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I Run a Nudist Resort and Here’s the Dos and Don’ts of Getting Naked on a Vacation Retreat (And How Erections Are Treated)

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Karie Jane (left) created BHH Naturist Resort in the Canary Islands, Spain, after trying the lifestyle for the first time 20 years ago.

The owner of a naturist resort in Fuerteventura has revealed all about nudist holidays.

The 57-year-old explained the do’s and don’ts of going skinny, from making eye contact to dealing with erections, and pointed out why naked vacations aren’t about sexual attraction.

Karie Jane, from Derbyshire, created BHH Naturist Resort in the Canary Islands, Spain, after trying this lifestyle for the first time 20 years ago.

Now, he hosts retreats where he hosts groups of strangers who have ‘booked separately’ to enjoy clothing-optional hotel rooms on his property, as well as hosting families and couples.

On her resort’s website, Karie notes that “nudism is not shameful nor is it porn,” and told MailOnline Travel that when it comes to the etiquette of getting naked in front of other naturists, it’s all a matter of respect, ” and it is a mistake to think so.” It’s about sexual attraction.’

Karie Jane (left) created BHH Naturist Resort in the Canary Islands, Spain, after trying the lifestyle for the first time 20 years ago.

Karie explained that naturists should always sit on a towel when naked 'out of courtesy' and for hygiene reasons.

Karie explained that naturists should always sit on a towel when naked ‘out of courtesy’ and for hygiene reasons.

Men and women can book their stay at BHH Naturist Resort (above) from £80 ($101) per night.

Men and women can book their stay at BHH Naturist Resort (above) from £80 ($101) per night.

Karie (above) explained that the appeal of nudism is

Karie (above) explained that the appeal of nudism is “the freedom to wear clothes and feel liberated.”

Karie continued: ‘Etiquette in every situation, not just in naturism, is about respect and consideration for others about our own conduct.

‘With your bare butt you should always sit on a towel out of courtesy and hygiene towards others. “This is an example of etiquette that then promotes kindness, thoughtfulness and humility.”

And it adds on its website: “You will be asked to sit on your towel regardless of whether you have just taken a cool shower.”

The 57-year-old hotel’s FAQ page adds that you should always “keep your legs together” when sitting, as “we all know you have one and no one wants to see your legs spread.”

Meanwhile, showers before entering the pool or hot tub are mandatory, and Karie noted that it can be transferred.dirt, grass, oils, sunscreen, lotions, deodorants and sweat’ into the community water.

Karie hosts naturist retreats, with female guests pictured here at one of her women-only Ladies Weeks enjoying a macramé making session.

Karie hosts naturist retreats, with female guests pictured here at one of her women-only Ladies Weeks enjoying a macramé making session.

Two of Karie's guests enjoy skinny dipping during a trip on a rented yacht.

Two of Karie’s guests enjoy skinny dipping during a trip on a rented yacht.

Do you have any protocol regarding erections?

“They can happen,” says the resort owner, “especially if you’re new to nudism.”

She says the best way to deal with them “is to roll over on the towel or, if you’re at the beach, you can stay in the water until your situation is more under control.”

If someone calls attention to the fact that they are standing at attention, Karie says they should be reported.

She explains: “If you see someone with an obvious erection and they are purposely attracting attention, tell a lifeguard or the authorities and, in most cases, they will be kicked out and banned from returning.”

Staring at someone’s body is also frowning.

Karie’s website says: “It’s very rude to stare, and also, if you’re going to have a conversation with someone, make sure you’re talking to them with proper eye contact.”

“If you’re going to an event or the beach to have fun… you might as well buy a magazine and do us all a favor and stay home.”

Showers before entering the pool or jacuzzi are mandatory.

Showers before entering the pool or jacuzzi are mandatory.

Karie and some of her guests enjoy the sun on a nude beach

Karie and some of her guests enjoy the sun on a nude beach

Karie's naturist resort is in Fuerteventura (above). She says:

Karie’s naturist resort is in Fuerteventura (above). She says: “If you see someone with an obvious erection and they are purposely attracting attention, notify a lifeguard or the authorities.”

