Man blasted for putting pressure on a 7-month-old pregnant woman to exercise one morning if she didn’t want to
An Atlanta lawyer has been criticized as ‘f *** ing psycho’ after bragging about putting pressure on his seven-month-pregnant wife to exercise one day when she didn’t want to.
Travis D. Hughes, a real estate agent living in Atlanta, tweeted on Sunday that his heavily pregnant wife was “not in the mood” to practice that morning.
Travis suggested that he might have taught her, wailed, or even blamed her for not training that day – but instead noted that he congratulated himself, got up to work out, and insisted urges her to do it with him.
What my hubby wants: An Atlanta lawyer is criticized as ‘f *** ing psycho’ after bragging about putting pressure on his seven-month-pregnant wife to exercise one day when she didn’t want to
No rest days allowed! Travis D. Hughes tweeted that his heavily pregnant wife was not in the mood to exercise that morning
“My wife, who is almost seven months old. pregnant, wasn’t in the mood to train this morning, ”Travis tweeted.
“So instead of giving her a lecture, resenting her, or whining about it, I threw up the practice video and did it to her.
“Our kids saw us and joined in,” he concluded, adding, “No one is talking about this part of the marriage / dating.”
The tweet quickly went viral – but not for the reason Travis had hoped. Thousands of responses came in from men and women horrified by Travis’s tweet.
Some pointed out that his wife’s body goes through quite a bit during pregnancy, and that he shouldn’t spoil her instead of pressuring her to put more pressure on herself.
His house, his rules: He said, “Instead of giving her a lecture, resenting or nagging her, I threw up the practice video and did it to her.”
Yikes, dude … The tweet quickly went viral – but not for the reason Travis had hoped. Thousands of comments came in from horrified men and women
“She is growing a baby, you make psycho, make pancakes for her and leave her alone,” wrote one.
“I would switch OB if yours convinced you that it is essential for your wife to train when she is pregnant, even if she doesn’t feel like it. Not a good OB thinks it’s a good idea to force yourself to exercise when your body wants a rest. Your wife should also consider changing her husband, ”said another.
Others were outraged that Travis had the right to “teach” her about something, especially her own body.
“I’ve been married for over 20 years and couldn’t imagine my partner teaching / resenting / urging me to do something I didn’t want to do. Especially when I was seven months pregnant. I feel sorry for your wife, ”wrote one.
“What … and I can’t express this strongly enough … the real f *** is wrong with you?” asked a man. “You actually considered teaching your wife. WHO IS SEVEN MONTHS PREGNANT? ”
No, we have to PRIZE him! Travis called himself a “accountability partner” and insisted that he support her
Chill: Some were disgusted that Travis had the right to “teach” her about something, especially her own body
Think before you tweet! His brother-in-law agreed and gave Travis the benefit of the doubt, but still seemed to be struggling with the wording
“She must divorce you,” said another.
When some wondered why he thought such behavior was okay, he answered with a question of his own.
“You’ve never heard of anyone complaining about their partner’s physical condition? Serious question, “Travis replied, seemingly implying that women should remain in perfect shape, even if they allow people to grow within them.
Travis continued to defend himself.
“Lol, I don’t understand some of the confused reactions. I’m sure tons of married people know exactly what I’m talking about, ”he wrote dismissively.
“I didn’t think I had to explain this, but resentment in marriages / relationships is extremely common, be it right or wrong. People don’t like the fact that their husbands earn more than they do. I have heard that women are resentful because their partners are ill or seriously injured.
No regrets: Travis continued to defend himself and doubled his original tweet
“Men cheat on their partners every day for all kinds of reasons. Just like women. The point was that instead of harboring a negative emotion or being passively aggressive, I decided to support my wife in this case by doing the work with her, ”he continued.
However, his self-defense did not address the criticism that he is trying to control his wife.
“For the record, my wife and I love each other very much,” he added
He also did not respond to criticism that it is not a bad thing for his wife to rest and sometimes skip a workout.
“For the record, my wife and I love each other very much,” he added. ‘We have known each other for two decades and can be totally authentic with each other. If you really know us, you know how blessed we are. We are accountability partners, enabling us to thrive.
“She is a grown woman who is a woman, a mother and a doctor. Not only does she have freedom of choice, she is a literal expert on the human body. Everything that happens in our home happens with a spoken or unspoken agreement, ”he added.
The bride’s brother even agreed – and while he gave his brother-in-law the benefit of the doubt, he also seemed to recognize that there was something wrong with what Travis wrote.
“Given the privilege of knowing you and knowing that my sister wanted you to be accountable this way, I was meant to, but a few others for sure. assumed the worst, “he said.