After being hit on social media to post a photo of a Kama Sutra book on her anniversary, Jill Duggar calls the old book & # 39; unbiblical & # 39; and she claims she doesn't recommend it.
Jill, 28, from & # 39; 19 Kids and Counting & # 39; and & # 39; Counting On & # 39; fame – who waited until her wedding day for her first kiss – celebrated her fifth wedding anniversary with her husband Derick Dillard on a trip to nearby Branson, Missouri.
The mother of two then posted photos of the mini vacation on June 25, shocking fans who saw that one of the snapshots was a sex game and a copy of the erotic book the Kama Sutra, which they had neatly placed on the same table as an open the Bible.
Hot, steamy Duggar sex! Jill Duggar shared this photo during a recent wedding anniversary competition, in which she showed her copy of the Kama Sutra (top right) and a sexy bedroom game (left)
Sweet fellowship: the 28-year-old, pictured with the 30-year-old Derick Dillard, initially showed no shame about making such an explicit and public statement about her sex life
Hundreds of people left comments, especially the Kama Sutra. While some applauded her, many thought the picture was problematic and more conservative religious fans felt it was unpleasant.
In the wake of the firestorm on social media, Jill has now adjusted the title of the photo, the book & # 39; unbiblical & # 39; and claimed that neither she nor her husband tried to recommend that the other person use the Kama Sutra.
In the long & # 39; Note & # 39; added to the bottom of the journal of the anniversary photo batch & # 39; s, Jill wrote: & # 39; We do not recommend the Kama Sutra. We believe that marriage is instituted by God and that husbands and wives filter everything they read and hear together through the lens of the Bible and do nothing unbiblical. & # 39;
She added that & # 39; The illustrated little book is a modern, smaller, cleaner, edited version that does not focus on spiritual aspects, homosexual or other extra-marital relationships, and again, we do not include everything, even if the truth. It is always good to be aware of and to be careful with what we allow in our thoughts, hearts and marriages. We have not read the actual Kama Sutra and only promote biblical marriage (that is, between a man and a woman who are married). & # 39;
The reason for the long caption update, she wrote, was: & # 39; We just wanted to clarify it, because there was a lot of discussion after this post. & # 39;
Awkward! Jill has shared a caption that is full of emoji & # 39; s – and has also tagged her mother-in-law, @cldilla, to thank her for watching her sons
Oops! One day after she was beaten for letting the world know that the Kama Sutra was part of her anniversary weekend, Jill adjusted her Instagram message with this note
Because R-rated films are bad: they also went to see Toy Story 4 this weekend
Did you show her the book, Jill? Jill's post contained several photos of their trip to Branson, Missouri, including this selfie with their waitress
NBD: The sexy book was smashed between the tricks of a bluegrass band and the restaurant where they ate
A look at Amazon reviews of The Little Black Book or Kama Sutra: The essential guide to getting it, by LL Long, seems to support Jill's claim that the version of the Kama Sutra she has shared with fans is a purified version of the ancient Indian Sanskrit text, which is considered one of the most famous books about erotic love.
While the original contains passages on topics such as foreplay, group sex, homosexual sexual acts, adultery, prostitution and ways to please a loved one, the chosen version of Duggar is, according to reviews, much tamer.
& # 39; This would be a great book for a virgin or someone who has only done a missionary & # 39 ;, wrote a reviewer from Amazon.
& # 39; Absolutely useless book … the presentation is very nice, but the information provided can only be interested in early teenagers & # 39 ;, another reviewer wrote.
Generate an appetite, right? Jill also shared a few snaps of the food she had eaten at the weekend
The devil did it: fellow Christians expressed their disappointment – with a couple who ridiculed her for reading a book & # 39; grounded in Hinduism & # 39; and & # 39; inviting Satan to the wedding & # 39;
When Jill initially shared the G-rated photos & # 39; s of her anniversary, she disregarded the Kama Sutra and chose to let the title of the book speak for itself.
