Man, 31, says he doesn't have the heart & # 39; to tell his partner that he only has 12 months left to live
& # 39; Should I tell my wife that I am dying? & # 39; Man, 31, says he doesn't have the heart & # 39; to tell his wife that he only has 12 months to live – and he plans a dream vacation before he gets too sick
- A young man has known an indignant dilemma on a Reddit thread
- He had a life expectancy of around 60 years old due to a medical condition
- But after a new complication, his remaining time has been reduced to just one year
- He did not want to ruin a dream trip to Australia by telling her the news
A dying man has revealed that he & # 39; does not have the heart & # 39; to tell his wife that he only has 12 months to live and wants to take a long vacation with her before announcing the news.
The anonymous man, 31, confessed his dilemma to Reddit and said he didn't want his final year to be troubled by impending disaster.
& # 39; I was always projected to live until 50-60 years ago – I have had to deal with a medical condition that requires constant medication & # 39 ;, wrote the social media user.
A dying man has revealed that he & # 39; not the heart & # 39; has to tell his wife that he only has 12 months to live (stock photo)
The man said his medical condition had deteriorated and his prognosis was now much shorter
& # 39; However, a recent complication has reduced that to 12 months or six at best, & # 39; he added.
& # 39; I am married with four years without children. I didn't have the heart to tell my wife the news – I don't even know how. & # 39;
The young man then revealed his controversial idea of how to handle the final months of his life.
& # 39; I've saved myself to go to school, but I don't really feel like it now.
& # 39; My idea is to take some of that money, bring my wife to Australia for a few months, and enjoy the time together. & # 39;
He said he would tell his wife the bad news at the end of their journey or just after, because she is emotional and cries every day of the vacation.
Instead of telling his wife, he said he would prefer to take her on a dream vacation
But the idea did not go well with his co-editors, many of whom said it would be difficult for her to forgive him if he followed his plan.
& # 39; Please tell it as the wife of a husband who also dies. She'll never forgive you if you don't, & a user wrote.
Soluut Absolutely, she has the right to know. I can't imagine how angry she will find out so late, & another one added.
One commenter strongly argued with the man's wife, saying they were in her position and it ruined their last moments with their loved one.
& # 39; Please tell her. My mother hid her cancer for me and my family – we finally found out that she spent her in a hospital last month while her children and husband were so confused. & # 39;
Some chose to take the side of the man, and said that his last months should also be about his pleasure and not just that of his wife.
& # 39; He wants to be able to spend the last months of his life on condition that he enjoys himself & # 39 ;, he wrote.
& # 39; He knows her well enough to know that if he breaks the news now, the last 12 months will be a long-term experience requiring him to take care of his ST while his final days dry up. & # 39;
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