A relationship researcher has discovered how people can get away with cheating and talked about the ways a player can be spotted.
Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, has made a career of helping people find the love of their lives and keeping them away from the cheaters of the world.
However, while connecting people with their soulmates, the romance pro discovered that many couples ended up breaking up when one person caught the other getting frisky with another person.
While speaking exclusively to DailyMail.com, Susan revealed how people can juggle multiple lovers without letting anyone in on their dirty secret.
While he doesn’t condone infidelity, the expert shared the ways people sneak around and keep their partner completely out of the loop.
She told DailyMail.com: ‘You can’t have a fingerprint. You have to get a burner phone.
‘You need to disable data sources in your Gmail, like your GeoPoints, because you can go back. I looked for someone again for five years and found out that her husband had been cheating on her and got a motel.
‘Don’t send (explicit) text messages even on the burner phone. Don’t tell anyone anything and make sure you kiss behind closed doors.
A relationship researcher has discovered the various ways people can get their way (stock image)
Susan pointed out that when meeting secret lovers in public, discretion must be maintained.
‘Keep it professional, don’t touch it. “Keep your physical distance from the person you are with and always keep your physical distance from the person you are with,” he told DailyMail.com.
‘When it comes to hotel rooms, go one at a time. I would say go an hour apart.
He also advised keeping your mouth shut on the matter, adding that you shouldn’t even say a word to your AI friend.
When it came to technology, Susan explained that this was how lovers got caught cheating, as people were always looking to have ‘AI girlfriends’.
Fortunately, the relationship professional revealed that cheaters could change and that the phrase “once a cheater, always a cheater” wasn’t always true.
‘Many people cheat. “People cheat because they have a need that needs to be met,” he said.
“People cheat because they’re lonely or in the wrong relationship, but that doesn’t mean they’ll do it again.”
Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, has made a career of helping people find the love of their lives and steer them away from cheaters.
While speaking exclusively to DailyMail.com, Susan revealed how people can juggle multiple lovers without letting anyone in on their dirty secret (file image)
Susan pointed out that you shouldn’t be deterred by a couple who cheated on their last lover because they didn’t have that emotional or sexual connection.
However, although he said cheaters could be molded to be the perfect companions, the players “would never be faithful” and they were the ones to watch out for.
While speaking to DailyMail.com, he talked about how you can spot a player and why you should run as soon as he gets close to you.
‘It will be very clear, they are not going to commit to anyone. “If they commit to you, they will never be fully committed,” he said.
When it comes to finding out if your crush is a player, Susan pointed out that there were a few ways to find out.
‘Look at their social media, look for lots of photos of them with scantily clad women. “They are always on the phone,” he explained.
‘They are very heavy with the opposite sex and will tell you that they have multiple relationships and friendships with the other sex.
‘They will often be vague with you and avoid having deep conversations. They will avoid defining your relationship, but they are all over you.
Susan advised that such people should be let go immediately as “players just need their egos stroked.”