A professional matchmaker has revealed the seven aspects of a woman’s character that a man wouldn’t care about when thinking about a long-term relationship.
Relationship expert Louanne Ward revealed that women shouldn’t confuse what they’re looking for with what men consider valuable.
The Perth dating coach shared the list along with some examples of traits men consider unimportant, such as a woman’s academic success and bank account.
“Ladies, you may think you’re putting a lot on the table — and you probably are — but men don’t pick partners the way women do, and what they value isn’t always what you think,” Louanne wrote in a post.
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Relationship expert Louanne Ward revealed that women shouldn’t confuse what they’re looking for with what men consider valuable
“Men don’t care, and I’ll tell you exactly what they don’t care about,” said the dating expert.
She narrowed the long list down to seven key points all women should be aware of when courting a partner.
1. Your academic performance
“I’m not saying he won’t be impressed, but they won’t help him decide if you’re a good partner for him,” Louanne said.
Instead, men are more concerned about a woman’s ability to be feminine and comfortable with herself.
2. Your busy social life
“Men don’t want to know how busy you are socializing and going out,” the dating expert revealed.
Louanne shared that men care about how women look physically and how they take care of their homes, health and their partners.
3. Your career success
The Perth dating coach revealed that just like their education, a woman’s career will not help a man decide if she is a good match for him.
But an important character trait is how supportive someone can be about their goals and dreams.
4. Your financial status
“Your rich parents, or all the things you have, he doesn’t care,” said Louanne.
She revealed that while a man would rather not take in a woman who comes with a whole pile of debt, her financial status is “not a major selling point.”
5. How independent you are
Louanne said that when a man hears the line, “I don’t need a man,” he usually checks out.
“Why wouldn’t a man want to be needed?” she asked.
Instead, she said men are looking for a woman who can control her emotions and be rational.
“He wants someone who can talk about how they feel instead of ranting, ranting, blaming, and whining.”
6. Your social media and how many Instagram followers you have
The dating expert revealed that social media accounts are superficial aspects of a person’s character and say nothing specific about their personality.
7. Your designer handbags, designer shoes, or how much they cost
Much like her point on social media, a person’s wardrobe is primarily a materialistic aspect of their personality that reveals nothing deeper about their soul.
A professional matchmaker has revealed the seven aspects of a woman’s character that a man wouldn’t consider when thinking about a long-term relationship
Many were grateful for Louanne’s wisdom.
“You worried me at the start there!” said a woman. “But in the end quite true… To be caring and to be impressed are definitely two different things.”
“Love your advice, this is nothing but the truth,” wrote another.
“This is so accurate, thanks for sharing,” a third added.
But others disagreed with her “controversial” opinions.
“Men only care if you respect them and how intimate you are,” one man wrote.
“I say that the modern man does care about a woman’s financial status because he doesn’t want to take care of a woman financially,” said one woman.
