A sex expert has revealed the main reason women fake orgasms and admits she knows some men simply don’t care whether their partner fakes it or not.
Sex and relationship expert Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn appeared on the 90s Baby Show podcast with London-based hosts Fred Santana, Temi Alchemy and ‘VP’, to share her knowledge on this polarising topic.
According to the specialist, women often “fake orgasms” out of consideration for their partner(s) and for fear of “hurting their feelings.”
To Dr. Tara’s surprise, the three male hosts, while sharing their own opinion on the matter, said that the fake act was of no importance as they could easily “get over it” and have sex with the woman again “tomorrow.”
Sex expert Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn (pictured) has revealed the main reason why women fake orgasms
She appeared on the 90s Baby Show podcast with London-based hosts Fred Santana (pictured), Temi Alchemy and VP, to share her knowledge on the polarising topic.
In a fragment shared with Instagram, She explained: ‘There’s a lot of research into why women fake orgasms and it’s largely so as not to hurt our partner.’
The presenters exchanged a look of recognition before Fred Santana replied: “I want women to know that men have incredible resilience.”
“Especially when it comes to sex,” the vice president added.
The host then unleashed a shocking truth that some women may not have considered.
VP continued: ‘I’m not going to stop having sex with you. No matter what you tell me… I’ll be back tomorrow.’
The room erupted in laughter as Temi Alchemy joked, “If you give me another chance, I’ll try again.”
VP also said that he was also considerate when it came to bedroom activities and enjoyed making sure a woman was satisfied.
“Honestly, my favorite thing to do is your favorite thing… whatever that is,” she concluded.
Dr Tara said women often “fake orgasms” out of consideration for their partner(s) and fear of “hurting their feelings”.
Presenter VP (pictured) said: ‘I’m not going to stop having sex with you. No matter what you say to me… I’ll be back tomorrow.’
The honest conversation with Dr. Tara, host of the Luvbites podcast, sparked a mixed reaction from listeners.
While some men said it was “very informative,” one woman stated that faking an orgasm would surely “scatter” a man’s ego.
One defiant man said: “Wow! That could never happen to me, I’m always satisfied.”
“I don’t fake it anymore. I’ll just sigh and tell them I’m frustrated,” one woman said.
Meanwhile, one man wrote: “As a man, you should know when a woman is lying (because) your body is telling you so. From what I’ve heard, men don’t take the time for foreplay and that’s key.”
However, according to a sex expert, women who fake orgasms to keep their man happy could be asking for trouble if he finds out.
While some men found the information to be “informative,” one woman stated that faking an orgasm would surely “scatter” a man’s ego.
Model turned relationship coach Katie Flowers claims to have helped hundreds of women find a man, but warns that dishonesty in the bedroom erodes the trust that builds a long-term relationship.
And while they may think their acting skills are up to the job, they may be fooling themselves if they think they can keep their partner in the dark because the signs are easy to spot.
“Don’t underestimate the power of your intuition,” the sex expert advised men. “If you feel like something isn’t right, it probably is.”
Surveys suggest that three-quarters of heterosexual women have faked an orgasm at least once, while 20 percent do so regularly.
And Katie believes that moaning, screaming and histrionic yelling are not signs of success that men should look for.
Flushed cheeks, smiles, and eye contact are likely to be a much more reliable guide.
“Genuine pleasure is marked by authenticity and spontaneity,” he said. The New York Post.
‘Look for signs that indicate a natural, unplanned experience.’
“At the core of every meaningful relationship is a foundation of honesty and vulnerability,” she added. “Fake orgasms not only erode this foundation, they also perpetuate a cycle of misunderstanding and dissatisfaction.”
