A man has questioned whether he was wrong to force his fiancée to choose between him or her body, as he admitted he threatened to leave her if she got bigger breast implants.
The 29-year-old, who did not share his name online, took to Reddit to unleash a furious rant about his 36-year-old lover’s obsession with plastic surgery.
He explained that she wanted to have a third breast augmentation operation and told the website that he wanted to break up with her if she went under the knife again.
In a thread titled Am I the idiot?The man revealed that his decision to get even larger implants struck a chord with him because it is not something the “person (he) fell in love with” would do.
He begged people online for advice on how to proceed as he pondered whether leaving his future wife would make him a “jerk.”
A man has questioned whether he was wrong to force his fiancée to choose between him and her body as he admitted he threatened to leave her if she got bigger breast implants (file image)
The post was titled: “Am I an idiot for telling my fiancée I’ll leave her if she gets bigger breast implants?”
At the beginning of the post, he explained that he had been with his fiancée, whom he named Laura, for five years after meeting on a dating app.
After the couple dated for a few years, they eventually moved in together and got engaged.
However, things have gotten worse since then.
‘We have been living together ever since and have been engaged for two years, although there are no wedding plans yet.
‘Overall, we share the same outlook on life, values and beliefs. We live childless and focus on our health, our careers and our shared and unshared interests.
‘When we met, Laura already had breast implants in place. She got her first ones after graduating, when she was 20, and she was honest with me about them from the beginning.
“Literally, on the second or third date she just told me straight up that she had fake boobs. I’m fine with that, it’s her body and her choice and I respect that. I love her anyway,” she explained.
The 29-year-old, who did not share his name online, took to Reddit to unleash a furious tirade about his 36-year-old lover’s obsession with plastic surgery.
She noted that her breast surgery at the time looked “natural” and that she got it because she originally had breasts smaller than an “A cup.”
The 29-year-old added: ‘We’ve talked about things around her decision and cosmetic surgeries in general, and we both think cosmetic surgeries are unnecessary, when you go too far and build up something unnatural, and should only be done safely and tastefully.
“She told me she bought a size smaller because she wanted to keep her look as natural as possible. During our time together, she’s had one boob job, which I helped pay for.”
After her second breast augmentation surgery, her fiancée decided she wanted to have an even bigger breast augmentation surgery that would make her breasts “a few sizes bigger and add a lot of C’s.”
She explained that her problem with the latest surgery suggestion was that they would be “disproportionate to her body.”
“I don’t understand why he wants to have such an operation. The idea is strange to me and I can’t believe what he has decided to do. When I found out how big he wanted to get, I was really surprised and thought he was joking.
‘It’s not going to be good. It’s not just the unnatural look that worries and angers me, but also the fact that overly large implants can be harmful to health and the surgery itself is risky.
“I’m really worried about her and I can’t understand why she wants to have big boobs. We’ve talked about it and she’s explained her decision to me. She wants bigger boobs to look ‘better’, which she claims is what she wants,” he said.
People on the web flooded the comments section and rushed to the 29-year-old’s defense.
At the end of the post, she revealed that she made it clear to her partner that she would leave her if she went ahead and underwent the surgery.
He added: “I told her I would leave her if she decided to pursue the big dreams she had planned. I never thought I would have to make a decision like that, but I feel like I don’t know her at all anymore.”
“I thought we agreed to keep our bodies natural and healthy, and if she decides to get those giant breast implants, that’s not the person I fell in love with anymore, inside or out. I told her I would leave her if she got bigger breast implants.”
She then wondered if he would be an “idiot” for leaving if she got a boob job.
People on the web flooded the comments section and rushed to the 29-year-old’s defense.
One person said: “Since this is something you’ve discussed in depth before, I don’t see why you’re not bringing it up now. I think it’s best for her to know where you stand. Normally I wouldn’t side with someone giving unsolicited advice, but it seems like this is an ongoing conversation so I’m going to say you’re not a jerk.”
Another user added: “I think she has every right to get implants. Her body is her choice. You have every right to not accept it too. No, you moron.”
Someone else wrote: “No, that moron. She has her choice, you have yours.”
One user commented: “No, not that jerk. He changes his appearance in a way that you don’t find attractive, and for health and safety reasons.”
“It’s not your fault or anyone else’s fault that you like or dislike other human beings. It just is. It’s attraction. No one controls it.”
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