The most prominent in the black-and-white photo is the Kama Sutra book, which was placed upright to show the title. In addition to the book on the table, there was also a & # 39; Bedroom Edition & # 39; of an intimacy game, with a visible card reading & # 39; Sweet Seduction & # 39 ;.
& # 39; We had a beautiful 5yr. anniversary weekend in Branson, MO! We stayed in a bed and breakfast, then spent some time in Silver Dollar City and saw our friends perform @Southernraisedbandmusic, & she wrote in the original caption.
& # 39; Derick surprised me with a great dinner (and a beautiful view!), & # 39; She went on.
& # 39; Thank you @datingdivas for the fun games and ideas! If you don't know about them, view them !! They have many nice, clean, date / wedding tips and ideas!
& # 39; We ended our trip with a fun afternoon in the cinema, watching # toystory4 & # 39 ;, she added, before tagging Derick's mother and thanking her for watching the couple's two songs.
If Jill hoped to get attention for the mail, she succeeded.
& # 39; Not offensive to all of you, but I don't want to know what happens between the sheets! Please note that you have been brought up as a Christian, & wrote one.
& # 39; Really shocked Jill. You have always been a huge example to me. From the moment I was first converted. This really scared me off & # 39 ;, another wrote.
A few commentators even punished Jill for straying from Christianity, pointing to the Hindu roots of the Kama Sutra.
& # 39; Am surprised that you would read the Kama Sutra, it is Hindu. You invite Satan to your wedding, & wrote one.
But it wasn't just fundamentalists with mother-of-pearl who saw a problem: commentators who saw themselves as more liberal didn't like it either.
& # 39; Some things should be private and that's it & # 39 ;, wrote a woman who identified herself as a & # 39; liberal atheist bisexual woman & # 39 ;.
& # 39; Especially if you preach modesty based on Biblical standards, while telling the world what you do in your bedroom … for thousands of people. & # 39;
Some things stay private! Other commentators who identified themselves as non-conservative also found the whole thing an excess
& # 39; Why oh why do you feel the need to post this? & # 39; another asked. & # 39; You wear modest clothing to keep your body covered, but you share intimate details about your sex life with the world? This is very strange to me. & # 39;
& # 39; Whoa. I don't consider myself a mess, but I don't think we should know anything about your bedroom games either. Waaaaaay TMI, Jill, & someone else said.
But at least a few members of her family didn't mind the mail. It was loved by Jill & # 39; s sisters Jana and Jessa, plus her in-laws Lauren (who is married to Josiah) and Kendra (who is married to Joe).
But it was noticeably unloved with Jinger or her husband Jeremy Vuolo, Jessa & # 39; s husband Ben Seewald, or the official Duggar Fam account.
Jill was shockingly frank about her sex life lately and had jaws on the floor earlier this month when she shared a blog post with a list of her most helpful marriage advice.
The suggestions include encouraging couples to have frequent sex, to keep sex for each other only (in other words, not to masturbate), and to do sexy things like rubbing the wife with lotion while her husband watches.
The post started innocently enough, with Jill quoting Bible verses like: & # 39; You will love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself. & # 39;
Later on! Although Jill did not immediately respond to critics and did not seem to be afraid that people said her posts contained TMI, she eventually clarified the book
Do it, ladies! The mother-of-two similar startled followers earlier this month with a blog post with details about her marriage advice
Good luck! Jill said that women often have to have sex with their husbands three or four times a week to get started
But as soon as she looked into practical advice for & # 39; ways we can love our men & # 39 ;, there was sex talk.
First point of advice: have a lot of sex with your husband.
& # 39; Have sex often! & # 39; she wrote. & # 39; You both need this time together regularly (3-4 times a week is a good start. Lol). & # 39;
Sometimes she admitted that it is not possible to have sex at least every other day and that possible health problems are referred to. Although she did not mention any specifics, Jill went on to undergo C sections with both of her sons.
