A dating coach has revealed the five signs that your relationship is over and the spark between you and your partner is gone forever.
Paige Moyce, from southeast England, took to her TikTok to help those who feel lost in their relationships and wonder if they should leave.
She said it’s “very natural” to be conflicted about this decision because you can love your partner but still feel like it may never work out between you.
Paige said the first sign that your relationship is over is that you’re staying for a whole list of reasons, but your happiness isn’t one of them.
“Maybe you stay because of the kids, maybe you stay because you’re afraid of being alone or you don’t want them with anyone else,” he said.
“Maybe you stay because you’re afraid of what it would be like to leave, or you don’t want to hurt that person.”
Whatever the reason, your own happiness is nowhere near the top of the list, or even on it.
The second sign is when communication turns into conflict. Even when you watch your tone or choose the “right time” to speak, it seems like you end up in an argument.
She said: ‘All this does is drive a bigger and bigger wedge between you and this person. If our needs are not met, how long will this relationship last?
Paige added that loneliness is another indicator that the relationship is doomed and said that people can feel lonelier in a relationship than outside of it.
Paige Moyce, from the south of England, took to her TikTok to help those who feel lost in their relationships and wonder if they should leave.
He added: “Just because we are physically with someone doesn’t mean we are emotionally with someone.” If you’re honest, when was the last time you felt special in this relationship? When was the last time you felt valued?
The fourth sign that your relationship is over is that you have lost your sense of individuality because you have put your partner first.
“You’ve put this person in front of you so many times that it’s normal to do it now, but now you don’t know what you want,” he said.
‘Because you’ve prioritized the other person, you’re now wondering what you want, which can make you feel overwhelmed.
Lastly, Paige said that if you were given a magic wand with the option to leave, you would take the opportunity.
She said: “If someone could guarantee that you could get through it, that it wouldn’t be hell, that you would be happy again, that you would meet someone else and that you would be confident again, you would accept it.”
The video racked up nearly 20,000 likes and TikTok users commented on their thoughts on the clip.
The video racked up nearly 20,000 likes and TikTok users commented on their thoughts on the clip.
One wrote: “I broke up with him because I thought he was being mature but he is my home and my rock and I love him so much, I don’t know why I did this.”
Another wrote: “I have completely lost attraction to him because my needs have not been met for so many years.” He is a good person and now he is trying, but he is so scared that it is too late. It’s been months.’
A third wrote: ‘Thank you for this video. I’ve been going over my thoughts for months, but with this video I organized my mind.’
A fourth commented: ‘I just got out of a 9 year relationship for some of these reasons. This video has given me massive validation, so thank you.”