The Do’s and Don’ts of Nudist Vacations

BY KARIE JANE, OWNER OF BHH NATURIST RESORT

Body language

You don’t need verbal language to be able to know what you are not saying.

Body language can sometimes speak louder than words. You don’t want to sit there like the barn doors are wide open.

Sit correctly and keep your legs together. We all know you have one. Nobody wants to see your legs spread wide open.

Erections

Yes, they can happen, especially if you are new to nudism.

The best way to deal with this is to roll over on the towel or, if you are at the beach, you can stay in the water until your situation is more under control.

However, if you see someone with an obvious erection and is purposely attracting attention, report it to a lifeguard or the authorities and, in most cases, you will be ejected and prohibited from returning.

towels

Towels are ESSENTIAL. There are various sizes and types of towels that you can use to sit on for hygiene reasons.

Wherever you go, if you’re going to sit anywhere, you should sit on your towel. Especially if you are going to someone’s house or visiting a resort. You will be asked to sit on your towel regardless of whether you just took a cool shower.

Showers

If you are going to a pool or hot tub, shower before entering one.

This helps make sure it is clean of anything that could dirty the water, for example… dirt, grass, oils, sunscreen, lotions, deodorants, sweat, etc. They don’t ask you to shower because you yourself are dirty… but it helps keep the water much cleaner for longer.

Cameras

I think most nudist recreational activities won’t allow you to bring or use a camera because it’s not polite to just go around taking photos. Many people don’t want to be in your photo album.

If you’re going to take a photo, you’d better make sure everyone in the shot has permission, or you could simply find yourself kicked out of wherever you are and this could also hinder your standing with the club. resort or federation departures in the future.

Eye contact

‘Hey, my eyes are up here!’ It’s very rude to stare, and also, if you’re going to have a conversation with someone, make sure you’re talking to them with proper eye contact. If you are going to an event or the beach to have fun… better buy a magazine and do us all a favor and stay home.

Also, it’s very rude to talk about other people’s bodies. Avoid it and talk about something safer like food or the weather.

nudist beaches

When you’re at a nude beach, just because you’re allowed to be naked doesn’t mean the facilities are accessible naked, so keep your clothes close by or wrap a towel around yourself when visiting the beach cafe, for example.

Jeweler’s

Tasteful body jewelry and piercings are acceptable as long as they are not used in a sexual context.

Sex

Any sexual activity in a public setting is not only offensive… it is illegal.

Nobody wants to see that. However, holding hands, a hug, or a simple kiss is fine. If you want to show more affection to someone you love, I suggest you get a room or wait until you return home to do it.

Clothes

Yes, we are nudists, but not stupid. At naturist resorts, clothing is sometimes permitted when it is cold or if the weather is bad, however, lingerie is not considered appropriate clothing in any of these circumstances.

Karie explained that the appeal of nudism is “the freedom to wear clothes and feel liberated.”

The resort owner said: “When you’ve seen dozens of naked people in a day, believe me, you start to feel a lot less worried about your breasts, your lips, your pubes, your cellulite, your freckles, your whatever.” he hangs up, it’s normal.

“Because you can see very clearly that it is.”

Karie, an avid nudist, hosts occasional women-only retreats where naked women gather to experience “pampering sessions, macramé crafts, private sailboat rentals” and even a “jeep safari.”

Talking about her latest ‘ladies week’ event, she said: ‘We’ve already had pamper sessions and long walks on the beach with interesting conversations over a skinny dip or two.

‘An all-you-can-eat barbecue at a local surf bar was great fun, followed by live rock music and dancing with the locals.

“The yacht trip should be a highlight, especially if the dolphins come out to play.”

Karie shared some of the reviews from women who enjoyed a week at her resort.

Sally said: “Talk about a life change, I’ll never be the same.”

While Steph added: “I highly recommend the whole experience which was perfect.”

The nude host previously led a men-only yoga retreat and explained that she “also leads a lot of co-ed groups.”

He added that “like any group, dressed up or not, it’s great to be with like-minded people.”

The next ‘Ladies Weeks’ will take place from October 8 to 15, 2024, and April 7 to 14, 2025. Men and women can book their stay at BHH Naturist Resort Fuerteventura outside of these dates from £80 ($101) per evening. Visit naturistascanarios.com.

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