& # 39; And if you may not be able to have sexual intercourse for some time or for health issues, look for other ways to have fun and be intimate, & # 39; she said. & # 39; Let your spouse know that you have one, roads available. & # 39;
Referring to masturbation, she added: & # 39; Only guard against fulfilling sexual desires. & # 39;
& # 39; Be open with your partner about your desires and change things to keep it exciting! (Philippians 2: 3-4; 1 Corinthians 7: 5), & # 39; she continued.
& # 39; If you're struggling with your partner for sex, HELP HERE! Go to a doctor and / or qualified counselor and don't be afraid to get second opinions! & # 39;
Jill also recommended that women get & # 39; new lingerie (online is an easy way to buy!) As a surprise gift for birthdays, vacations, vacations or anytime! & # 39; and go & # 39; verse & # 39; to bed.
Family planning: The couple has two children, a four-year-old named Israel and a one-year-old named Samuel
The devil is doing! She also said that she should not only meet sexual needs – meaning, not masturbate
& # 39; Showering & # 39; in the evening (and sometimes before he comes home when you come home for him!) And even placing fragrant lotion in front of him can be another way of saying: & # 39; I care & # 39; and & # 39; You are important to me, "and let him know when you are for fun," she wrote.
Jill is clearly & # 39; ready for fun & # 39; the moment her husband walks through the door – and suggested that women run to their husbands & # 39; when they get home & # 39; as you might have done when you first went out. & # 39;
& # 39; And when the kids are away, have fun! Be crazy with your husband! & # 39; she added.
Finally on the sex front, she said to give & # 39; at least a six-second kiss when she comes and goes & # 39; and & # 39; trust your body & # 39; even if you feel insecure.
& # 39; Chances are he is less worried about things you worry about that he doesn't like than you & # 39 ;, she wrote.
& # 39; He will be happier if you have confidence in yourself. And if there are things that you can change or do to gain more self-confidence about yourself, then it might be worth doing or setting a goal to get there eventually! & # 39;
Jill & # 39; s candid sex talk was a surprise for those familiar with the Duggars. According to the rules of her parents Michelle and Jim Bob, Jill and her siblings have all followed incredibly strict standards regarding dating and contact with the opposite sex.
Instead of dating traditionally, the Duggars prefer & # 39; courtship & # 39 ;, which they claim to date & # 39; with a purpose & # 39; is.
No resistance: Jill's tips were uncharacteristically frank about sex
This usually concerns the young man who asks for the consent of the young woman's parents and the couple gets to know each other on controlled dates on which they are always accompanied by supervisors.
During that time, physical contact is limited to hugs on the side that prevent the outrageous full frontal contact of the two bodies. The parents of the Duggars are also included in text message chains.
Chaperons continue to guide a few through their engagement, during which time they can add hand-hold to their side-hugs.
However, kisses – and everything that follows – are stored for the wedding day.
When Jill married Derick in 2014, they shared their first kiss on the altar for their friends and family.
The Duggars also adhere to conservative modesty standards in the field of clothing and have learned not to use birth control. Jim Bob and Michelle left family planning to God and welcomed as many babies as divine intervention would allow – and it seems so far that most of their children follow in their footsteps.
But Jill's recent explicit sex talk is a break with family tradition. Her siblings have usually not referred to sex at all – except in the case of older brother Josh's dating profiles on sites like Ashley Madison, as well as his apology for porn addiction and adultery.
Taking abstinence to a new level: Jill and Derick got married in 2014 and only shared their first kiss on their wedding day
Everything about those virgins: Jill and her brothers and sisters have followed very strict dating rules set by their parents
Her mother Michelle only said that women & # 39; joyfully available & # 39; must be for their husbands, because only they can meet their physical needs.
