Kristin Cavallari revealed that she and her ex Jay Cutler tried to rekindle their romance after their divorce.
The Hills star, 37, revealed the couple “went on a couple of dates” after their split in 2022, “trying to see” if they could make things work again during their appearance on the show. Bunnie XO’s Dumb Blonde Podcast.
Cavallari, who also called the former NFL star, 41, a “pathological liar” on the podcast, went on to call their relationship a “traumatic bond.”
‘Because, man, it’s fucking hard. And then I think, unless you’ve been through this, especially with a toxic marriage, it’s like it takes over you… It’s fucking trauma bonding.’
“And until you can really break that, I would go back (to Cutler) a couple of times and say, ‘I know it’s not right, but why am I doing it?'”
Finally, Cavallari said that for the “millionth time” I thought, “I can’t do this,” before he finally cut it off for good. “So I really did the job,” he added.
Kristin Cavallari, 37, revealed that she and ex Jay Cutler, 41, tried to rekindle their romance following their divorce in 2022.
The Hills star revealed the couple ‘went on a couple dates’ after their split ‘trying to see’ if they could make it work again during her appearance on Bunnie XO’s Dumb Blonde podcast; seen in 2019
Cavallari, who also revealed that she is dating someone new, also said that being with Cutler was like “marrying my dad” because she “hadn’t worked on my relationship with my dad.”
Speaking about his father, Dennis Cavallari, he shared: “So the thing is, I was repeating a pattern with my father. And since I hadn’t worked on my relationship with my father, that’s what you do, you know? I ended up marrying my father.
“And so, it really forced me to work on my shit, which is what I did.”
After her divorce, Cavallari said she had “really taken the time to get my shit together” to stop “repeating that pattern” in a future relationship.
“Things were never good and we tried, we really did… We really did everything we could.”
‘I was a baby, I didn’t know any better,’ she added, referring to the fact that she was just 23 when she started dating the athlete, who was 27. ‘We were both young.’
Elsewhere on the podcast, she called him a ‘pathological liar’ and said he brought ‘zero consistency’ to their relationship when they were together.
The former reality star shares three children with Jay – sons Camden, 12, and Jaxon, 10, and daughter Saylor, nine – and has been co-parenting with him since they split in April 2020 after seven years of marriage (with their divorce finalized). in June 2022).
“I would go back (to Cutler) a couple of times and say, ‘I know it’s not right, but why am I doing it?'” he shared.
Finally, Cavallari said that for the ‘eighteenth millionth time’ I thought, “I can’t do this” before he finally cut it off for good; the couple seen in 2019
Cavallari, who also called the former NFL star a “pathological liar” on the podcast, called their relationship a “traumatic bond.”
During her appearance on the podcast, Kristin called their co-parenting relationship “so ups and downs” and their post-divorce relationship a “bumpy road.”
Kristin even addressed the rumored romance she had with her former friend Kelly Henderson when they were still married, revealing that it may have happened.
The star, who recently opened up about her spicy romance with Morgan Wallen, also called their romance “toxic,” something she previously said in 2022.
She said that while Jay, who was arrested in October for an alleged DUI in Tennessee, never apologized to her for certain things that happened during their marriage, she can still forgive him and empathize with the former football star.
DailyMail.com has contacted Jay’s representatives for comment.
Kristin opened up about the alleged romance between Jay and Kelly, who was also his Very Cavallari co-star, while he was still married to Kristin.
“I really don’t think anything happened,” he said on the podcast.
However, she seemed to backtrack and ask if something happened between them.
Cavallari also said that being with Cutler was like ‘marrying my dad’ because she ‘hadn’t worked on my relationship with my dad’; seen with her father Dennis Cavallari in 2016
Kristin was married to the former NFL star from 2013 to 2022 and they share three children; They are photographed in 2017 in West Hollywood.
They are parents to sons Camden, 12, and Jaxon, 10, and daughter Saylor, nine.
‘I really don’t think anything happened. Damn, I don’t know how to be honest with you. Do I know for sure? No.’
And she added that he “used to criticize her,” meaning talk badly about her, which she said could mean something was going on between the two.
“Jay used to criticize her and I think if a guy criticizes a girl, there’s probably something going on,” Kristin explained.
The mother of three said divorce was something she never wanted, because her parents were divorced.
Kristin said it was “the last thing she wanted” when talking about divorce.
“That will still come up from time to time…it just sucks that we’re not together as a family.”
While she doesn’t “regret anything,” she did call their relationship “toxic.”
“When you’re dealing with a pathological liar, it’s hard to know what the damn truth is,” the businesswoman said.
Adding: ‘People who lie to you or deceive you are because they are hurt.’ That’s about them. “That has nothing to do with me,” he said.
Cavallari also revealed that she is dating someone new, specifically a retired athlete who is 40 years old and has children.
The former couple sat together at their son’s basketball game this year, something they still can’t believe happened.
“We sat together at a basketball game at the beginning of the year and I thought, ‘Holy shit, this is the best thing that’s ever happened. “My God, we did it,” he said.
‘We can sit next to each other. And we haven’t sat together since, so I don’t know. What the fuck?’
Cavallari also revealed that she is dating someone new, specifically a retired athlete who is 40 years old and has children.
She said the two “connect on so many different levels” but insists it’s a “really new” relationship.
Kristin’s new relationship comes three months after she split from her boyfriend Mark Estes, 24, due to their age difference and differences in their life experiences.