An expat has shared a “strange” observation about men in Australia and the biggest difference she has noticed in her love life after moving countries.
taylor stevensonfrom Canada, said things are “backwards” in Australia because men don’t approach her in public.
‘When I first moved here, not a single guy came up to me in clubs and hit on me. I found it a little strange, I felt offended,” she said in a video.
The lack of attention turned out to be a surprising advantage because he could just “hang out with the girls and have a good time.”
“Now I have a boyfriend and every time we go to clubs, there are thousands of girls coming up to him and flirting with him, and not a single guy comes up to me,” Taylor added.
‘Is this how it is here? Do the girls make an effort? Is it a bit backwards?
The cultural change at home was jarring.
‘In North America, boys approach girls. “I don’t know any girl who approaches a boy,” she said.
Tayler Stevenson, from Canada, said things are “backwards” in Australia because men don’t approach her in public.
Tayler also noticed that Australia’s men lacked height.
‘Why are all boys short?’ she asked. “I’m a pretty short girl and I tower over all these men in the club.”
Hundreds of Australian women told Tayler that men probably didn’t approach her because they felt intimidated, while others commented on the dating culture in Australia.
“It’s because you’re awesome and they don’t want to be rejected,” one fan said.
One woman shared, “My ex used to get hit on every time I left the house and refused to believe guys weren’t flirting with me everywhere.”
“The kids here want princess treatment and I’m so tired,” one woman wrote.
“Similar situation in New Zealand,” said one Auckland resident. ‘Nobody talks to anyone when they go out, not even in clubs. A very different scene from that of North America.”
An Australian added: “Every time I travel I experience what should be, and then I come back here and I’m invisible.”
Tayler also noticed that men in Australia lacked height.
Some men shared insights about their actions.
“We are protecting our peace,” one man wrote. “Dating in Australia is cooked so we don’t bother each other anymore.”
“Guys have been told many times that women would prefer us not to approach them,” said another.
“Don’t talk to her, leave her alone – maybe Australians just know how to listen better.”
‘Australian girls are too toxic to approach. “They have an exaggerated sense of worth,” added a third.