Jill & # 39; s advice, however, went beyond sex, although she told women to encourage & serve your husband, serve him and meet his needs & # 39; and & # 39; looking nice for him & # 39; even when they would rather wear PJ & # 39; s and go without makeup.
& # 39; Make sure you enjoy the time together a few times a week and look like you would go out if you were dating! & # 39; she wrote. & # 39; In addition, even if you work at home, it can & # 39; Just redecorate in the morning to give your day a boost! & # 39;
She said not to call even as a joke, and to always be & # 39; grateful & # 39; to find ways to praise & # 39; praise him & # 39; before the eyes of others.
& # 39; Although women's safety is usually of paramount importance, respect is probably the most important thing for most husbands! Ask your husband what he is doing that makes him feel respected and ask him what other ways he thinks you could show him more respect, & she wrote.
To that end, nagging is a no-no, according to Jill: & # 39; Never let your husband think you're his mother! Whether it's about demanding, delegating or licking your finger and wiping something off his face …
& # 39; If he says, "I feel like you are my mother if you …" pay attention and ask him what you can change / how you should handle the situation next time! & # 39;
Similarly, she said to remember that & # 39; your husband is not your father & # 39 ;.
Mom and dad are watching! Jim Bob and Michelle advised their children not to have more contact than & # 39; side hugs & # 39; before they are engaged, and then they can hold each other's hands
Army for God: The couple has 19 children of their own and do not believe in birth control
& # 39; You are teammates and he is your God-given protector. Keep this in mind and let it shape the way you relate, & she wrote.
Interestingly, Jill also advocated counseling if something went wrong in a marriage and encouraged women to leave abusive spouses.
& # 39; If you are in a violent relationship, do NOT stay! & # 39; she wrote. & # 39; Report directly to the authorities, ask for help and find a safe place to stay and get advice from a qualified Christian counselor! & # 39;
That specific advice stands out in the light of the public scandals of her family.
In the summer of 2015, InTouch magazine reported that Josh, now 31, had abused four of his younger sisters and a fifth child when he was a teenager.
Josh had admitted to his parents in 2002 that he had touched the breasts and genitals of the other children several times, including sisters Jill and Jessa. Josh went to Christian counseling for a few months.
After the news came to light, TLC canceled the show of Duggars, 19 Kids and Counting – which has since risen under a new name, Counting On.
But it was only the first of the scandals. That same summer – just a month after Josh and Anna welcomed their fourth child – when a hacker released user information for the website about adultery Ashley Madison and Josh was found among those who had used the services.
That's new: Duggars haven't talked openly about sex in the past – except for Josh's oldest sabers, the sex scandals
Sticking forever: Josh and Anna are now expecting six children, and it seems that Anna has forgiven him for cheating and using websites such as Ashley Madison
His profile included interests such as & # 39; one-night stands & # 39; and & # 39; experiment with sex toys & # 39 ;.
Josh openly admitted to being unfaithful and had a porn addiction and called himself & # 39; the greatest hypocrite ever & # 39; in a statement.
& # 39; While I believe and faith in family values, I have secretly watched pornography on the internet for the last few years and this became a secret addiction and I became unfaithful to my wife & # 39 ;, he wrote.
& # 39; I am so ashamed of the double life that I have lived and I am sad because of the pain, the shame and the shame my sin caused for my wife and family, and above all for Jesus and everyone who believes in Him & # 39;
Anna kept the famous with him and moved with his children to his parents' house, while Josh sought more Christian counseling treatments.
Together they have five children: nine-year-old Mackynzie, seven-year-old Michael, six-year-old Marcus, three-year-old Meredith and one-year-old Mason.
They recently announced that they are expecting their sixth in November, another little girl.
Josiah, 22, and his wife Lauren, 20, are also expecting a daughter after Lauren suffered a miscarriage last year.
Joe, 24, and his wife Kendra, 20, are also expecting a daughter, while Joy Anna, 21, and her husband Austin Forsyth have not announced the gender of their baby.
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