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Women who have had affairs reveal what they were really thinking while sleeping with someone else’s husband – and the bitter truth has left thousands of people horrified.
An Australian woman was recently cheated on and wanted to investigate how the “other woman” felt in a similar situation, so she asked her side of the story on an online forum.
‘I felt a mutual attraction with men who I later discovered were married. Knowing that a man is married is instantly a brick wall. I couldn’t be the source of someone’s misery. I wonder how some women can do it. Is it a coincidence or a search? She said.
Many revealed that they knowingly dated married men “because they could,” and some confessed that they had no regrets about the affair.
Others claim they were “fooled” into the situation and had no idea their partner was lying to them.
Women who have had affairs reveal what they really thought (file image)
The Australian woman’s Facebook post received hundreds of comments.
‘For those who knew the boy was attached but continued to see them, I would really love to understand and get some perspective. You have been scammed? It worked? Were there any regrets? Do women seek out married men and why? she asked.
Several stated that the traps did not faze them at all; one of them stated that this has been going on for five years.
“I’m the other woman,” one admitted. ‘I don’t care if people want to be harsh, I’ve heard it all before. We knew each other before it started. She knew that she had a wife. There are no feelings involved, especially on my part, I don’t want a relationship with him.
‘It’s not exclusive, he knows I sleep with other people. It’s been five years and we still talk daily. He usually comes to my house, we go out and do things together. We’ve gone on vacation together! It works because we have no obligations.’
‘I have slept with guys who have had partners. Honestly, I didn’t really care and it was just sex. “I was never going to get any further,” another shared.
‘I was the other woman for two and a half years. We are in Australia and his wife lives in Malaysia. I personally don’t believe in marriage and never have. “We weren’t meant to be monogamous,” said a third.
Some revealed that they did it for closure or because the attraction was too strong.
‘We were friends with benefits before he met her. I felt terrible and I still feel terrible. I feel a strange attraction to him, but I want a real relationship. “Knowing and doing is never a good thing, but we are humans with emotions that surpass us,” said one.
And he added: “I’m not sorry, it was a life experience.” She needed closure. Like in the past, I was cheated on, so I guess I got to experience the other side! I do not regret.’
One woman shared the real reason she kept coming back.
“At first I didn’t know he had a girlfriend, and when I met her at a mutual friend’s wedding he told me he proposed to her! I was shocked, why didn’t he tell me? Why wasn’t he honest? No There were feelings, it was all just fun, so why not be honest?
‘Why did I keep coming back? I liked the attention, I liked feeling special even though he was cheating on me, I liked feeling desired.
“It all ended when she found out and I realized how horrible it all was. I will never disrespect myself enough to be the other woman again.