Are you tired of reading? Psychologist reveals the four signs your crush isn’t interested in you based on how they text
- Francesca Tighinean is originally from Romania but is now based in the US
- The psychologist and coach has more than 1.3 million followers on TikTok
- Now she’s shared the four signs your crush has no feelings for you
A psychologist has revealed the four ways you can tell if your crush is interested in you based on how they text.
Originally from Romania but now living in the US, Francesca Tighinean studied psychology at City University in London.
She has since gained viral fame by sharing a slew of psychology tips with her 1.3 million followers on TikTok.
In her most recent clip, she gave viewers a list of signs to help them identify if someone is just stringing them on and has no real feelings for them.
Francesca Tighinean Is A Psychologist Who Revealed The Four Ways You Can Tell If Your Crush Is Interested In You Based On How They Text
The first sign that your crush may not be the one is the speed with which they respond to you
She captioned the video: “Four text signs that they’re actually not interested.”
Tough love! The signs your crush doesn’t feel the same way
They take too long to respond to your text messages
You are always the one who starts the conversation
They only give you attention on social media but cannot have conversations
They never make plans with you
The first sign that your crush may not be the one is the speed with which they respond to you.
“Number one, text slowly. The moment you get the feeling, “Oh, they texted me in four hours, I’m waiting seven hours,” when you get the feeling that you have to play games to get their attention, that’s a huge red flag ,” she explained.
“They’re not really interested.”
She noted that if your crush had real feelings for you, you didn’t have to play games to communicate with them.
Francesca’s next revealing sign that they may not like you has to do with how much you and your potential partner talk.
If you find yourself always texting them more often and are the only one reaching out, it’s most likely a sign that they don’t feel the same way.
“If you’re constantly the one continuing the conversation and if you stop it, they won’t continue,” said the psychologist.
Oftentimes, potential lovers will string you along by giving you attention on social media, but refuse to have substantial conversations with you.
The psychologist gave the example of liking your Instagram photos, adding that it meant nothing if they didn’t have other chats with you.
Francesca’s next revealing sign that they may not like you has to do with how much you and your potential partner talk
She also revealed that only giving attention on social media and not making plans with you were red flags
“If they like your Instagram photos and occasionally comment on your stories, but they can’t hold a conversation, that’s your cue to run for the hills,” she added.
“They just string you along with some interaction, but they’re not really interested.”
The last sign that your crush has no feelings for you is if they never make plans and carry them out.
“Number four, no hard plans. You text and text for days, but you don’t actually make concrete plans to meet in person, run,” she said at the end of her video.