the house.
"What the man thinks is right is to take a six-year-old girl, not his son, to a shower, and I thought that was wrong.
"If I had not been there that day, I would be afraid to think what would have happened."
Things got so bad that Rusty says that Mel's mother, Andrea, sister Danielle and best friend Charlotte flew to LA in April to carry out an intervention due to their excessive alcohol consumption.
Unfortunately, the action did not go very well with Brown.
When they came Mel spent a whole day ignoring them, upstairs, having sex with an actor in the house, with the stereo on fire. That took things to the limit, "he recalls." They all had fiery ranks. "
He continued: "Mel drank so much in the house and fainted, so if there was an emergency, I was afraid to think what would happen to the children.
"I am really worried about those children, with whom I grew up very close during my nine months.
"When I was there they were protected, but the children can not take care of themselves, and Mel does not focus on them." Sometimes she felt that her vagina mattered more than the children.
"He left them often, without adequate supervision, so something serious could have happened.
"Those children are in danger and I had to act before something disastrous happened."
Rusty says that now she wants Mel to look for a professional and believes that she needs to get rid of the "habilitadores" she pays to be close to her.
A judge ruled that Mel must undergo random drug and alcohol testing for four months after a bomb statement claimed he had been abusing drugs and alcohol while in the custody of his young children.
Last month, when Mel revealed that she was going to rehabilitation for PTSD, she admitted that she was struggling to deal with her emotions, which led her to seek solace in alcohol and sex. In the photo: Mel with his daughters Phoenix, Madison, Giselle Belafonte and Angel in March
Rusty claims that Mel cataloged him as a disgruntled former employee and even told friends that he had embezzled money and lied.
He says that she also accused him of plotting with his former Belafonte to try to have the children taken away, a claim he also denies.
"Stephen is not paying me, he's not my friend, I do not even know him," Rusty wants to make it clear.
"I did not even like him, it was me who told him to stay away from him years ago and he kicked me on the sidewalk."
He added that he has no interest in fame either.
"I'm not doing this for fame, what kind of fame is this? I did not have to do this, but I love those kids and I want the best for them," he explained.
Last month, when Mel revealed that she was going to rehabilitation for PTSD, she admitted that she was struggling to deal with her emotions, which led her to seek solace in alcohol and sex.
Mel revealed: "Sometimes it's very difficult to deal with all the emotions I feel, but the problem has never been about sex or alcohol: it's underneath all that.
"I am fully aware that I have been at a crisis point, nobody knows me better than me, but I am dealing with that."
But Rusty insists that Mel blames her drinking problem on post-traumatic stress disorder is complete nonsense.
"I met Mel years ago, in 2002, so to say that all this is caused by PTSD is crazy because she was like that before I met Stephen and I was there when she met Stephen," she said.
"She was celebrating hard at the time, but today it has intensified."
Rusty says that now he wants Mel to look for a professional and believes that he needs to get rid of the "enablers" he pays to be close to her.
"She needs stability in her life and true friends." He said, and added: "I love those kids. And I felt like I was part of that family. And that is. You know, if you're not going to think about your children first, I am.
& # 39; Mel does not think about his children first. A mother is disinterested, but she is not, she is selfish. And that's the difference ".
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