A dating coach has revealed the 10 signs you have amazing chemistry with someone, and some of them may surprise you.
Jacob Lucas is a UK-based coach who suggests he has used his real-life methods to “help millions of people get the love life they’ve always wanted.”
He is the author of the Her Dating Coach guide and creator of TikTok, where he has more than 765,000 followers on his account @jacoblucas101.
in a recent videoJacob revealed the secrets behind having chemistry with your partner, crush, or date, from a passionate first kiss to feeling comfortable with each other.
Jacob said it’s clear whether or not you have amazing chemistry with someone from the beginning.
Dating coach Jacob Lucas has revealed 10 signs you have amazing chemistry with someone, and some of them may surprise you.
Unsurprisingly, she said an easy way to tell is if “the first kiss they had felt amazing.”
His second piece of advice was more unexpected: He said that you and your partner could be a good match if you like your “natural scent.”
First dates can often be filled with awkward silences and pauses in conversation.
But in the long run this can hinder chemistry, with sign number three being “you can talk to them for hours without getting bored” and another being “silences feel very comfortable and never awkward.”
You might think that having amazing chemistry with someone might make it difficult to fall asleep next to them, but Jacob says you should find that “you fall asleep very easily” when you’re next to them.
This is because being around them should make you feel comfortable and safe.
Chemistry is also something you should be able to feel by analyzing your own feelings when you are with them.
While Jacob’s first tip (have an “amazing” first kiss) was expected, his second was more surprising.
Jacob listed the following signs as “when you make eye contact, it feels very intense” and none of “you always feel a magnetic attraction to that person wherever you are.”
The sign eight is “they are comfortable touching each other,” while the number nine is “they find it very easy to flirt with each other.”
To end the video, he said that no matter how long you’ve known your partner, a sign that you two have chemistry is when “you feel like you’ve known them forever.”
Viewers quickly took to the comments to share their own experiences, with one joking: “And then he says he doesn’t want a relationship.”
Another added: “I feel like all 10s happen every time I meet a man.” A third was more positive, sharing that: “I’m all 10 with my fiancé.”