Mother of four shares the heartbreaking reason that she didn’t show her husband naked for six years – and the post hits an agreement with most women
- Jessica Hood said that since her children she has no faith in her husband
- They only have sex in the dark and she hates it when he touches her stomach
- The mother of four knows that this feeling is common and wants to break through her fear
- Her detailed confession has been praised by other mothers on social media
A four-year-old mother in Melbourne has revealed why she is not allowing her husband to see her naked – and has done so for six years.
Jessica Hood shared an image with her “House of Hoods” Instagram page with a meaningful, detailed caption explaining how she lacks body confidence around her husband since she has children.
“From the moment my firstborn arrived, my body was covered for my husband. I trust, but not with my husband, “she said.
Jessica Hood (in the photo with her husband) shared an image on her Instagram page ‘House of Hoods’ with a detailed caption explaining how little body confidence she has had around her husband since she had children
“From the moment my firstborn arrived, my body was covered for my husband. I trust, but not with my husband, “she said
The 31-year-old fears that her husband will see her and ‘run away’ or ‘disgusted’ and ‘disabled’.
“I know it hurts him and although I feel that I am accepting my body more and more every day, I am afraid he will not accept it,” she continued.
‘He tells me all the time that he doesn’t care, but what if it is different when he really sees me? Me all My sagging belly, my stretch marks, my cellulite, my sandwiches. I’m not the girl that I was when we first met. “
Jessica also revealed that they only have sex in the dark, she never dresses for him and she feels anxious when he touches her stomach.
Jessica revealed that they only have sex in the dark, she never gets dressed for him and she feels anxious when he touches her stomach
The long caption slowly turns into an apparently poetic verse of an emotional plea, as Jessica describes herself as a woman who has lost herself, her identity, her physique and her sparkle since she became a mother.
Although she knows that this feeling is common among women, she says “someday” that she will no longer be self-aware of her flaws and her body.
“But I don’t want to feel that way forever. He deserves me. Me all, “she said.
“Just give me time. You will all get me one day. “
Although she knows that this feeling is common in women, she says “one day” that she is no longer self-aware of her flaws and her body
The confession was praised on social media with many other women who said they also have a shield for their husbands after having children.
“Thank you for expressing what so many of us have trouble saying,” a woman said.
Another added: “This made me sad. We have all had these uncertainties at one time or another, you are not alone. You are beautiful.’