I’m A Dating Expert And Here Are 3 Things Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Should NEVER Say To You
A dating coach has revealed three things your boyfriend or girlfriend should never say while in a relationship.
Jacob Lucas is a UK-based trainer who has used his real-life methods to “help millions of people have the love life they’ve always wanted.”
In addition to working directly with clients, she shares dating content on TikTok for her more than 750,000 followers. He is also the author of the Her Dating Coach guide.
In a recent video on tiktok, outlined three things couples shouldn’t say to each other, saying that if your partner does any of these things, they may not be a good person to be in a relationship with.
According to Jacob, people who use the tactics he highlighted in his video may have a hard time expressing themselves adequately.
The dating coach (pictured) listed three things your boyfriend or girlfriend should never tell you while in a relationship
In the video, he says, “I’m a professional dating coach, and here are three things your boyfriend or girlfriend should never say or do when they’re in a relationship with you.”
“And if your partner is doing any of these things, then you may want to reconsider if that’s the right person for you, because these are all big red flags.”
Starting with the first point, he says, “Number one, every time they don’t get their way with you, they ghost you as a form of punishment.”
He goes on to say that by ghosting you, someone doing this will want you to haunt them, so they “feel superior to you and feel like they’re getting away with it again.”
And he added: “This also shows me that they do not know how to articulate [themselves] properly.
“So the result is stupid tactics, like hiding your own boyfriend and girlfriend, and this is not the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with.”
Moving on to her next point, she says, “Number two, whenever you’re arguing with your boyfriend or girlfriend, instead of discussing it in a calm way, they always say they’re leaving the relationship when they really have no intention of leaving you.”
“They are trying to make you eager to leave you, so you become much nicer to whatever they say.
Jacob (pictured) said threatening to leave when you don’t mean it is a toxic way some people engage in arguments.
If they want to dump you, whatever, but it shouldn’t be seen as a tool to win an argument.
“This is a really immature and horrible tactic that your partner should never do to you.”
His end point is also obnoxious behavior that he says partners should never have with each other.
He explains: ‘Number three…it’s a horrible thing to do in a relationship.
And it will always provoke an argument. This is when they start to compare you negatively to other people, especially their exes.